Women of the Coli, can you tell me why telling you to smile is offensive?
- Thread starter Mandarin Duck
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little4209
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Asking or telling a woman to smile is like the go to line for men who have no game.
From what I hear from women, it's always the dustiest dudes who are the ones doing he "random street flirting"...
From what I hear from women, it's always the dustiest dudes who are the ones doing he "random street flirting"...
Because they got fukked up teeth
You don't know what someone is going through maybe it's a reason they aren't smiling. Maybe they have nothing to smile about 
Some people want to be left alone. It depends on what's going on for me. Sometimes I just smile and sometimes I'm like
Some people want to be left alone. It depends on what's going on for me. Sometimes I just smile and sometimes I'm like
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
UnderstandableMale privilege maybe?I don't ever have a woman say it to me
Like a man is saying "hey, you need to present yourself in a manner that pleases me"
Not only that. Who the fukk just walks down the street smiling? :hodge2:
Also, another weird no game pick up line is dudes who like to walk up and compliment women's hair as if they as men give a fukk about female hair care 
Also, another weird no game pick up line is dudes who like to walk up and compliment women's hair as if they as men give a fukk about female hair care
I make it a habit to compliment Black women on their natural hair with a quick "I love your hair".
Late but I'm in.
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
I wish I could smile. You wouldn't even understand, Youngblood
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
You think I care about a neg.
You are more clueless than I originally thought.
Maybe the problem is u.
You are more clueless than I originally thought.
Maybe the problem is u.
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
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I think it has to do with the fact that women feel like it's an order being issued. Do you know the saying "it's not what you say, it's how you say it?" Now if a stranger comes up to me and demand that I smile, I'd flip them off. I would think them rude. It's all about the approach. Will a woman still be offended if an 80 year old man came up to her and say "you should smile more?" Would they see that as demanding or an order too? I don't think so. I think the offense is determined more on the approach of the person or stranger.
