“Women don’t know what they want”. Who’s responsible for that lie?

[AngryBaby]

Women change with the wind. Their emotions control them. They are flakey and unreliable which is why people say they don't know what they want.

In reality what they are saying is that women are not consistent

Yeah was even approached by this pretty white chick, bought me a drink, gave me her number, asked me to dinner, commented how shes attracted to me, and how I should model in the dinner offer lol she saw other women hit on me also (so she knew it wasnt just her). then when we continued to hang out she was randomly wildly unsure if what she wanted (I never asked mind you, she would bring the convo up).

Was even scared to have sex with me lol then hit me with "if I keep hanging out with you, im going to like you more and it'll turn into a relationship. And I'm going to stop that" like...what lol then why even do this xD

I feel like alot of guys dont know the feel of getting wildy validated from an attraction/physical standpoint, and not really fukking up or anything and still have girls pull shyt like that lol

Its like...what do you do with that? Lol

 

[Moose_Greyjoy]

Never met a woman who knew what they wanted eat

 

[bigde09]

Women change with the wind. Their emotions control them. They are flakey and unreliable which is why people say they don't know what they want.

In reality what they are saying is that women are not consistent

I'll also add that this isn't just for dating. I see this kind of stuff in the corporate world. I have a woman supervisor that will change how she feels about her employees day to day.

One day she's talking to HR about them and a couple weeks later she's understanding and giving out chances.

I have women co-workers who hate each other one week and are bestfriends the next week. Its all about how they feel in the moment.

 

[BelieveBeOK]

It's because a lot of the time, women just say what they think sounds "right" or what they believe others want to hear.

In reality what they actually respond to and engage with is, a lot of the time, very different to what they say.

Kind of hard to explain. It's just one of those things. If you know you know.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

There’s this thing they call magnet. A magnet attracts objects to it. In the case of women, there are certain masculine characteristics that attract them. U can be tall or short, ugly or handsome, if you’ve got that magnetism u will attract all types of women.

women can list all types of gibberish as far as preferences. But they can’t control what makes their puccy tingle. All u need to do as a man is be bold. It helps tremendously if u have the gift of gab. If u are witty and can make these girls laugh, the sky is truly the limit. And if on top of all that, you’re not bad looking, game over.

Indeed Mouthpiece Charisma and Sexual Charisma. The latter is a game changer. Planting thoughts in her head that would lead to the sheets. Takes confidence and boldness to stand out

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Yeah was even approached by this pretty white chick, bought me a drink, gave me her number, asked me to dinner, commented how shes attracted to me, and how I should model in the dinner offer lol she saw other women hit on me also (so she knew it wasnt just her). then when we continued to hang out she was randomly wildly unsure if what she wanted (I never asked mind you, she would bring the convo up).

Was even scared to have sex with me lol then hit me with "if I keep hanging out with you, im going to like you more and it'll turn into a relationship. And I'm going to stop that" like...what lol then why even do this xD

I feel like alot of guys dont know the feel of getting wildy validated from an attraction/physical standpoint, and not really fukking up or anything and still have girls pull shyt like that lol

Its like...what do you do with that? Lol

Indeed Being "select" is a great feeling. It could happen to any dude, they just have to improve themselves.

 

[KidJSoul]

Some do know, and give mixed signals cause they don't like you, like you said

Other women do know what they want, but may lie if they feel embarrassed about it

And there are some who actually "know", but then if they meet a guy that hits the spot... then their tastes change.


And then you have those who don't know. They date different guys, even some that are solid, but it doesn't do anything for them.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

A lot of what they say is based on what will make them look good because we raise girls as a society to value positive appearances over substantive statements. Women are taught to speak in generalities rather than specifics and to speak in a way intended to spare mens feelings.

"Im not sure"=no

"Lets stay friends"= I don't want to see you again or talk to you, but I don't want there to be bad blood between us and have you going around telling people im a heartless bytch.

"You're not my type"= I don't find you physically attractive

"Im not ready for a relationship right now"=you're not doing it for me. The attraction isn't strong enough to make up for the deficits you have.

(When asked out) "can i think about it?"= I don't know how to tell you 'no' right now.

"Lets take a break (on our relationship)"= I want to see if there is a suitable replacement for you/I want to try the kind of sex that you can't give me right now.

Your time as a man is valuable so you just need to take these as your queues to move on and take your energy elsewhere.

Men who have rosters understand this and generally don't trip on rejections. When they hear lets be friends they respond "bet. Nice meeting you" and move on. The men that get all bent up out of shape over these kinds of statements are putting their all into one woman thinking shes going to feel how he does, then they're heartbroken. Our fathers and forefathers knew the game and would have their lil side pieces and jump offs until they met our mothers--the woman they feel was the right one for them. Then they dissolved the team and stuck with their star player. Some of our fathers kept the roster around in the shadows tho and had them 'business trips'

 

[Coco Loco]

The phrase mostly comes out of the mouths of men who think we all move the same or think the same or that they can apply what the last one liked/what worked to the rest of us. Women know what we want we just don't all want the same things. When we express it and it's not what this or that one said, then "we don't know what we want". It's a case my case situation because I'd never think to apply what one man wants/likes to all. That would be asinine.

 

[Mowgli]

They don't know shyt

O you're rich?

He's lame.

O he's adventurous

He's broke

He's sophisticated

He's boring

The modern woman is a crap shoot every morning.

Self driven.

Blame men. Simps do anything to please a woman even if she's got rabies of the brain.

 

[AngryBaby]

A lot of what they say is based on what will make them look good because we raise girls as a society to value positive appearances over substantive statements. Women are taught to speak in generalities rather than specifics and to speak in a way intended to spare mens feelings.

"Im not sure"=no

"Lets stay friends"= I don't want to see you again or talk to you, but I don't want there to be bad blood between us and have you going around telling people im a heartless bytch.

"You're not my type"= I don't find you physically attractive

"Im not ready for a relationship right now"=you're not doing it for me. The attraction isn't strong enough to make up for the deficits you have.

(When asked out) "can i think about it?"= I don't know how to tell you 'no' right now.

"Lets take a break (on our relationship)"= I want to see if there is a suitable replacement for you/I want to try the kind of sex that you can't give me right now.

Your time as a man is valuable so you just need to take these as your queues to move on and take your energy elsewhere.

Men who have rosters understand this and generally don't trip on rejections. When they hear lets be friends they respond "bet. Nice meeting you" and move on. The men that get all bent up out of shape over these kinds of statements are putting their all into one woman thinking shes going to feel how he does, then they're heartbroken. Our fathers and forefathers knew the game and would have their lil side pieces and jump offs until they met our mothers--the woman they feel was the right one for them. Then they dissolved the team and stuck with their star player. Some of our fathers kept the roster around in the shadows tho and had them 'business trips'

Good post.

But tell me about a woman who initiated everything like in my post above.

But is all over place in the range of saying

"I cant date you, because Id never get out of bed"
"You're a greek god, model, hot af etc, big dikk"
Saves your nudes lol mentions how they look at it on repeat, then send you them etc.

Then says things like "I see more of a friendship in you" lol then "I feel like if we kept hanging out Id like you and that will lead to a relationship which i need to stop" THEN "I honestly think you're a player" THEN when I mention I already have been seeing someone else (a super hot woman she knows of) she gets quiet and says "so you didnt even think we could salvage this!?"

Then says "you know what i dont even care"

Analyze that one for me lol and mind you she said all the negative shyt that was at a distance, not in person. She was afraid to meet up in person. Said I intimidate her.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Good post.

But tell me about a woman who initiated everything like in my post above.

But is all over place in the range of saying

"I cant date you, because Id never get out of bed"
"You're a greek god, model, hot af etc, big dikk"
Saves your nudes lol mentions how they look at it on repeat, then send you them etc.

Then says things like "I see more of a friendship in you" lol then "I feel like if we kept hanging out Id like you and that will lead to a relationship which i need to stop" THEN "I honestly think you're a player" THEN when I mention I already have been seeing someone else (a super hot woman she knows of) she gets quiet and says "so you didnt even think we could salvage this!?"

Then says "you know what i dont even care"

Analyze that one for me lol and mind you she said all the negative shyt that was at a distance, not in person. She was afraid to meet up in person. Said I intimidate her.

Shes struggling to decide whether she wants to put you in the sidepiece category or the boyfriend lane. Women like men tend to break down people into 'just for fun' and 'serious' when you show signs that you can be either one it fukks with their mind. That appears to be what's happening here. Women like that want you more when you don't react when they say shyt like "im not ready to date" to you. Its like when they think they've got your ass with "we need to talk" when they know your day just started and you have to be at work for at least 8 hours. They think they got you until you respond "yes we do"

Let her twist in her emotions while you seek out another addition to the team. Thats what worked for me shes jealous that you have options and aren't wasting time playing games with her.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Indeed Being "select" is a great feeling. It could happen to any dude, they just have to improve themselves.

Rom

 

[Diondon]

If she's acting noncommittal, there's another nikka
nikkas need to know their position; are you option A, B or C?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Keep it a buck, some men are gonna have an issue no matter what she wants. Women prevaricate and flounder b/c they trying to live within confines of what society has tried to shove down their throats as femininity.
When all the hoops we make women jump thru to justify our hot takes of who we want them to be vs. who they actually are are torn down (or you encounter a chick who don’t care about trying to live on your terms), then you’ll get honesty.

But even then, when chicks are honest, some men are so violently defensive that chicks revert right back to saying whatever asinine nonsense we think you wanna hear and beating around the bush instead of being direct.

Women literally have to fight a lotta programming just to figure out who they are. It is what it is.