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Even if you presented women with a man that checked all their boxes they would still find a way to self sabotage the situation for themselves.
exactly
chick a
nice looking, humble, knows how to cook and clean makes 45k a year with a 2 year college diploma
or
chick b
aggressive, bossy, has her own house , wears the pants in her relationship, decent looking, has her masters and makes 120k a year
I'm choosing chick a
this is it right here oddly enough the men they want attraction wise don’t seem to be the type of men that earn well or the men have pick of the litter and the women aren’t up for the competition... so rather than you know lowering expectations or standards they just say men aren’t available.
No it’s plenty available just not the ones you want. I can really give a damn how much money I’m into makes. But I care how she looks, how she acts, and how she treats me.

this is it right here oddly enough the men they want attraction wise don’t seem to be the type of men that earn well or the men have pick of the litter and the women aren’t up for the competition... so rather than you know lowering expectations or standards they just say men aren’t available.
No it’s plenty available just not the ones you want. I can really give a damn how much money I’m into makes. But I care how she looks, how she acts, and how she treats me.
Even if you presented women with a man that checked all their boxes they would still find a way to self sabotage the situation for themselves.


If you actually read the article is says they CAN'T find an equal. There is a shortage of successful men.
I definitely fall into this category. Very few men are in positions that provide them with a salary similar to mine. I would date someone who makes less, but they have to be educated and actively working towards making more.
So Vonte who is blue-collar and makes 45k w/ the city and has good benefits doesn't get your interest because he may not want to get an MBA with 40k of debt?
Success doesn't always mean every weekend in The Hamptons...
“you can’t make this shyt up”Sorry I can't do it. I would be making 3x as much as him and I have good benefits already. I have friends who married men who made way less than them and they don't recommend it. They say it's the root cause to a lot of the issues in their relationships. Also I have my masters degree and I am debt free...no loans to pay. You don't have to break the bank to go to college.
Now if Vonte had a BA/BS degree and could work his way up at his job and was planning to get his masters one day to get even further...then we're talking.
It's too far gone. Media consumption among our people increases year over year.
We love to consume.
whats funny is this poison they were singing
tboz married mack 10 got beat and got a divorce - 50 year old single mom
Chili had a abortion at age 20 was a single mom and usher didn't even wife her but married the next chick he dated after - 50 years old never married and single
left eye (rip) - never got married was in a abusive relationship with rison burned down the house single mom
but black women lapped it up like dogs at a pond
Women are struggling to find men *they're attracted to* who are financials equals
Fixed.
That’s a big part of it they don’t want to admit.


Wanting an attractive partner is not wrong
Here in Oklahoma that’s pretty decent...
what I don’t understand is people are running around saying women are making more than men. Where is it? I’m a blue collar type dude but the majority of the pipeline workers and farmers seem to be men.
I think a lot of this just comes down to locations. The places with the more attractive women LA, Miami, NYK, Atlanta I can see women making more
BingoThe "wrong" part is in play here, because women are pushing this social narrative that all men are lazy trash and they have to carry the entire weight of a relationship because they themselves can't find 6'4" Jesus who looks better than their favorite male celebrity and makes a mid-six figure income, on track to seven figures at 28 years old.
this is it right here oddly enough the men they want attraction wise don’t seem to be the type of men that earn well or the men have pick of the litter and the women aren’t up for the competition... so rather than you know lowering expectations or standards they just say men aren’t available.
No it’s plenty available just not the ones you want. I can really give a damn how much money I’m into makes. But I care how she looks, how she acts, and how she treats me.

What's really strange is we have let the narrative turn into being attracted to a woman for the way she looks and acts isn't "true love" and is "wrong," but women b̶e̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶a̶t̶t̶r̶a̶c̶t̶e̶d... using a man solely for how much he spends on a her is "love" and "righteous."![]()
