Women are dream killers agree?

[DaChampIsHere]

it's an accomplish all your goals before you settle down with a chick.

I'm pretty sure this just doesn't only apply to women. With most people you aren't gonna be able to make drastic changes to your lifestyle (especially ones that have a big affect them) out of the middle of nowhere and have them accept like it's cool and go with the flow.

You should know this. I'm pretty sure all your friends stopped fukkin' with you once they found out you were a flaming homosexual. It is what it is.

 

[YBE]

I was told most women usually marry/date up. If so how does this factor in to the OP?

To become successful, you got to put in mad work. Most women want the fruits of the labor. But they hate the process. If you putting in 80 hrs a week at the office (finance/legal/medical/consulting), your chick might understand for a while but, good luck with that long term, especially if her career isn't as demanding as yours On the other end of the spectrum, sometimes you have to cut back & slum it to make it. Put all your money into your dream. If you're a single man, its nothing. If you're in a relationship, good luck Your girl will tell you to stop dreaming & grow up



Take Tyler Perry (yea I know he's a homo ) for example. He slept in his car for a while. He moved from New Orleans to Atlanta with $12,000 & blew it all on his first play that failed. He slept in his car until he had enough money to try again. You think any woman would've been going for that shyt? She would've told him to get his head out the clouds



Again, this doesn't apply to every woman. Some can hold you down. Those types are few & far between though.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

from the standpoint of a man working to accomplish his goals in life when a woman steps into his life it almost works against her to have him advance. if he takes a step up in life his options become better and she suddenly isn't his best option.

i think if a woman meets you and accepts you she's inclined to want you to stay where you're at unless she believes she too will benefit from your advance. if she feels threatened by it she's gonna work to undermine it in self defense.

i wouldn't agree that women are dream killers though. women become the excuse men use to kill their own dreams. a woman can't make you drop out of school or abandon your dreams.

Yeah....I wouldn't say "kill"...that's to strong of a word.It's more like attempted murder.If I find the right woman who'll be loyal to me through thick and thin, I'll always value her above "better options".....IMO, I would've already found my best option in her


But if you keep venturing outside your lane and get with the wrong woman, I've seen plenty dudes "die" trying to get past that obstacle.

 

[The Jewnited States]

oh look another don't get married thread

 

[Rominati]

I agree and disagree with Reincar. Its a very tricky subject. Alot of loopholes.


But just to be safe with it. I suggest all my young brehs 18-27 , DO NOT SETTLE DOWN. Chase your dreams and goals first. Even if you fail at least you can look back as a OG and smile on how you tried. Settling down or having a kid as a young man is probably the dumbest thing you can do with you life. It is even worse than dropping out of college.

 

[MoneyTron]

oh look another don't get married thread

LOL

People are saying don't getting married until you've reached all your goals but it really doesn't make any sense. No one I know accomplished everything they wanted to by 20, 30, 40, or even 50+.

 

[MoneyTron]

Colin Powell couldn't run for president cuz hos wife didn't want the spotlight.

So we're going to act like Colin wasn't successful otherwise. His wife really held him back from being a fukking 4-star general, Secretary of State and Chairman of the Joint Cheifs of Staff.

Obama would have been a successful lawyer who entered politics with or without Michelle obama

Maybe. But no one is going to elect a president that isn't married. They won't trust him. The amount of bachelors in high public office is very slim for a reason. More for perception than anything else.

 

[Sharp]

Maybe. But no one is going to elect a president that isn't married. .

James Buchanan and Grover Cleveland heard this from the grave and would like to have a word with you.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Only if you let them. Be a man. Take control.

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[MoneyTron]

James Buchanan and Grover Cleveland heard this from the grave and would like to have a word with you.

Not bad, friend. Still though, 4.5% isn't very high.

 

[winb83]

LOL

People are saying don't getting married until you've reached all your goals but it really doesn't make any sense. No one I know accomplished everything they wanted to by 20, 30, 40, or even 50+.

most people never accomplish their goals. they end up settling and part of you getting with a woman and popping kids out of her is even if you haven't reached your goals you got a family now so you gotta take care of them.

that robs you of your freedom and flexibility. you can't make a move whenever you want or do what you want because you have to factor someone else into the equation.

honestly in your whole 20s relationships are a total waste of time and more than likely if they get serious they'll limit your potential later in life.

oh look another don't get married thread

its not that its more a stop letting p*ssy distract you from your goals in life and derail your plans.

lets be real about what goes on in life. most men are out here brainlessly chasing p*ssy fukking whatever half decent looking chick will have them. they aren't thinking about their future plans when fukking either. one day probably in their early 20 mid 20s they knock a chick up and from there their life goes in a completely different direction then it could have gone if they were careful and that didn't happen. if that doesn't happen they hit a crossroad where its either stay with this woman or make this move and better myself and a lot of guys chose the woman.

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

Was thinking of this song​

 

[The Jewnited States]

most people never accomplish their goals. they end up settling and part of you getting with a woman and popping kids out of her is even if you haven't reached your goals you got a family now so you gotta take care of them.

that robs you of your freedom and flexibility. you can't make a move whenever you want or do what you want because you have to factor someone else into the equation.

honestly in your whole 20s relationships are a total waste of time and more than likely if they get serious they'll limit your potential later in life.

its not that its more a stop letting p*ssy distract you from your goals in life and derail your plans.

lets be real about what goes on in life. most men are out here brainlessly chasing p*ssy fukking whatever half decent looking chick will have them. they aren't thinking about their future plans when fukking either. one day probably in their early 20 mid 20s they knock a chick up and from there their life goes in a completely different direction then it could have gone if they were careful and that didn't happen. if that doesn't happen they hit a crossroad where its either stay with this woman or make this move and better myself and a lot of guys chose the woman.

well sucks for those who weren't educated by their parents on what's important in life..

my mom is 65 years old now, and she still tells me to just work on my degree, get a good job, and the rest will fall in place. she always tells me to wrap it up too

 

[winb83]

well sucks for those who weren't educated by their parents on what's important in life..

my mom is 65 years old now, and she still tells me to just work on my degree, get a good job, and the rest will fall in place. she always tells me to wrap it up too

self discipline isn't really something your parents give you its something you learn to enforce on yourself. there's a huge difference between knowing what you should do and actually doing it. my parents told me to do a lot of things i didn't have the self discipline not to do at the time.

 

[semtex]

bussin too many nutts will make you unambitious