Women never take accountability

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I shared on here that I was beefing hard with the wife about a week or so ago. And that was the primary reason. I lost it and blew up at her and ran down a list or situations that she caused and the aftermath and showed her in every situation how it was her fault and how she bears responsibility for how each of those situations turned out.

I was ready to end it, I got so angry. To my shock and surprise, she came back to me a couple of days later and told me that she completely understood why I felt the way I did and that I was right. It was her fault. And she pledged to make each situation right.

It was a pleasant surprise. So don't give up hope breh.
you put your foot down like a man :yeshrug:
 

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Water is wet and period p*ssy stank, since we’re stating blatantly obvious things. Women NEVER take accountability or admit that they could’ve handled a situation better. Which is why I grew disillusioned with the dating process many years ago, fell in love with how peaceful and quiet solitude is, and haven’t looked back or second guessed my decision once :yeshrug:

The feeling of busting a nut pales in comparison to the feeling of peace of mind. Women are resource drainers. Mainly money and peace. When dudes realize this and start bushing them at the slightest disrespect, their behavior will collectively change. But most nikkas too p*ssy whipped and desperate to check they ass or walk away :manny:

Bolded is facts, same wave that I'm on. Call me jaded but I've been much happier once I realized these things and started to move accordingly.
 

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I shared on here that I was beefing hard with the wife about a week or so ago. And that was the primary reason. I lost it and blew up at her and ran down a list or situations that she caused and the aftermath and showed her in every situation how it was her fault and how she bears responsibility for how each of those situations turned out.

I was ready to end it, I got so angry. To my shock and surprise, she came back to me a couple of days later and told me that she completely understood why I felt the way I did and that I was right. It was her fault. And she pledged to make each situation right.

It was a pleasant surprise. So don't give up hope breh.

It is funny, I came in this thread to suggest exactly what you did.

The trick is not getting into a back and forth argument. You move away from the issue and provide them with ammunition in the process.

Say what you have to say and walk away.
 
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It is funny, I came in this thread to suggest exactly what you did.

The trick is not getting into a back and forth argument. You move away from the issue and provide them with ammunition in the process.

Say what you have to say and walk away.




That's exactly what it was. No argument. Just me saying what it is and what it aint gon be.
 

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I don’t care if I’m 90 years old if I have a woman talking down to me I’m out. Nothing is worth being one of those miserable dudes married to a bytch so nasty they work late.
Common as shyt in the military. Dudes will OD have 20-30 kats working for 12+ hours just because they don't want to go home to their fat wife, bad ass kids, and dog that's a habitual carpet shytter.
 

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My problem is that I let shyt slide in the moment bc I always want to make sure I'M not in the wrong and mistreating the woman. Women will always try to make you think you're at fault.

So I let things slide, and slide...and they get comfortable....and then one day they pop off again and I'm just done with the situation. Like I've mentally checked out.

Makes me look bad and makes them look at me like well "he just ended it abruptly."

When in actuality, in my mind, you're a grown ass adult just like me. You know better than to act a certain way towards me, and I shouldn't have to check you on this time after time.

If you're looking to see how long/short your leash is, I'm NOT a good person to do that with.
 

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Y’all gonna get back together :shaq2:

That’s some deep in the relationship, heavy feelings type of arguments

Y’all will miss each other - one will get over their pride, call each other up and it’ll be like the first time y’all met.
 

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My current girl is better than a lot of women at taking accountability. She's not perfect and sometimes I have to remind and check her on occasion, but she tries and we manage to have civil conversations. She checks me when I'm wrong, so it's not one-sided.

Being with someone who's not accountable will drive you crazy. There's some women who are flat out delusional but occasionally you'll run into one who actually thinks that shot is cute. That's the fukking WORST...and I've been there, I was married to her. So I'll never let myself get there again. Alone is legit way better.
 

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I’ll say this, women can only disrespect a man who they feel is more invested in the relationship than they are.

Truth spoken

If you love a woman and are looking like you are going to split up?

Just fukk her off and her you don't care...she'll come back

If you want her to stay and you get all mushy?.. you are her bytch... She won't respect it...
 
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