AZBeauty
Stop lyin' nicca.
My honest opinion most chicks don't care. They will ask, just to know where they stand but if they want to mess around with you they will, regardless of your situation
Women what are the advantages of being upfront and telling you the truth?
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And those are the very guys that will always date the same type of chick- the equivalent to them.
Women are the ones in denial. I had a female she used to come at my neck. I told her nah, fall back we ain't that. She didn't. She was like we can be fukk buddies. So we fukked a couple times. Then she starts saying when we gonna be together. I'm like hold up, you said you was cool wit just fukking. And she like yeah, you right. Then she start telling me I ain't shyt, I led her on and she gonna get nikkas to fukk me up and a bunch of other nut shyt.Some men like to live in denial. it makes them feel better and allows them to continue to operate in a child like manner instead of maturing. Some dudes will always lie to females about what they are doing, their true motives, etc out of insecurity or because they would lose too much if they told the truth. So the lies become a lifestyle that makes sure that his needs get met.
And as far as the denial thing goes, if dude cannot be honest with himself about what he wants, doesnt want, loves, hates, etc out of life, from chicks, from himself then I cannot take him seriously. Being honest and truthful would promote growth that some are not ready for (same goes for females), its risky because there is a lose factor, and it takes concern for himself and others.
And in the end the man still ain't shyt. therefore telling the truth has very few advantages if any at all.
Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam
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Plausible deniability. This is standard female behaviour. Women are never accountable and never accept wrong.
Whatever the situation is, a woman will believe it's always the male's fault.
You definitely justify being a liar,if you are saying a woman has the right to think im a liar or tell people im a liar because that's a consequence of fukking a bunch of women is I might hurt they feelings no matter how honest I am. So honesty can blow up in your face as much as being a liar. And its okay to despise liars who lie to people,but women who lie on your character somebody should just say "well that's her opinion
"...unless we gon pretend women keep that shyt to themselves....but you stuck on nikkas lying when im talkin bout dudes who was honest so n/m...imo fuk that,if I aint lie I aint gon give you the right to paint me as a liar even in your own brain
,ima just remind ya azz how I was honest...then if u spread that shyt ima have to embarrass you further,aint nobody gon slander me and ima sit back like "oh well"....other people can not care bout sumbody lyin on them,i aint their yet,and its hard for me to consider that "growth" so I may never get there.
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glad somebody else done gon through it
....judging from responses on here and in real life women seem to believe this aint the vast majority of women who do this once they feelings get involved no matter how honest you was.
You definitely justify being a liar,if you are saying a woman has the right to think im a liar or tell people im a liar because that's a consequence of fukking a bunch of women is I might hurt they feelings no matter how honest I am. So honesty can blow up in your face as much as being a liar. And its okay to despise liars who lie to people,but women who lie on your character somebody should just say "well that's her opinion
Okay. I honestly don't care enough to continue going back and forth with you. Again, you have no standards for yourself but worried about what everyone else is thinking about you and doing to you so we will never have see eye to eye. I never justified anything. The women aren't right for lying but neither are you. Since apparently all the women you deal with/lie to are liars too I guess you all deserve each other. Good luck to you and yours.
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you just so slow aint you,still stuck talkin bout nikkas lying
...and then you wonder why this thread is relevant when you a woman hearing what you wanna hear and seeing what you wanna see,no need for you to say anything else to me,youve already been the perfect example for my thread..goodnite baby your job is done
...ima pray for you though
You calling someone slow but can barely type a coherent sentence. Honey I want you to keep doing what you're doing and fukking who you're fukking. No counts like you and yours deserve each other. I call it poetic justice. Idiots dating idiots. More power to you.
PartyHeart
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Men (and women) lie because they know if they reveal their true intentions there is a high chance that the person they're telling the truth to won't want to deal with them further. So they lie so they can continue to at least have a shot at using that person in whatever way they want to. Guys lie because they think most girls they want will not agree to the casual sex they also want--which is probably true--and it would take them a longer and harder search to find a girl they want that would. But the irony is that men judging women for being sexual is part of the reason why this is the case anyway.
I think the OP's question is confusing though because he makes it seem like there are a lot of scenarios where guys are being truthful to girls and the outcome is the same as if they weren't. So in his mind the better option is to just lie....which makes no sense to me but man logic, I digress. Anyway I would say this is usually not the case though. Usually the guy either flat out lies about his intentions or purposefully keeps their relationship status as vague as possible so he doesn't have to flat out lie but garners the same effect as if he did.
There are situations where a guy tells a girl upfront, I don't want a relationship with you but we can mess around, and then there is a fallout after where she says he never told her and calls him a liar, but its rare.
I think the OP's question is confusing though because he makes it seem like there are a lot of scenarios where guys are being truthful to girls and the outcome is the same as if they weren't. So in his mind the better option is to just lie....which makes no sense to me but man logic, I digress. Anyway I would say this is usually not the case though. Usually the guy either flat out lies about his intentions or purposefully keeps their relationship status as vague as possible so he doesn't have to flat out lie but garners the same effect as if he did.
There are situations where a guy tells a girl upfront, I don't want a relationship with you but we can mess around, and then there is a fallout after where she says he never told her and calls him a liar, but its rare.
Pretty much but you know they always need to be victims.
Didn't quite get what you were saying here baby
..but its my fault I know...but its all good we don't see eye to eye,maybe next thread