Dillah810
Flat Girther
They don't. By the time the women they liked come around to wanting them, those women are
status. The cool/thug nikkas were with those women when they were in their prime.
Women gone get enough of trying to change these men
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status. The cool/thug nikkas were with those women when they were in their prime.
Nerds marry nerds and many black women are not nerds and if they're going to date a nerd, its because hes financially stable which comes back to the percentage of black men that have money which is low, so to them there is probably no incentive to go that route since A. they arent nerds and B, cant marry into money so they go the swag route because at least, they'll have someone they can relate to more (someone who doesnt take education seriously) and can possibly get good sex.
The obsession with sex among black people has also crippled our people into making bad decisions.
They end up with a fat woman to. Thats alot of what you have to pick from after 30.They don't. By the time the women they liked come around to wanting them, those women are
its not just hood nikkas tho.
Its just a bunch of immature ass boys or men whom simply are not ready for commitment (which they have a right to not be)
I know men who are doctors, lawyers, or in college with no jail record etc that are just not ready for a relationship and if they are, im pretty sure it won't be with a woman thats trying to be his "homielover"
Yeah yeah, but why are you saying "ready" and "immature" as if commitment relationships are a must for everyone
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Chesirecatdaddy
All Star
My point is that time does it's job. those women becomeThey don't. By the time the women they liked come around to wanting them, those women are
. The nerds get over them eventually, they then find success, and newer/better women. Sounds like winning .
Elle Driver
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How many nikkas you know that's caring and not a hoodrat that's into you but you ain't fukking with cause you ain't feeling him?
Ain't feeling him why?
BocaRear
The World Is My Country, To Do Good Is My Religion
Elle Driver
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BocaRear
The World Is My Country, To Do Good Is My Religion
little4209
All Star
them same "taken" men be dropping their numbers on 32 week old instagam pics tho
i know this shyt first hand
If this isn't the truth....and at the same time, posting about how much they love their girl
.....lol...
The typical hood nikka is somewhere in her same emotional range(which is very short and shallow).Some females get off on that whole "pain is love" back and forth drama.A nikka in the same emotional range is able to keep the drama bouncing back & forth.In a crazy sorta twisted way, it provides some chicks with the emotional backdrop they fiend.As it is, that "back and forth" helps chicks like that to develop sexual tension.Some females bond through chaos, not peace.Especially between the ages of 16-25.At the rate people emotionally mature nowadays, i'd bump that up to 16-35.
A lot of females are about public perception when it comes to relationships.That's why they love men who display dominant social status.They don't care that their man is a madden king when he's at the house, but when they go out, he better be dressed to the T, and swagged out.Most of the time, she's not even really into the nikka like that.She's just fixated on him being her project.He's nothing but a walking dildo/human accessory.No different than that matching purse and those matching shoes.She's superficially tapping into her maternal instincts.It goes back to that tension thing.She gets off on changing or attempting to change a nikka.
Beyond that, the relationship really has no foundation or substance.It's just two selfish/borderline sociopaths getting together to mutually exploit one another.
That's why the so called "nice guy" has no place.he's too honest with his feelings and emotions.To a chick like that, he's "boring"..a easy kill because he doesn't know how to move out there in the Serengeti.A Lioness will have more fun hunting a Hyena than she will that sweet lil obedient Labador.Him not knowing how to play the game is a relinquishment of his power.The typical nice guy is eager to give all of himself when he enters a relationship.When you're dealing with females who have claws on their mitts, you render yourself as "low value" in the process.The female feels like she doesn't have to do anything to meet your standards.That's boring to the female brain.
Subconsciously amd maybe even consciouslym she like "You're willing to give me all of that even though I'm not willing to give you shyt?"
They start to feel like you have no value.They might keep you around as an asset and throw you some charity p*ssy every once in a while, but they'll never truly desire you.That's why a lot of females are attracted to nikkaz who "don't need them".In the female brain, a man like that has value because she has to put in work in order to gain his attention.Once she becomes fixated on catching his eye, the idea consumes her whole thought process.That man becomes the most valuable thing in her world at that moment.They want someone who makes them work for his attention, not someone who gives it willingly.Pimps and ho's are extreme examples of this.I wouldn't even say "extreme" but rather blatantly obvious.
That's how some females unknowingly create the @ssholes that they instinctively desire.They won't ever tell you it, though.Can't go against the "Woman Code" and destroy the safety net of simps, squares, and "nice guys" they fall back on once the @ssholes/psychopaths are done with them.
Even when you get ito the psychology of sex, it's even more twisted.It's why some nikkaz get nasty porno sex and some don't.Females only give you what you give them.If you're coming off as Mr.Sunshine, then don't expect her dark side to come out.You'll only get missionary under the covers...if that.
But Mr.Psychopath has a better read on females when it comes to psycho-sexuality.He understands that it's more of a mental thing.He's hitting it every which way, in every hole.A female has to know, if he's hitting it in every hole, no judgement, then what is there to be ashamed of?NOTHING..she's free from all the pretentious morality and able to explore her deepest darkest desires.Dudes that know the game know it's like a psycho-sexual way of saying "I accept you all the way" booty juice, turds, farts...whatever.
Deep down, they don't wanna be your princess on a pedestal.That's a bullshyt social construct that comes with unnecessary pressure.
Truth. Especially women in this society that want to stay in that high school mode till they LOOK old. And for some of the better visually attractive women, that won't be till they hit 50 years of age.
Some people, sex is all that they live for. They can be broke ass scumbag bums like Peter Gunz, but if his dikk game and swag on point, women will chase him.The good thing is that the black women that are 90s babies are more open-minded and some of them are nerds themselves. Its the 70s and 80s generation that were tainted in the "Tupac in a business suit" bullshyt that are mentally lost.
They don't. By the time the women they liked come around to wanting them, those women are
Most of them dudes will be in jail/dead/ broke at that time.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
AND STOP GOING AFTER TAKEN nikkaS!!! WE WORKED TOO GOTDAMNED HARD TO GET THIS ONE, JUST TO HAVE YOU STROLL THAT FINE ASS AROUND LIKE YOU WAS FEELIN US FROM THE BEGINNING.
FOH
SWIGGY THE GREAT!!
art barr