Women explain why men won’t approach

[MikeyK]

Cold approach is like taking a cold shower

Scary at first but once you do it you feel good and energized

Saying that you're scared of being accused of sexual assault or harassment is just a cop out though. Just say you're shook

Sexual assault and harassment excuses are what incels say 99% of the time. Read the comments in the op video.

I used to say the same shyt until I was around certain type of women lol. Seen a group of women encourage another one to get an uber driver fired cuz he asked for her number

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I used to say the same shyt until I was around certain type of women lol. Seen a group of women encourage another one to get an uber driver fired cuz he asked for her number

Most women ain't like that, like a very large percentage ain't like that. If you can't peep body language then that's on you. I expect a woman with tattoos and gold teeth to make a scene.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

The thing about cold approaching is that you have to be the right man at the right time.

When women say they "want men to approach them", they're not talking about just any random guy. Only the ones they want.

I knew chicks who ignored every single guy that approached them but would go on social media and say "why are guys so scared to talk to me?"

Don't believe them for a second. EVERY woman that isn't completely hideous or deformed is getting approached.

 

[Pete Wrigley]

FWIW, I cold approached my wife. Just believe in yourself brehs

 

[BornStar]

If you like what you see the least you can do is send choosing signals, if not your you are getting ignored. Im not in the game of free validation. You lost out on the man you desired.

 

[SheWantTheD]

A lot of the coli says cold approaching is dead.

I don't blame dudes for not cold approaching either because it seems like a lot of women won't give you their number, but their Snap Chat or Insta, deeming your chances very low. At least with their number a man could call and set something up, but with social media you stuck dming

Cold approaching is running up on a chick that hasn’t noticed you tho.

Approaching a woman that let it be known she wants you to holla is not cold approaching.

 

[Neuromancer]

Women aren't complaining about this cause if they were they would be doing something about it.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Problem #1 - women tend to be attracted to a narrow range of men.

Put Jamal in a room of 100 women and he'd be willing to approach 85 of them just to spit game and see what happens.

Put Ebony in a room of 100 men, and she's only going to be remotely interested in 15 or 20 brehs tops. That's not her fault.....but thems the breaks. If you're more picky, you have to accept longer droughts.

 

[Chrishaune]

Easy way for men to know if a woman is more likely to give you some time.......She goes out of her way to put herself in your vicinity. She does it multiple times. Women are not going to start talking to the man they see as attractive most of the time because of fear of rejection, but they will put themselves near you to be talked to.

 

[Sauce Dab]

Incel gang gone come in here and eat well

 

[8WON6]

 

[Easy-E]

Seeing a lot of Danger Zone inhabitants....

 

[-deleted-]

A lot of you may or may not remember this, but around the time Instagram and GroupMe started getting lit the big thing was girls used to expose men for shooting their shot, that made nikkas real scary when it comes to this.

Funny how no one mentions this time period. Had to be 2011-2014

 

[Regular Developer]

Select men can’t relate.

Ive been getting choosing signs from women all my life. I know when a woman likes what she sees or wants you to approach. A lot of times I pretend like I don’t notice.

Now if these women aren’t throwing choosing signs and wonder why they aren’t getting approached then that’s all on them.

And with the advent of dating apps people are less likely to approach like in the past. Only a small percentage of men have that confidence to approach without hesitation or even care that a woman is choosing or not.

I've never been good at reading choosing signs from the jump, but I'm pretty good at doing direct interaction reads. I just approach whoever I think is attractive and figure it out as I go. If anything about the interaction is off, though, I get out of there.

My goto is always approach any girl at the beginning of an outing and get that rejection early. It was almost like a warm up, as the rest of the day/night I'm not hesitant at all.

 

[8WON6]

A lot of you may or may not remember this, but around the time Instagram and GroupMe started getting lit the big thing was girls used to expose men for shooting their shot, that made nikkas real scary when it comes to this.

Funny how no one mentions this time period. Had to be 2011-2014

that video i posted of the woman walking in public is 2014. The front edge of the metoo movement. Alot of dudes actually took the metoo shyt serious and stopped thirsting face-to-face. Looks like some of the women miss it.