Women what are the advantages of being upfront and telling you the truth?

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This is real talk.

A mans looks in relation to the female and how she see's herself is important when determining what she'll tolerate.

...But isn't it the same with us men?
It's actually worse with men I think. :ehh:
Breh1: breh she keyed your car and spit in your mom face:dahell:
breh2: I know breh but that p*ssy good :to:
Breh1: but she stabbed you over an argument:dahell:
Breh2: but she a dime piece :ahh:
 

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If your 100% honest with them
1) You wont' waste anyone's time. She'll know what you want and can decide to roll wit it or decline.
2)If she's down cool, alot of times that honesty shyt transforms into confidence, like they think " how dare he say some shyt like that to me" and end up fukking you because you had the audacity to be real.
3)If she declines, holla at the next female, tis a numbers game.
 

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Less drama. It's selfish to lie because you don't want to deal with what you think might happen if you tell the truth. Its selfish to lie because you want to get what you want without regard to the other person. This goes for men and women.

Why lie to deal with a person who wants different things as you? Honestly there are too many hoes to lie to one chick to get her. Then want to say that the girl is crazy. There are women who will deal with the situation too. It might not last long but at least you can say "I told you what it was from jump" and it will be on her. She put herself in that position.
 

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Respect. My thing is if you can't be honest with me then I know damn sure well that you can't be honest with yourself.
I refuse to entertain a man who chooses to with hold info from me regardless of the outcome.

My thing is, just be real. Just like it takes a certain type of man to stay honest with his female, it takes a certain type of female to be able to be receptive to such said honesty and also be real with her man.

:manny:
 

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The benefits of being honest are having integrity and being a man about your word. There is nothing more intriguing and respectable than a man about his word. It shows self pride even it it's not what the other person wants to hear. If your only concern about lying is whether you get p*ssy then you already lost.


Maybe I took to long to get to my point,but this aint about lying to get girls to deal with you. I acknowledge most women will deal with you regardless if they want to see what you about if you say you got a girl or not....im questioning moreso what happens after the relationship is over,i can tell you for a fact if shyt don't work out the way a woman wants it too,if she wasn't able to get you to stop dealing with another chick,if she wasn't able to get you to settle down...she damn sure is not gon describe you as intriguing and respectable and about your word when its all over:laff:...she gon slander you to the world like she never heard you tell her the truth because most women make up in they mind how shyt gon turn out no matter what you tell em:snoop:...so if it don't turn out with the happy ending she THOUGHT it would she still got the audacity to convince herself you lied:what:...and it aint exclusive to just admitting you got a girl either,tell a chick you aint tryna be commited. If you keep fukin her and she DECIDE to catch feeling thinking that will change if she keep fukking you,somehow you led her on and wasn't honest:mindblown:..what:childplease:?
 

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I just wanna know if imma be wasting my damn time with you while you think you running game on me....In others words, be real with me. If you talkin to another girl let me know. I'm not tryin to have no random ass woman tryin to fight me over no man... If it comes down to it, she can have him. No physical brawls needed.
 
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A woman would rather implicitly know you are dating another woman, it doesn't have to be explicitly known. So if she asks, avoid giving her a direct answer.

If you say no you are not dating any other woman besides her and she believes you, your value declines substantially. Thus deems you undateable to her. She needs to know other women want you.
 

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Most people can't handle the truth. For others, the truth only makes them want you more. I assess the individual and then say and do whatever it is I need to in order to get what I want out of the situation.


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Maybe I took to long to get to my point,but this aint about lying to get girls to deal with you. I acknowledge most women will deal with you regardless if they want to see what you about if you say you got a girl or not....im questioning moreso what happens after the relationship is over,i can tell you for a fact if shyt don't work out the way a woman wants it too,if she wasn't able to get you to stop dealing with another chick,if she wasn't able to get you to settle down...she damn sure is not gon describe you as intriguing and respectable and about your word when its all over:laff:...she gon slander you to the world like she never heard you tell her the truth because most women make up in they mind how shyt gon turn out no matter what you tell em:snoop:...so if it don't turn out with the happy ending she THOUGHT it would she still got the audacity to convince herself you lied:what:...and it aint exclusive to just admitting you got a girl either,tell a chick you aint tryna be commited. If you keep fukin her and she DECIDE to catch feeling thinking that will change if she keep fukking you,somehow you led her on and wasn't honest:mindblown:..what:childplease:?

It's about being that type person for yourself. It's not about what that other person thinks of you. You need to hold yourself accountable. Being honest with people is really the bare minimum. At the end of the day, do you wanna be known as a liar who can't even meet the bare minimum of human decency?

Listen you wanna bang multiple women then you need to accept the consequences. Hurt feels come from causal sex. If you can't take the heat keep your ass out the kitchen.Don't complain about doing something that you KNOW will have a negative outcome. Again, accountability.
 
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A woman would rather implicitly know you are dating another woman, it doesn't have to be explicitly known. So if she asks, avoid giving her a direct answer.

If you say no you are not dating any other woman besides her and she believes you, your value declines substantially. Thus deems you undateable to her. She needs to know other women want you.

You don't have to date another girl for that to happen. The fact that she even asks you that question means that she sees you as somebody that could get another chick if he so desired.
 

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Respect. My thing is if you can't be honest with me then I know damn sure well that you can't be honest with yourself.
I refuse to entertain a man who chooses to with hold info from me regardless of the outcome.

My thing is, just be real. Just like it takes a certain type of man to stay honest with his female, it takes a certain type of female to be able to be receptive to such said honesty and also be real with her man.

:manny:


amen, it takes a woman who can be not only receptive to it in the beginning,but also APPRECIATE the honesty in the end when shyt don't work out the way she imagined and made up in her mind it would,but how many women is that?. Alotta women can handle it up front but id say MAYBE 5% actually appreciate it once they feelings get involved and get hurt. If im honest and say im not looking for commitment and just wnna have fun,once shes unable to change me she gon swear I stopped dealin with her cuz im a childish dog and just wanted to go fuk other bytches:pachaha:...if I lie and tell her "baby we are commited:youngsabo:" I can just lie at the end say "i luhh you but we just not compatible:youngsabo:" and shell swear im a saint and appreciate my perceived honest which is really a lie:heh:..I in fact just wanna be a dog and fuk these bytches....telling a woman honestly who you are and what you want honestly aint shyt but a weapon she gon use against you later once it go bad it seems:manny:
 

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I just wanna know if imma be wasting my damn time with you while you think you running game on me....In others words, be real with me. If you talkin to another girl let me know. I'm not tryin to have no random ass woman tryin to fight me over no man... If it comes down to it, she can have him. No physical brawls needed.
This is nonsensical woman talk. What exactly is wasting your time. Whether I'm fukking 100 chicks, or just trying to spit at you, it don't mean we gonna click. And if we clickin, I could just as easy dead those other chicks because I found what I wanted. Now if I'm a guy and I put all my time in chasing you and you say nah I ain't feelin you, who wasted their time? Who got to start all over again.
 
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You don't have to date another girl for that to happen. The fact that she even asks you that question means that she sees you as somebody that could get another chick if he so desired.

Nope, it is a standard question females ALWAYS ask. I never said you have to date other women. Avoid answering the question.
 
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