Uncle Kingpin
No Relation
She still chose to settle. She could have chose not to.
Women Do The Choosing (True or False)
- Thread starter Trillion
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She still chose to settle. She could have chose not to.
from the time a dude hollers at a chick she can say yes or no
decide to give her number or not
decide to go out on a date or not
decide to give up the goods or not
and more times than not its not just one male or is trying to achieve this
decide to give her number or not
decide to go out on a date or not
decide to give up the goods or not
and more times than not its not just one male or is trying to achieve this
mcdivit85
Superstar
Women do the initial choosing but men choose from who chooses them. I don't care what you do, if the woman is not interested, then there's nothing you can do. She has to be interested in you, for whatever reason, before numbers are exchanged, before a date happens and definitely before sex happens.
And even in the case of the very attractive dude who has women who want him to approach, those women are still choosing. Because they're choosing to be open to the guy even if he doesn't approach. On the flip side, many women have men who they're NOT CHOOSING approach them more times than not. And guess what? Dude gets nowhere.
I think dudes get it mixed up because they do most of the approaching. Yes, dudes choose who they approach but an approach means nothing if the woman CHOOSES not to be receptive to the dude who's approaching. You see, the woman decides who she allows to date her and sex her...unless she's dealing with a dude who doesn't take no for an answer or is a rapist.
Be a great product, so more women and better women will choose you. Simple enough.
Peace
And even in the case of the very attractive dude who has women who want him to approach, those women are still choosing. Because they're choosing to be open to the guy even if he doesn't approach. On the flip side, many women have men who they're NOT CHOOSING approach them more times than not. And guess what? Dude gets nowhere.
I think dudes get it mixed up because they do most of the approaching. Yes, dudes choose who they approach but an approach means nothing if the woman CHOOSES not to be receptive to the dude who's approaching. You see, the woman decides who she allows to date her and sex her...unless she's dealing with a dude who doesn't take no for an answer or is a rapist.
Be a great product, so more women and better women will choose you. Simple enough.
Peace
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
meh...yall doing it wrong.
i have gone after girls.....got them to the point of really really liking me only to have it fizzle out because i just wasnt feeling it like that. Men do choose sometimes. Like dude says...it takes two.
Overall its a matter of supply and demand.
i have gone after girls.....got them to the point of really really liking me only to have it fizzle out because i just wasnt feeling it like that. Men do choose sometimes. Like dude says...it takes two.
Overall its a matter of supply and demand.
That is after the fact.
So if a girl chooses to holla at a guy...she's choosing.
But if a man thats fly chooses to holla at a girl ...she's choosing
Ya'll are making shyt up.
Like I always say, it's not every p*ssy you have to fukk. If you're a person with no standards or ambition then sure you're not choosing; you're taking whatever comes to you. But if you want to...you too can choose. It's all in your head.
But if a man thats fly chooses to holla at a girl ...she's choosing
Ya'll are making shyt up.Like I always say, it's not every p*ssy you have to fukk. If you're a person with no standards or ambition then sure you're not choosing; you're taking whatever comes to you. But if you want to...you too can choose. It's all in your head.
and for the record i agree with the general sentiment that its up to a girl if you're gonna fukk a VAST MAJORITY of the time. But after a certain point...once you learn how a lot of these girls work you can tip the scales a little bit
no.
girls just wanna have funds
The way you're talking makes it sound like the initial choice is an irrevocable thing. So she made the choice to like you at first sight, who's to say she won't change her mind? People make choices everyday in a relationship, and even if you're just talking about the start of the relationship, there's still a whole sequence of choices involved.
And I don't think chasing girls is useless. If you're trying to get picked, you're just enhancing your odds by putting yourself out there, instead of waiting peacefully in your pokeball for the ''I choose you, Trillion!''
But I like to think both males and females make choices... otherwise it sounds like the guy is just stuck with me or settling, and that's a frankly disturbing thought. I don't want anyone to be with me just because I chose them, not when they would have picked someone else if they thought they had a choice.
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
This thread is devoid of female responses but full of female daps... 
I would like to hear from @Rawtid, @Token & @BillCosbyAteMyHomework........
The only power men have is the decision to decide if they want to commit and/or marry a female that has already made the decision to commit to them.
I would like to hear from @Rawtid, @Token & @BillCosbyAteMyHomework........
The only power men have is the decision to decide if they want to commit and/or marry a female that has already made the decision to commit to them.
To answer @QuintessentialBM , above explains my feelings very well. We all make choices. You get to choose the most for yourself (man or woman) by having standards, putting yourself out there, and not settling. When I was dating, sure, I had a lot of options. One of my really good friends would always ask me what/how, etc., even to the point of looking at herself lower (she's very pretty). The fact is, she never put herself out there to meet people. That narrowed her odds greatly of having options. Then, when she would randomly meet a guy she was semi-interested in (he was probably out there dating), she looked at it as him not choosing her.
The way you're talking makes it sound like the initial choice is an irrevocable thing. So she made the choice to like you at first sight, who's to say she won't change her mind? People make choices everyday in a relationship, and even if you're just talking about the start of the relationship, there's still a whole sequence of choices involved.
And I don't think chasing girls is useless. If you're trying to get picked, you're just enhancing your odds by putting yourself out there, instead of waiting peacefully in your pokeball for the ''I choose you, Trillion!''
But I like to think both males and females make choices... otherwise it sounds like the guy is just stuck with me or settling, and that's a frankly disturbing thought. I don't want anyone to be with me just because I chose them, not when they would have picked someone else if they thought they had a choice.
Long winded response, but we create our own destiny in this case.
So when you're with a woman, you're never for once going to think you chose her too?