Women and Their Exes...wtf

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Sounds like she didn't know yall were together. Perhaps you guys should work on communicating. "Hooking up" twice a week certainly doesnt sound like a gf.

:what:


I was trying to find out where her head was at. She's been planning a beach trip for next month with a couple people and I've been talking about going. We were just chatting and I made an offhand remark about how I wasn't going on a vacation with a chick I'm not even dating, laying it on pretty thick, ya know. :laff:

She shot me the :usure:

and I said "oh, so we're official, huh? You mean I'm your boyfriend?".

Her reply, "obviously, how long have we been going out now? I better be your girlfriend".

:rudy:

I just said we'll see (we won't).


:childplease:
 

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This is how you know men and women speak a different language lol. I don't know about other women but I've always been taught that we are never in an exclusive relationship unless we sit down and have that conversation, where HE makes it clear that we are exclusive. I probably would have responded the same way she did *shrugs*

Assumptions is how you get hurt.
 

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:thumbsup: on the proof pic.

I'd get 1 more in and dead her, no explanation. Don't ever mention that text.

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IMO if u haven't had the exclusive convo...then ya'll not exclusive.
 

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She definitely snaked you then. She's one of those women that acts like it's all gravy and wonderful in your face, but when you're not around, it's on like popcorn. I'm highly sure that her ex is not the only dude she is dealing with and she has already cheated on you... especially given her nonchalance in saying no. 'lol no.' Not even, well I'm talking to someone right now. No mention of you at all. That shows you don't hold an iota of meaning to her. 'lol, no.'

These women steadily be leaving the door open for negroes to walk though. Funny how a woman's man disappears when she's feeling another man. If he had seen ya'll together and he asked who you were, "Oh he's just a friend." That's why ya'll fellas better stop rushing to hand out these relationships. Kick her to the curb and keep it pushing.
 

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This is how you know men and women speak a different language lol. I don't know about other women but I've always been taught that we are never in an exclusive relationship unless we sit down and have that conversation, where HE makes it clear that we are exclusive. I probably would have responded the same way she did *shrugs*

Assumptions is how you get hurt.

I guess it's how men operate with the double standard. He's saying he's only taken her out 2-3 times in the past few months and all they do is drink and fukk..Had the shoe been on the other foot he would have responded the exact same way. "No I don't have a girl."

Unanswered questions leave too much wiggle room. If he wanted to be exclusive, he would have made that shyt clear.
 

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:ohhh: she's texting other guys while she's fukkin with you and sleeping comfortably in your bed? :gladbron: How do you feel?:scheme:



All jokes aside, you've only been talking/together for about 3 months, no need to feel bad. At least you didn't fall in love wit the skank n find out about it 2 yrs deep into this boyfriend girlfriend bullshyt.
 

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Some powerful posting in this thread. I would let her sleep and when she wakes up just tell her it's been real and that she needs to leave. Be courteous but firm about it, that is the only way she will realise that she fukked something up that could have been potentially good for her. If you go apeshyt and start throwing things all she needs to tell her/whoever else she spins this shyt to is 'oh well he was just crazy anyway he broke his tv and punched a hole in the wall'. Go out like a sir.

I don't understand this logic. She needs to be punished for her fukk ass behavior.
 

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I don't understand this logic. She needs to be punished for her fukk ass behavior.

The best revenge is success, friend. Be the bigger person and completely forget about them, trying to 'get revenge' or one-up somebody just brings you down to their same fukked up plane of existence. If you want to waste your time checking people that aren't about shyt or will ever be shyt then that's on you, waste your own time lol.
 

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The best revenge is success, friend. Be the bigger person and completely forget about them, trying to 'get revenge' or one-up somebody just brings you down to their same fukked up plane of existence. If you want to waste your time checking people that aren't about shyt or will ever be shyt then that's on you, waste your own time lol.

It has nothing to do with investing time. It's mental torture...Guantanamo Bay her brain.

Had an ex cheat on me, the bytch is suffering mentally now for that shyt :what:
 
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this is why I leave a trail of decimated cervixes
on my walk through life.....
everytime that new nikka dont hit that stop
point of the p*ssy and slide over in that ouch
pocket shes gonna think about that night with the
piss...
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no one else is going to point out the fact that this nikka shares a pillow with his pitbull?




sometimes i let my dog sleep on the foot of my bed if im too drunk to kick her out. only acceptable time to sleep with animals. smh you wake up everyday with your hair smelling like dog p*ssy.
 
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