Women explain why men won’t approach

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Water seeks its own level. If the men you want aint approaching you, then its cause YOU aint the girl they want.

Either work on being that girl or

 

[Roid Jones]

Water seeks its own level. If the men you want aint approaching you, then its cause YOU aint the girl they want.

Either work on being that girl or

Now you know the delusion and lack of accountability stops them from doing this

 

[Marezzy]

I remember I read something somebody put in “gems dealing with women” sticky thread. The worst you can get is a no. I cold approached a fine ass chick the next day. 4 days later I was in her guts with a goofy ass kool aid smile. Just be respectful and assertive with the approach then you’ll most likely leave with the number.

 

[HE_Pennypacker]

I don’t know what kind of weirdos you guys are around.

I’ve cold approached plenty and been largely successful. But I don’t bother someone who looks preoccupied or busy, and I’ll wait for the energy to be there. I wonder if you dudes are the type to grab a woman’s arm while she’s clearly going somewhere and then get mad when she says no.

I’ve been rejected, it’s part of the game. It’s always just been polite and I keep it moving.

 

[Da King]

And these hoes are explaining exactly why men won’t approach. bytches whining because the man that THEY WANT won’t approach them and it’s all their fault with this me too shyt.

exactly, women getting cold approached but just not from the men then want

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

A portion of that video was black women telling black women to smile, yet black women call into KS show saying they don't have to smile, is it Oochie wally or one mic

I said this 10 years ago on sohh. Been accused of hating Black women ever since.

 

[CarltonJunior]

I can't think of the last time I had a legit successful cold approach, if anything a chick will cold approach me

I don't play the long game per se like other brehs here mentioned but I'll feel out her situation for a lil bit and then I'll let her know wassup. Majority of women I been with made the first move on me tho.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

A lot of the coli says cold approaching is dead.

I don't blame dudes for not cold approaching either because it seems like a lot of women won't give you their number, but their Snap Chat or Insta, deeming your chances very low. At least with their number a man could call and set something up, but with social media you stuck dming

Lotta girls give you their IG as opposed to their # these days, that doesn’t stop anything.

Not all women want to give their personal number out to every single guy that flatters them. Get the IG, talk to them a few days on there to prove you not a weirdo, then say yo I’m not on IG much lemme get your # so I don’t have to keep DM’ing you.

Not a difficult game. It’s not women being stuck up or social media crazy like thecoli thinks. I’ve had multiple women tell me giving out their IG is less intimidating than giving their phone # to a stranger. If they give a guy their IG and he ends up being a creep they can block him.

 

[Rozay Oro]

FWIW, I cold approached my wife. Just believe in yourself brehs

What did you say?

 

[Bledswole]

Its also best to get their IG too so you can see exactly what type of woman you dealing with... Plus you can use that as a way to set up meetings and getting her number too.

Plus I don't care what these dating gurus say.. You gotta build some type of rapport for a chick to want to fukk with you.


Dudes be having a 2 minute rushed exchange with a chick and just leaving their number thinking they gonna standout out of all of the dyck offers they get both online and offline

Nah if you got enough juice you can have a very brief interaction with a chick and have her hit you up I’ve seen it plenty times

 

[Black Haven]

I only cold approach if I KNOW I'm not gonna see her around again. Other than that, I just usually wait her for her to give those signals. We grown

Thats me all the way with the bolded and underlined heavy. I’ll also add I’ll only approach if it’s only me and her on the grocery aisle to shoot my shot or if she’s by herself on the cash register with no one else around. That’s the only way I feel comfortable going for the shot.

 

[Gunz&Butta]

Cold approach is like taking a cold shower

Scary at first but once you do it you feel good and energized

Saying that you're scared of being accused of sexual assault or harassment is just a cop out though. Just say you're shook

cold facts.
And when you pull up on a chick, no matter the outcome, you feel the energy and adrenaline to approach several women that same day because you dont give a fvck no more.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

 

[Rekkapryde]

And these hoes are explaining exactly why men won’t approach. bytches whining because the man that THEY WANT won’t approach them and it’s all their fault with this me too shyt.

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