I don't play video games so a chick that plays video games is def out of the question..if I did play then I guess it would be cool to play with her..there has to be a mid point in our relationship where we share a few common Interests, and on opposite sides of the spectrum we might have hobbies where we both don't participate in together but not totally repulsed at it, for instance cooking or fashion for her and music and anime for me..I still need the leeway and even tho I'm not clingy, video gaming is a time consuming activity where as she could be doing something productive instead of me watching her live out her fantasy in a Virtual world as Im writing rhymes at that moment..it's despairing