Yeah I’ve seen this dynamic too. My mom once tried to help a neighbor who was getting her ass beaten and you won’t believe what happened.
The chick getting abused tried to turn on my mom.

Not saying this situation is as volatile or dangerous as that one, but yeah he for sure probably won’t view this as being manipulated or preyed upon which is why I don’t blame him.
Her ass is still sick tho. And now she jobless, and might be pregnant, and a young boy who could barely finish high school gotta shoulder ALL that shyt. If it goes left, he’ll be on the Coli years later talking about how all bytches are whores, because this one sick ass broad got a pass as a predator for being light skinned, having ass and some titties.
Or maybe it works out, and they live happily ever after. I just can’t see it.
Edit: Also I’m sorry this happened to you but glad you were able to get past it and reflect on the dynamic.