Women are struggling to find men who are financial equals

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exactly

chick a
nice looking, humble, knows how to cook and clean makes 45k a year with a 2 year college diploma

or

chick b
aggressive, bossy, has her own house , wears the pants in her relationship, decent looking, has her masters and makes 120k a year

I'm choosing chick a

i would choose A even if i was making 250k,,,
 

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this is it right here oddly enough the men they want attraction wise don’t seem to be the type of men that earn well or the men have pick of the litter and the women aren’t up for the competition... so rather than you know lowering expectations or standards they just say men aren’t available.

No it’s plenty available just not the ones you want. I can really give a damn how much money I’m into makes. But I care how she looks, how she acts, and how she treats me.

What's really strange is we have let the narrative turn into being attracted to a woman for the way she looks and acts isn't "true love" and is "wrong," but women b̶e̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶a̶t̶t̶r̶a̶c̶t̶e̶d... using a man solely for how much he spends on a her is "love" and "righteous." :skip:
 

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this is it right here oddly enough the men they want attraction wise don’t seem to be the type of men that earn well or the men have pick of the litter and the women aren’t up for the competition... so rather than you know lowering expectations or standards they just say men aren’t available.

No it’s plenty available just not the ones you want. I can really give a damn how much money I’m into makes. But I care how she looks, how she acts, and how she treats me.

sad thing is all women have to do is look at the abundance of women in their 40s and 50s who never got married while they waited and waited for their faithful 6'4 150k a year fantasy
 

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Even if you presented women with a man that checked all their boxes they would still find a way to self sabotage the situation for themselves.

its that old store story :mjlol:

A new store that sells new husbands has opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:

You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs.

She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

"That's nice," she thinks, "but I want more." So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.

"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework.

"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

PLEASE NOTE:

To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store just across the street.

The first floor has wives that love sex.

The second floor has wives that love sex and have money and like beer.

The third, fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited.
 

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with the emergence of Kevin Samuels this exchange is :wow:



If you actually read the article is says they CAN'T find an equal. There is a shortage of successful men.

I definitely fall into this category. Very few men are in positions that provide them with a salary similar to mine. I would date someone who makes less, but they have to be educated and actively working towards making more.

So Vonte who is blue-collar and makes 45k w/ the city and has good benefits doesn't get your interest because he may not want to get an MBA with 40k of debt?

Success doesn't always mean every weekend in The Hamptons...

Sorry I can't do it. I would be making 3x as much as him and I have good benefits already. I have friends who married men who made way less than them and they don't recommend it. They say it's the root cause to a lot of the issues in their relationships. Also I have my masters degree and I am debt free...no loans to pay. You don't have to break the bank to go to college.

Now if Vonte had a BA/BS degree and could work his way up at his job and was planning to get his masters one day to get even further...then we're talking.
“you can’t make this shyt up”
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It's too far gone. Media consumption among our people increases year over year.

We love to consume.

Yep. It's over. All you can do is lookout for yourself and those you care about and hope they don't get consumed by the numerous agendas being deployed against us.
 

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whats funny is this poison they were singing

tboz married mack 10 got beat and got a divorce - 50 year old single mom
Chili had a abortion at age 20 was a single mom and usher didn't even wife her but married the next chick he dated after - 50 years old never married and single
left eye (rip) - never got married was in a abusive relationship with rison burned down the house single mom

but black women lapped it up like dogs at a pond
 

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whats funny is this poison they were singing

tboz married mack 10 got beat and got a divorce - 50 year old single mom
Chili had a abortion at age 20 was a single mom and usher didn't even wife her but married the next chick he dated after - 50 years old never married and single
left eye (rip) - never got married was in a abusive relationship with rison burned down the house single mom

but black women lapped it up like dogs at a pond
 

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Women are struggling to find men *they're attracted to* who are financials equals

Fixed.

That’s a big part of it they don’t want to admit.


Wanting an attractive partner is not wrong

Where a lot of women go wrong is they fail to realize they’re average looking at best and that’s with makeup and the tightest/most revealing outfit they have. They don’t ask themselves why would an attractive man with money settle for an average at best woman who’s main addition to his life is money he doesn’t need and she doesn’t plan on spending on herself let alone on him :gucci:

An attractive woman with money will have no problem finding an attractive man with money willing to wife her up assuming she’s feminine, easy to get along with and has minimal baggage. shyt an attractive woman without money but has the rest of these qualities won’t have much of a problem.

Women tend to think because men will fukk them they’re attractive :francis:
 

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Wanting an attractive partner is not wrong

The "wrong" part is in play here, because women are pushing this social narrative that all men are lazy trash and they have to carry the entire weight of a relationship because they themselves can't find 6'4" Jesus who looks better than their favorite male celebrity and makes a mid-six figure income, on track to seven figures at 28 years old.
 

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Here in Oklahoma that’s pretty decent...

what I don’t understand is people are running around saying women are making more than men. Where is it? I’m a blue collar type dude but the majority of the pipeline workers and farmers seem to be men.

I think a lot of this just comes down to locations. The places with the more attractive women LA, Miami, NYK, Atlanta I can see women making more

There's a handful of cities (less than 10) where women earn more than men. Mainly smaller cities with below average income.
 

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The "wrong" part is in play here, because women are pushing this social narrative that all men are lazy trash and they have to carry the entire weight of a relationship because they themselves can't find 6'4" Jesus who looks better than their favorite male celebrity and makes a mid-six figure income, on track to seven figures at 28 years old.
Bingo
 

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this is it right here oddly enough the men they want attraction wise don’t seem to be the type of men that earn well or the men have pick of the litter and the women aren’t up for the competition... so rather than you know lowering expectations or standards they just say men aren’t available.

No it’s plenty available just not the ones you want. I can really give a damn how much money I’m into makes. But I care how she looks, how she acts, and how she treats me.

Breh there was a whole 30 something page debate last week with a woman vehemently arguing about why average and below average women have every right to feel entitled to upper echelon men :unimpressed:
 

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What's really strange is we have let the narrative turn into being attracted to a woman for the way she looks and acts isn't "true love" and is "wrong," but women b̶e̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶a̶t̶t̶r̶a̶c̶t̶e̶d... using a man solely for how much he spends on a her is "love" and "righteous." :skip:

It’s just them acting on their biological imperative :troll:
 
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