“Women don’t know what they want”. Who’s responsible for that lie?

[AngryBaby]

Shes struggling to decide whether she wants to put you in the sidepiece category or the boyfriend lane. Women like men tend to break down people into 'just for fun' and 'serious' when you show signs that you can be either one it fukks with their mind. That appears to be what's happening here. Women like that want you more when you don't react when they say shyt like "im not ready to date" to you. Its like when they think they've got your ass with "we need to talk" when they know your day just started and you have to be at work for at least 8 hours. They think they got you until you respond "yes we do"

Let her twist in her emotions while you seek out another addition to the team. Thats what worked for me shes jealous that you have options and aren't wasting time playing games with her.

She also just got out of a relationship like 5 weeks ago, so maybe that adds some shyt.

Sadly, its pretty much over now I think. I actually chuckle when girls try to act like they can play the "friend" card. When I had such blatant displays of attraction and value demonstrated physically. So I don't mind being a presence and watching them squirm as I'm around them lol so I'm like "okay were friends, why can't we meet up then hm? Thats not how you are with your other friends lol"

But when you're a "hot guy" its like they know...that seeing you again or truly keeping you around isnt to their benefit. Hence why the girl refused to see me in person in that convo lol taking my powers away. Especially if they have a new guy that likely won't match you physically.

Guarantee if I was a average looking simpy schmoe, shed have no issue seeing me and bringing me around even her future partners as a friend lol

I said "so are we done, no more angrybaby ever again right?" Lol and she kept saying "i don't know, I don't know I can't answer that right now, omg your so dramatic!" Lol wut. its yes or no. I like to have them say it. (I'll just do what I want anyway, but im more interested in them doing it.)

Never had a chick tell on herself so much while attempting to "reject".

 

[TRUEST]

Keep it a buck, some men are gonna have an issue no matter what she wants. Women prevaricate and flounder b/c they trying to live within confines of what society has tried to shove down their throats as femininity.
When all the hoops we make women jump thru to justify our hot takes of who we want them to be vs. who they actually are are torn down (or you encounter a chick who don’t care about trying to live on your terms), then you’ll get honesty.

But even then, when chicks are honest, some men are so violently defensive that chicks revert right back to saying whatever asinine nonsense we think you wanna hear and beating around the bush instead of being direct.

Women literally have to fight a lotta programming just to figure out who they are. It is what it is.

Just say u want the freedom to hoe around. It’s ok.

 

[Strapped]

Women change with the wind. Their emotions control them. They are flakey and unreliable which is why people say they don't know what they want.

In reality what they are saying is that women are not consistent

What he says

 

[You Win Perfect]

Women change with the wind. Their emotions control them. They are flakey and unreliable which is why people say they don't know what they want.

In reality what they are saying is that women are not consistent

/thread
women are lead by emotions. which by their nature are unstable
men are more logical. which is why we can actually articulate exactly what we want.
men are told to just deal with it

 

[Fresh]

my only thing with SOME women is they have 50 million standards that men must meet, while most men keep it a lot more simple when it comes to the type of women we want

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

my only thing with SOME women is they have 50 million standards that men must meet, while most men keep it a lot more simple when it comes to the type of women we want

You can't really fault them for that. If women were hollering at you constantly since you were a teenager, you'd develop higher and higher requirements to filter out the applications.

We don't have to be picky because unless you a handsome gang five star general, women ain't approaching you blatantly and blowing up your socials and dating profiles.

 

[Bossino]

My life has become so much simpler without caring about women in aggregate, their plight, their opinions, their wants, etc. I'm not going back to all that the other shyt

 

[Fresh]

You can't really fault them for that. If women were hollering at you constantly since you were a teenager, you'd develop higher and higher requirements to filter out the applications.

We don't have to be picky because unless you a handsome gang five star general, women ain't approaching you blatantly and blowing up your socials and dating profiles.

I hear you bro, but sometimes when women are talking about the type of man they want they're basically describing Superman

when men are talking about the type of women they want they're not describing Wonder Woman

men don't be on that type of time, regardless if they're handsome gang with money

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree breh, but I still respect your opinion though

 

[mag357]

If you think it's a lie ...then you don't know Women

 

[AngryBaby]

She also just got out of a relationship like 5 weeks ago, so maybe that adds some shyt.

Sadly, its pretty much over now I think. I actually chuckle when girls try to act like they can play the "friend" card. When I had such blatant displays of attraction and value demonstrated physically. So I don't mind being a presence and watching them squirm as I'm around them lol so I'm like "okay were friends, why can't we meet up then hm? Thats not how you are with your other friends lol"

But when you're a "hot guy" its like they know...that seeing you again or truly keeping you around isnt to their benefit. Hence why the girl refused to see me in person in that convo lol taking my powers away. Especially if they have a new guy that likely won't match you physically.

Guarantee if I was a average looking simpy schmoe, shed have no issue seeing me and bringing me around even her future partners as a friend lol

You can't really fault them for that. If women were hollering at you constantly since you were a teenager, you'd develop higher and higher requirements to filter out the applications.

We don't have to be picky because unless you a handsome gang five star general, women ain't approaching you blatantly and blowing up your socials and dating profiles.

But the women usually end up with a schmoe though...the majority if the time.

They literally are weird if its a guy that...upsets the dynamic they want.

They are picky for if it falls within the confines of the dynamic that works best for them. Not picky for the objective value of the individual male. Alot of it transactional for them when it comes to a relationship.

I know this bad chick, in the industry that had this boyfriend for awhile. She was 28, he was 44 and looked like shyt, dude was a white a drug dealer, and when they broke up he went to her place and beat the shyt out of her lol

This...is more complex than "picky". This is more complex than "you arent her type" or not as high value.

 

[mag357]

A lot of what they say is based on what will make them look good because we raise girls as a society to value positive appearances over substantive statements. Women are taught to speak in generalities rather than specifics and to speak in a way intended to spare mens feelings.

"Im not sure"=no

"Lets stay friends"= I don't want to see you again or talk to you, but I don't want there to be bad blood between us and have you going around telling people im a heartless bytch.

"You're not my type"= I don't find you physically attractive

"Im not ready for a relationship right now"=you're not doing it for me. The attraction isn't strong enough to make up for the deficits you have.

(When asked out) "can i think about it?"= I don't know how to tell you 'no' right now.

"Lets take a break (on our relationship)"= I want to see if there is a suitable replacement for you/I want to try the kind of sex that you can't give me right now.

Your time as a man is valuable so you just need to take these as your queues to move on and take your energy elsewhere.

Men who have rosters understand this and generally don't trip on rejections. When they hear lets be friends they respond "bet. Nice meeting you" and move on. The men that get all bent up out of shape over these kinds of statements are putting their all into one woman thinking shes going to feel how he does, then they're heartbroken. Our fathers and forefathers knew the game and would have their lil side pieces and jump offs until they met our mothers--the woman they feel was the right one for them. Then they dissolved the team and stuck with their star player. Some of our fathers kept the roster around in the shadows tho and had them 'business trips'

Spittin knowledge

 

[Turbulent]

Women know what they want. They just don't know what they need.

 

[KingFreeman]

That saying wasn't completely intended to refer to sexual preference, more like life choices and general decisionmaking.