Casual exclusive relationship
Where they do that?
can you re-post that thick pawg you were smashing
Women and Their Exes...wtf
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can you re-post that thick pawg you were smashing
Tha Snowman
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Casual exclusive relationship
Where they do that?
Not here apparently. We had that conversation though. I'm in the middle of MCAT prep on top of work and I told her how it was going to be. She signed up for it. Or said she did. Heh.
But yeah, I guess I realize you can only go on like that for so long before you have to start doing certain things. Oh well.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Yeah, I agree with the others on here.
Don't bother playing any games or whatever. Just cut your losses and move on. Playing any kind of game only prolongs the anger or emotional injury and no one wins in the end.
Don't bother playing any games or whatever. Just cut your losses and move on. Playing any kind of game only prolongs the anger or emotional injury and no one wins in the end.
i honestly think TS is over thinking it. Does she have a boyfriend? Have yall set down and made sure you both were eye to eye about where yall stand and where yall going? If you only been seein each other 1 or twice a week for a few months then it sounds to me like yall are still in the meeting stage. Every dude had his own standards but I don't think i would trip, i would just check my feelins towards her and keep an open eye, but 
bytches run every 10 like the number 9 bus, let her go and stand in the same place, another will be thru shortly
bytches run every 10 like the number 9 bus, let her go and stand in the same place, another will be thru shortly
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
So technically, you all AREN'T in a relationship, you're not her actual boyfriend, and she was completely right in her text message?
Seems like she's the one who understands that, but you don't.
Seems like she's the one who understands that, but you don't.
dr. pill biden
All Star
So you told her you didn't have time for a relationship, but you wanted her to only be in a non-relationship with you?
yeahisaidit
All Star
Man. It's good. I won't lie. And she gives up the ass, if you're into that. Hate to have to drop her from the team to be honest. It seems like you just can't have a casual exclusive relationship anymore.
But no way in hell I'm sticking around for some triangle bullshyt. That just breeds jealousy and poor decision making.
On to the next.
What is an exclusive casual relationship? Friends with benefits but you two are only supposed to be sleeping with each other? If that's the deal you shot her, then technically she wasn't wrong in saying she doesn't have a boyfriend.
so she was just a jump 
Tha Snowman
Rookie
Haha. When you put it like that it sounds pretty bad. But yeah I guess. Hooking up and occasional dates when time allows.
But I free up a lot after the end of this month. We sat down and talked about this several weeks ago and she signed up for it. It's not like I'm just going on an assumption of exclusivity or something. Give me a little credit here.
so she was just a jump
That's what it's sounding like to me now that more information is coming out.
If you put her in a jump-off category, you can't expect her to be faithful. That's what casual exclusive sounds like.. like you want to beat it up but to be the only one beating it up. Doesn't work like that. if that's the case, then you the one that needs to rearrange your mindset. She's a jump so let her be that role.
Tha Snowman
Rookie
I've done the dinner thing with her folks. You don't do that with jumpoffs.
Tha Snowman
Rookie
seems like you were her jump, and you wanted to save her
im sorry breh
Maybe. Regardless, she's obviously not content with the amount of attention she's currently getting.
And kev, you're probably right. I'm probably being naive about the realities of our relationship. That's on me. But regardless, if she's telling me one thing and doing another, that's not acceptable.