This sounds like internet babble, "free ego boosts?"
^^^It’s VERY clear a decent amount of people didn’t actually watch the video cause these answers are having ZERO correlation with the vid![]()
This video is her entire problem:The original is from TikTok
Basically this black woman from Texas posted how black men don't approach.....
jess on TikTok
It started some responses from black men and this woman.
Side note: we really need tick tock embed
She's 100% on point
can't approach at the store because they're shopping, cant approach at the gym cause they're working out, can't approach on the street because they don't know you, can't approach at a party because they are with their girls...when I lived in san Francisco it got so bad that women would head to twitter just to out a guy because the guy asked for a girls.number while he was at work
And this is from the outside looking in because I've been in a relationship for a minute but I can't imagine what some single dudes are going through
Like many others have said, SHE’S not the one complaining. There was another chick complaining about dudes not approaching them, and a dude responded saying “look what the women have done.” The woman in this video with the chest tattoo was commenting on the previous video in question, and is actually calling out the women who be on that bullshyt and telling them how they’re ruining it for the shy women and the guys with good intentions.Why TF would any right thinking man approach a woman with a CHEST TATOO??????
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What's internet babble about it?
A lot of these dudes are smart enough not to be rejection monkeys who only serve the purpose of boosting a woman's ego before she tosses him in the bin of dusty, thirsties who shouldn't be bothering her.
Those harmless compliments your giving is what has made them so entitled in the first place.Could care less what she thinks. If I'm interested and it feels right, I say hello, make a quick compliment/comment, get her laughing and smiling, and move on. If she's feeling it, great. If not, great too. It's not some ego "game" I need to "win." It's simply interacting with human beings in real life.
Over analyzing what she's thinking about, where she's going to put me, and all this other stuff is self-defeating babble. The fact you believe she'll see you as thirsty and dusty says more about you than her.
In my opinion, YMMV.