Women are dream killers agree?

[Malik]

Not true at all breh. My ex is a perfect example of a chick who helped me achieve my dreams. When I was just starting out I was fukked up in the game, she'd skip class just to drive me to college. When I had no place to sleep she'd sneak me in her moms crib in the middle of the night. And when I would be studying trying to get my shyt together, she'd never bug me. All she'd do is encourage me and tell me she's proud of me and to take as much time as I needed. I'd sometimes go days of not talking to or hanging out with her cause I was grinding heavy.

So once I got on, I spoiled her ass rotten and bought her any and everything she asked of me. shyt she was the one to teach me how to drive a car when everyone else shytted on me.

She's the one woman I can honestly say that was 100% loyal to me. She rode for a nikka when no one else had my back. She don't know it but I made a promise to myself that once I start making real bread, Ima break her off with a cool mil just off the loyalty she showed me. shyt like that can't be bought.

You had a good one...

 

[Guess Who]

You gotta be a loser if you pick a woman who will keep you from achieving your goals. Seriously, did anyone ever teach yall what type of woman to look for? at not being able to find a woman that compliments you.

Who raised yall?

Nobody raised me nikka, I had to raise myself and figure it out the hard way.

Though I do agree with your premise. Dudes who complain incessantly about women are most likely choosing the wrong women or have something wrong themselves.

As for my fukk ups with women, I take full responsibility for my decisions, and try to learn from them for the future.

 

[kevm3]

The WRONG kind of woman is a dream killer. In this day and age, unfortunately, only a few women were really shown how to get behind her man and to really help propel him to handle business and to make his house a home. Now, it's more about two competitors. The right kind of woman will really help you achieve your goals and will do it without nagging, complaining and a host of other things. Those are rare.

 

[Guess Who]

Not true at all breh. My ex is a perfect example of a chick who helped me achieve my dreams. When I was just starting out I was fukked up in the game, she'd skip class just to drive me to college. When I had no place to sleep she'd sneak me in her moms crib in the middle of the night. And when I would be studying trying to get my shyt together, she'd never bug me. All she'd do is encourage me and tell me she's proud of me and to take as much time as I needed. I'd sometimes go days of not talking to or hanging out with her cause I was grinding heavy.

So once I got on, I spoiled her ass rotten and bought her any and everything she asked of me. shyt she was the one to teach me how to drive a car when everyone else shytted on me.

She's the one woman I can honestly say that was 100% loyal to me. She rode for a nikka when no one else had my back. She don't know it but I made a promise to myself that once I start making real bread, Ima break her off with a cool mil just off the loyalty she showed me. shyt like that can't be bought.

Why'd you leave her man?


















Did she get fat?


















My ex did...she was the best woman I ever had though.

 

[concise]

Men actually do that?

of course this happens. Be more perceptive, talk to more people, spend a little more time staring out your project windows, something to be more aware of the world you live in


Dude finds some way to get chick pregnant, especially one who doesn't believe in abortion, gets overjoyed because she now has to deal with him forever. This has been going on for a LONG time.

 

[winb83]

Not true at all breh. My ex is a perfect example of a chick who helped me achieve my dreams. When I was just starting out I was fukked up in the game, she'd skip class just to drive me to college. When I had no place to sleep she'd sneak me in her moms crib in the middle of the night. And when I would be studying trying to get my shyt together, she'd never bug me. All she'd do is encourage me and tell me she's proud of me and to take as much time as I needed. I'd sometimes go days of not talking to or hanging out with her cause I was grinding heavy.

So once I got on, I spoiled her ass rotten and bought her any and everything she asked of me. shyt she was the one to teach me how to drive a car when everyone else shytted on me.

She's the one woman I can honestly say that was 100% loyal to me. She rode for a nikka when no one else had my back. She don't know it but I made a promise to myself that once I start making real bread, Ima break her off with a cool mil just off the loyalty she showed me. shyt like that can't be bought.

It could happen but would you say women like that are the norm or she's an exceptional woman?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Why'd you drop her? She probably hates you.

She don't hate me, we're still good friends. We was together when we were both young. We grew apart over time, shyt happens

You had a good one...

I know, that's why I treated her the way I did. Shorty will always hold a special place in my heart.

Why'd you leave her man?

Did she get fat?

My ex did...she was the best woman I ever had though.

She did get fat

But that wasn't why we broke up, but it damn sure was part of it

 

[↓R↑LYB]

It could happen but would you say women like that are the norm or she's an exceptional woman?

I pretty much always get chicks that are down for me, so I'd say yeah that's the norm. I'll probably never be in the position where I'll need someone to hold me down like that ever again though so it may have been a one time thing, but she was my first serious GF.

I believe you attract what you are. So if all you attract are fukked up dirty bytches, then more than likely you're a fukked up dirty nikka.

The women you attract are a reflection of the man you are on the inside. There's a reason you see the same nikkas always complaining about women. And there's a reason you hear the same bytches always complaining about men. Until you fix your own internal deficiencies, you'll always be fukked up in the game.

 

[Binary]

Well, the guy I'm seeing is finishing up his final year at uni and I'm supporting him by not being a distraction so he can finish and get his degree [I go weeks without contacting him but I'll send texts every so often asking if he's still alive]. The same way I would do that for him, he would do the same for. It's tough but I know in a couple months, it will be worth it and no roadblocks. (That's on a small scale but same shyt.)

If the person is worth it, you shouldn't hesitate with your support. It's not a gender thing, it's a people thing.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Well, the guy I'm seeing is finishing up his final year at uni and I'm supporting him by not being a distraction so he can finish and get his degree [I go weeks without contacting him but I'll send texts every so often asking if he's still alive]. The same way I would do that for him, he would do the same for. It's tough but I know in a couple months, it will be worth it and no roadblocks. (That's on a small scale but same shyt.)

If the person is worth it, you shouldn't hesitate with your support. It's not a gender thing, it's a people thing.

You share that guy

 

[Binary]

You share that guy

Don't say that!!

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Don't say that!!

Hey it's college right!?:barkleyhuh: Yolo!

 

[tempestwing]

if she killing the dream, maybe she ain't the right one breh

 

[philmonroe]

I pretty much always get chicks that are down for me, so I'd say yeah that's the norm. I'll probably never be in the position where I'll need someone to hold me down like that ever again though so it may have been a one time thing, but she was my first serious GF.

I believe you attract what you are. So if all you attract are fukked up dirty bytches, then more than likely you're a fukked up dirty nikka.

The women you attract are a reflection of the man you are on the inside. There's a reason you see the same nikkas always complaining about women. And there's a reason you hear the same bytches always complaining about men. Until you fix your own internal deficiencies, you'll always be fukked up in the game.

You seemed like you were younger when this happened and it seems like that might be the best (people aren't bitter and mad) and the worst (most people want sample their options) times of find somebody 100% for you. I had a similar situation happen to me but it happened more than once. Your also right those chicks that do you like that even if you don't work out they will always get looked out for cause when you find them good ones you have to keep them on the team even if just friends you speak to occasionally.

 

[winb83]

I pretty much always get chicks that are down for me, so I'd say yeah that's the norm. I'll probably never be in the position where I'll need someone to hold me down like that ever again though so it may have been a one time thing, but she was my first serious GF.

I believe you attract what you are. So if all you attract are fukked up dirty bytches, then more than likely you're a fukked up dirty nikka.

The women you attract are a reflection of the man you are on the inside. There's a reason you see the same nikkas always complaining about women. And there's a reason you hear the same bytches always complaining about men. Until you fix your own internal deficiencies, you'll always be fukked up in the game.

so basically you're saying fukked up dirty chicks aren't attracted to high quality men?

you don't attract what you are you attract what you attract. to a certain extent the best you can attract is what you are but you also attract everything below that too.

i'm not saying men don't share a blame in the women they deal with what i'm saying is the vast majority of human beings (not just women) are self serving individuals that put themselves first or only do things they stand to gain from as well in some way.

most of us aren't God. we can't bend over in some sand and shape it into a human being and breath into it and create a quality woman. attracting a quality woman has just as much to do with the random odds of finding her and having her be into your type as it does your success in life.