Woman says men are not approaching women at functions anymore

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This sounds like internet babble, "free ego boosts?"

What's internet babble about it?

A lot of these dudes are smart enough not to be rejection monkeys who only serve the purpose of boosting a woman's ego before she tosses him in the bin of dusty, thirsties who shouldn't be bothering her.
 

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If she's available/single, one of my Coli Brehs needs to find this woman and snatch her up ASAP.
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There are two points here.

The first is that the reason for this is the whole me too shyt and women saying they don't like attention from guys. I understand not all women feel that way but with whats been going on in recent years nikkas got to be careful. Thirsty nikkas kinda ruined the whole cold approach game and made shyt awkward.

The second is that women can also try approaching dudes but I doubt that happens cause it's just not common. Psychologically men have to do the initial chase as women don't usually have the confidence and they expect a man to be more dominant and take charge. A woman approaching may feel like she is taking the dominant role and that's not what you want.
 

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The original is from TikTok
Basically this black woman from Texas posted how black men don't approach.....
jess on TikTok

It started some responses from black men and this woman.


Side note: we really need tick tock embed
This video is her entire problem:

jess on TikTok
She's 100% on point

can't approach at the store because they're shopping, cant approach at the gym cause they're working out, can't approach on the street because they don't know you, can't approach at a party because they are with their girls...when I lived in san Francisco it got so bad that women would head to twitter just to out a guy because the guy asked for a girls.number while he was at work

And this is from the outside looking in because I've been in a relationship for a minute but I can't imagine what some single dudes are going through

If the woman finds the man attractive it doesn't matter where he's approaching.
 

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Just watched the video. She does have a point.

Women who act strange are NEVER going to be approached. They're going to end up regretting this "don't see me" behavior when they get old and wrinkly.

It's all about communication. Something, modern women NEED some help doing.

This is why women need a man to guide them. To coach them. To tell them what they need to improve on. Case and point: Kevin Samuels.

These types of girls are just playing themselves broski. Time wasters.

Advice for men: Never chase. We the prize.

Moral of the story for women: Get out of your head. That's fukking up the vibe
 

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Why TF would any right thinking man approach a woman with a CHEST TATOO??????
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Like many others have said, SHE’S not the one complaining. There was another chick complaining about dudes not approaching them, and a dude responded saying “look what the women have done.” The woman in this video with the chest tattoo was commenting on the previous video in question, and is actually calling out the women who be on that bullshyt and telling them how they’re ruining it for the shy women and the guys with good intentions.
 

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Just hilarious how so many didn’t watch the video and wanna comment on this woman’s tattoos and disregarding her off rip. She’s actually saying what a lot of nikkas on this very thread are saying as they counter-argue her (since they didn’t watch the video).
 

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What's internet babble about it?

A lot of these dudes are smart enough not to be rejection monkeys who only serve the purpose of boosting a woman's ego before she tosses him in the bin of dusty, thirsties who shouldn't be bothering her.

Could care less what she thinks. If I'm interested and it feels right, I say hello, make a quick compliment/comment, get her laughing and smiling, and move on. If she's feeling it, great. If not, great too. It's not some ego "game" I need to "win." It's simply interacting with human beings in real life.

Over analyzing what she's thinking about, where she's going to put me, and all this other stuff is self-defeating babble. The fact you believe she'll see you as thirsty and dusty says more about you than her.

In my opinion, YMMV.
 

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Could care less what she thinks. If I'm interested and it feels right, I say hello, make a quick compliment/comment, get her laughing and smiling, and move on. If she's feeling it, great. If not, great too. It's not some ego "game" I need to "win." It's simply interacting with human beings in real life.

Over analyzing what she's thinking about, where she's going to put me, and all this other stuff is self-defeating babble. The fact you believe she'll see you as thirsty and dusty says more about you than her.

In my opinion, YMMV.
Those harmless compliments your giving is what has made them so entitled in the first place.

Approach by all means if you want to but stop with the damn compliments when you don't know the woman from Adam.

Compliments must be earned now, dates must be earned now, its 2021.
 
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