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I like a vibe, because I can't latch onto a man visually. I am not a hoe at all. Men expect all women to be run through so they can use it to justify their notions of what women are like.
I feel you tho. I am generalizing tho. I am not talking about all women.
 

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I feel you tho. I am generalizing tho. I am not talking about all women.

I get that. But you would be surprised how many men feel that way about all women. The net and YT videos have warped folks sense of awareness. There are men and women who think everyone is capable of just any ole thing.
 

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I like a vibe, because I can't latch onto a man visually. I am not a hoe at all. Men expect all women to be run through so they can use it to justify their notions of what women are like.
Do you go to church?

Because the women I see that seem to not care too much about looks are religious women.

The problem is that they're ALWAYS taken and the ones that aren't usually have high standards.
 

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Do you go to church?

Because the women I see that seem to not care too much about looks are religious women.

The problem is that they're ALWAYS taken and the ones that aren't usually have high standards.

I try my best to keep God in mind with everything I do and say, even down to the way that I handle people, though I fall short of this sometimes.

I was raised Catholic and was practicing that off and on. I've been finding my way, as far as religion goes.

As far as high standards, they are different, not high. The order of importance that I place qualities locks me into a very specific type of man. I have found someone who fit the bill recently, but we had a miscommunication.

But, if it's meant to be, it will be.
 

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No chance of clearing that up?

I was hopeful, but the longer we go without talking, the more it looks like it might not happen.

I kicked the disagreement off, without thinking at the time. I should have explained myself instead of being prideful. This could be a brief intermission between us or it might be a situation where I have to suffer the consequences and go back to the drawing board. But who knows.
 
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I was hopeful, but the longer we go without talking, the more it looks like it might not happen.

I kicked the disagreement off, without thinking at the time. I should have explained myself instead of being prideful. This could be a brief intermission between us or it might be a situation where I have to suffer the consequences and go back to the drawing board. But who knows.
Did you like him?

If you did why haven't reached out to him?
 

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Did you like him?

If you did why haven't reached out to him?

Yes, I was into him deeply.

I made a mistake of talking about certain things at a very sensitive time for him. I also said something without clarifying, as I should have. He issued an ultimatum and instead of backing down or clearing things up, I said we should go with the ultimatum and not talk anymore.

The thing is, after I did that, he said several things that he should not have. Those things would need to be rectified.

I would not reach out to him because he took things too far with his words and it would put me in the masculine role. I know for certain that if a man wants to be with a woman, nothing can stop him. I feel like he thinks things are ruined because of the argument. Whether it is ruined or not remains to be seen. There were a couple of issues on my end that I was off page about, but those things have been set right.

I am with it if he wants to make amends, but it's up to him.
 
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Most women think they are better looking than they really are. Most men realistically understand what range they fall in and act accordingly. Most women dont :yeshrug: .
Women can smash men out of their league with zero effort (sex could be good or bad).

Men can fukk down but not really up without some kind of leverage (money, power, "game").

It's rare for a woman to come across a man soooooo fine that she's willing to approach in an open/bold way. She might find a guy cute but not THAT cute. Most men can walk by any group of women and pick out at least 2 they'd smash. Women take more risk in casual interactions so the juice has to be worth the squeeze.
 
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