Women are dream killers agree?

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not dream killers but dream de-railers because they shift your focus.

its hard to be focused and driven with a woman who's not 100% supportive. you'll be trying to weigh options on your future and she'll be bugging you like "baby, when am i going to see you??? you're always so BUSY!"

i think its in the best interest for both parties for the man to find his chick after he's reached his early career goals​
 

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Nah, a good women will propel you to those dreams, and motivate you to achieve them

this good woman you speak of is nothing more than an ideal in your mind. in reality its only said in hindsight that a woman helped a man reach his dreams and that's only if things play out a certain way.

situation 1 man meets woman and achieves dream so she helped and supported him. situation 2 same man meets same woman and stays at dead end job never advancing did she help him reach his dream? does it suddenly become his fault he didn't reach that dream? if he gets the sole credit for failure then why doesn't he for success?
 

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this good woman you speak of is nothing more than an ideal in your mind. in reality its only said in hindsight that a woman helped a man reach his dreams and that's only if things play out a certain way.

situation 1 man meets woman and achieves dream so she helped and supported him. situation 2 same man meets same woman and stays at dead end job never advancing did she help him reach his dream? does it suddenly become his fault he didn't reach that dream? if he gets the sole credit for failure then why doesn't he for success?
Most folks don't reach their dreams w/ a hoodrat bytch. I don't think it's a coincidence:yeshrug: Every situation is different.
 

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:what: I swear you nikkas sound like some bitter females.
Y'all should just start fukkin each other:scusthov: cause y'all sure don't like women. Every other thread y'all talmbout women are bad.

If you don't reach your goals its YOUR fault. People can help and hurt along the way but ultimately it is up to YOU.
 

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Most folks don't reach their dreams w/ a hoodrat bytch. I don't think it's a coincidence:yeshrug: Every situation is different.
most people that would date hoodrats aren't the type to chase down a dream. if they were why would they settle for a hoodrat?
 

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relationships are dream killers.

man or women could be responsible.

Edit: b/c when I was with my last girlfriend, I swear I would go out my way to see her, spend money etc....was happy with her, but as soon as it ended, I was unhappy with my career and had to make a change.

She clouded a nikka vision.

shyt, watch 500 days of summer. perfect movie.

he got focused on his own life after he left the bytch
 

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Uncle went back to school while his wife paid for everything:mjpls: Sometimes a good woman can help a man get back on their feet. Also, I'm not saying women can't be a detriment. As other stated, at the end of the day, it's solely up to the individual how bad he wants to achieve his dream.

Again, every situation is different. I do think most women are up to no good but to act like all women are bad is signs of fakkitry:huhldup:
 

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Question. Do you guys tell this shyt to your moms?

Just curious.
I actually talk to my moms about most current events and of a woman's thinking and why they do stuff. Who better to ask than an educated, successful black women whom I related to.

Sadly she is usually of little help seeing how there are more triffling females to to weed out than motivated positive ones.
 

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Women don't want you to be successful than you are now because If you do you will upgrade.

Dream killers

Women don't want you to succeed, so accomplish your goals before you settle down with them, or they will snuff that dream
 

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Women don't want you to be successful than you are now because If you do you will upgrade.

Dream killers

Women don't want you to succeed, so accomplish your goals before you settle down with them, or they will snuff that dream

Those are hoes your talkin about. Women want you to be successful cause they want to go with you.
 
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