Women aint shyt #factsoflife

[DirtyMoney]

You play so many games.

You were 27 when you moved in with her cuz your income was low at the time. You just now got a government contract that pays you well, so you are just now making 4x more than her.

Your words and intentions are so in-congruent. How long do you plan on being so out of sync with yourself? No wonder you think people don't understand you. You're clear as day but not able to speak truth to yourself.

At the end of the day having a kid with her won't be the end of your world but will change you and your situation a lot. Hopefully it will make you a better person and hopefully in the future you will really connect with a woman you really want to be with. Hopefully this 35 year old woman who didn't find herself worthy enough of real love but had to steal a chance for a baby will find someone who loves her immensely.

I was 27 when i started dating her not when i moved in. I moved in recently, I moved in to avoid the pitfalls of the lifestyle I was living. I've stated this
.
This is all detailed in posts i've made outside this thread.. At the end of the day. It is what it is, everyone on here playing Dr Phill. I'm just accommodating the dialogue.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

"once she fell pregnant"



nikka, YOU impregnated her, she didn't just "catch pregnancy"

i know for one thing.... i am NEVER saying anything other than "fell pregnant" for the rest of my life


omg you fell pregnant sis?!!!!!! how'd it happen

 

[KravenMorehead™]

**I thought I posted this earlier**
Nah. He set himself up.
She told him she had an abortion when she was 18, and couldn't forgive herself. So that right there should have told him if she got pregnant again she wasn't going to abort it.
Plus add to the fact that she's 35 with no (living) children. Her biological clock was ticking LOUDLY.

Bet. Depends on when She told him (@DirtyMoney ), but yeah...

 

[DirtyMoney]

Bet. Depends on when She told him (@DirtyMoney ), but yeah...

This place is wild. She told me after she was pregnant. That was her excuse for not being able to abort this one. Cos it was her 2nd go and she's 35. Its probably her last chance.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

This place is wild. She told me after she was pregnant. That was her excuse for not being able to abort this one. Cos it was her 2nd go and she's 35. Its probably her last chance.

Oh well. You should have known most women at 35 with NO children aren't going to abort, unless they have verbalized thatt hey do not want children. (I'm sure you'll come in here now saying she said she didn't want kids....)

 

[DirtyMoney]

Kinda excited my kids here soon. Don't love my BM but love my kid already.
Expenses already going up.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Kinda excited my kids here soon. Don't love my BM but love my kid already.
Expenses already going up.

Good! Ya'll both played with fire but good on both of ya'll doing the right thing by the child. I hope it works out for u, her and the child. Learn from ur mistakes, take responsibility for the consequences, find ur happiness in the meantime.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Good! Ya'll both played with fire but good on both of ya'll doing the right thing by the child. I hope it works out for u, her and the child. Learn from ur mistakes, take responsibility for the consequences, find ur happiness in the meantime.

Me & My child are str8. I gotta support BM too sadly. Imma set her up and setup my visitation so I can enjoy my life with a woman i wanna be with.

 

[Anti-Anime]

Stay seed free brehs

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

facts bro

I saw my brother go through hell with his first BM. the nikka knew that bytch was a bozo but went against his better judgment because she's sexy and the p*ssy was too good. he's paying like $700 a month too, plus daycare and insurance

but he wised up, his second BM is an angel and his current wife is an incredible woman

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Me & My child are str8. I gotta support BM too sadly. Imma set her up and setup my visitation so I can enjoy my life with a woman i wanna be with.

I'm a woman and I don't think you should have to support BM at all. She is grown and made the same mistake you did.

Just be careful with your current woman to ensure you don't make the same mistake with her.

Emotions get the best of all of us, but no more fukking raw with chicks you aren't 100% sure you want to be with. It'll just strain any real relationships you want to have with someone in the future.

Show restraint to build a better quality of life, and never leave ur health and future up to someone else by not safeguarding urself against unwanted pregnancy and stds.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

On another note are dudes really out here raw dogging and getting in their feelings when life happens and a baby comes?! In 2015?!


Also what about STDs?! Like playing Russian roulette with ur dyck...

Just to bust raw...like a chick being on bc shouldn't even be an issue. The fact that ya'll are willing to risk ur health and future on the hope that she took her pill correctly...

Like that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard...

Lmao! It would be the equivalent of me getting mad if I fukked a dude who said he got snipped raw and I got pregnant...!!! ROFLOL!
wtf?!
The raw p*ssy daredevils are the real simps...
Believe anything for raw p*ssy brehs...

Ya'll crazy.

 

[DirtyMoney]

facts bro

I saw my brother go through hell with his first BM. the nikka knew that bytch was a bozo but went against his better judgment because she's sexy and the p*ssy was too good. he's paying like $700 a month too, plus daycare and insurance

but he wised up, his second BM is an angel and his current wife is an incredible woman

$700 a month? Thats super low. He won.

 

[DirtyMoney]

I'm a woman and I don't think you should have to support BM at all. She is grown and made the same mistake you did.

Just be careful with your current woman to ensure you don't make the same mistake with her.

Emotions get the best of all of us, but no more fukking raw with chicks you aren't 100% sure you want to be with. It'll just strain any real relationships you want to have with someone in the future.

Show restraint to build a better quality of life, and never leave ur health and future up to someone else by not safeguarding urself against unwanted pregnancy and stds.

She makes $50k. She can't contribute with that kinda income as theres nothin left over after rent/food/utitilies. Thats like $3.5k income a month. Barely covers her essentials. I gotta give her otherwise my kid would be livin bummy as fukk. Literally going car shopping for her in the next 2 weeks cos she aint ever had a car. She's 32.. Bruhhh

 

[DirtyMoney]

So this bish went to "look at houses" whilst i'm lookin at buyin her a car for after the baby is born

Honestly i'd rather help get her situated, work out my visitation and actually meet a loyal + ambitious woman.