Women what are the advantages of being upfront and telling you the truth?

[StickStickly]

Maybe im just not seein how that's an advantage to a man...and that's my point a women gon be mad anyway whats the advantage for a man to tell the women the truth in the first place. If you had the option upfront but still gon be mad becuz you decided to save me and failed,you are agreeing it is no advantage to us to be honest

but why do you care about leaving the situation clean and looking like an angel? Why lie? What's your advantage especially if you have more on the side? She's obviously not special to you so what's the difference if you lose her? Then you won't have to feel like you need to lie ( to save what, exactly?)

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You dance on fat nikkas for money, you could give a fukk about guts. I don't have a problem with your profession; it's low class trash but if that's the only thing you can do so be it. Slandering your vagina consumers as if they are beneath YOU () is hilarious to me though. You're nothing without them.

Why are you still talking to me? No one cares about your gut or your feelings. Ya'll stay worried about what I'm doing. Worry about what that tummy is doing. Fat b*stard.

 

[Swirv]

Listen, if a man has no control over himself sexually them he is not mature. If you can control your mind then you can control you body. You choose who you want to be. It always amazes me when men use the "I can't help it b/c I'm a man" argument but, if I were to tell you that b/c you are a man you can't be expected to do anything but stick your dikk into anything that moves you'd probably be insulted. You can't have it both ways. You can't be a sexual beast one minute but not the next. Every human is capable of discipline. If you choose not to exercise it then that is on you.

As far as your scenario, I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as I am able to exercise the same level of commitment he does. I would never ask someone for something I was not willing and capable of giving to them. I think that is fair.

I would not be insulted because I know you are wrong. Not every man is wired the same way. It doesn'nt make sense to me that women outnumber men in this world but most women want a good man when there are not enough to go around. If a man is able to please more than one why should that be frowned upon?

You already admitted that you struggle with self control even though have it. Is it fair to say that maybe you are not wired for just one man?

 

[PartyHeart]

but why do you care about leaving the situation clean and looking like an angel? Why lie? What's your advantage especially if you have more on the side? She's obviously not special to you so what's the difference if you lose her? Then you won't have to feel like you need to lie ( to save what, exactly?)

Because that's not the reason they are lying.

I would not be insulted because I know you are wrong. Not every man is wired the same way. It doesn'nt make sense to me that women outnumber men in this world but most women want a good man when there are not enough to go around. If a man is able to please more than one why should that be frowned upon?

You already admitted that you struggle with self control even though have it. Is it fair to say that maybe you are not wired for just one man?

This isn't true, men outnumber women. Even in the particular countries where women do outnumber men in total, they only outnumber the after 65 years of age. Every other age group there are more men than women.

So with that in mind, perhaps you should be open to your woman pleasing more than one man. Its just numbers

 

[Still Benefited]

but why do you care about leaving the situation clean and looking like an angel? Why lie? What's your advantage especially if you have more on the side? She's obviously not special to you so what's the difference if you lose her? Then you won't have to feel like you need to lie ( to save what, exactly?)

Just because women apparently don't mind being called ho's and sluts,,reputation means something to some people as I will tell my daughter when she gets older how important it is..guess men aint allowed to not want to be slandered and called liars and thought of as liars and sluts,guess that's too foreign

Didn't say it was my policy to lie to women I don't care about...im simply asking if theres an advantage to not lying and telling the truth...and so far the answers have been "less drama" which gets the from me...."why would you care if somebody calls you a liar if you didn't lie"....and "its easier to tell the truth"....one of these is untrue imo,the next is because nobody likes to be lied on or about, just like people don't like bein lied to....and the last icould actually be considered an advantage....but what if a dude been lying for so long its easier for him to lie than tell the truth,that makes truth harder and no longer an advantage...,how could you convince that man telling the truth is an advantage with the scenarios I laid out and experiences expressed by men all the time about how women don't appreciate honesty once they feelings hurt....and sumbody mentioned earlier its rare for men to tell the truth and be honest and ill agree....but so far no real advantages have been made on the behalf of being honest that benefit men besides he will feel free of guilt....if u acknowledge most men lie obviously they okay living with the guilt just fine or see no advantage in the truth route. As a honest man I cant give them bruthas no benefits in it outside of whichevers more convienient to them so im asking the ladies if the bytch catch feelings it aint gon matter which u do, no matter how she might pretend to be classy and act like she understand the honesty you laid out

 

[Swirv]

Because that's not the reason they are lying.



This isn't true, men outnumber women. Even in the particular countries where women do outnumber men in total, they only outnumber the after 65 years of age. Every other age group there are more men than women.

So with that in mind, perhaps you should be open to your woman pleasing more than one man. Its just numbers

My quick review of wiki shows your right about the numbers. If my woman wants another man she is not my woman. Its a damn global sausage fest smh

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I would not be insulted because I know you are wrong. Not every man is wired the same way. It doesn'nt make sense to me that women outnumber men in this world but most women want a good man when there are not enough to go around. If a man is able to please more than one why should that be frowned upon?

You already admitted that you struggle with self control even though have it. Is it fair to say that maybe you are not wired for just one man?

Actually men out number women on this planet. That ratios is about 100(f) to 101(m).

When did I say I struggle with self control? I said I know how "hard" it is but it is not a struggle for me to put the feelings of others before my own. I have never cheated on anyone. If you have no self control that is on you but you can't project your reality on me. Own your own experience and don't try to justify it by making it everyone else' s experience too. You are the man you choose to be; no more, no less.

Like I said, I have no problem with your scenario as long as I have the same freedom. I don't disagree with you. We just choose to have experiences.

 

[PartyHeart]

My quick review of wiki shows your right about the numbers. If my woman wants another man she is not my woman.

Then I have no idea why you would question a woman about it and expect any different response.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I can't believe we have to explain to adults why it is not okay to lie. My niece knows why lying is wrong but grown men don't. shyt is unreal. Dudes can't grasp the concept of a 5 years old.

 

[PartyHeart]

....and sumbody mentioned earlier its rare for men to tell the truth and be honest and ill agree....but so far no real advantages have been made on the behalf of being honest that benefit men besides he will feel free of guilt....

The way I see it, its about what type of person you are. If you don't see any intrinsic value in being honest about who you are and what you want, there is nothing anyone else can tell you to get you to understand the value. You just aren't an honorable person. And I say that not as a judge but as a simple fact if you look up the definition of honorable

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The way I see it, its about what type of person you are. If you don't see any intrinsic value in being honest about who you are and what you want, there is nothing anyone else can tell you to get you to understand the value. You just aren't an honorable person. And I say that not as a judge but as a simple fact if you look up the definition of honorable

I said the same thing earlier in the thread. They really don't understand the idea of wanting to be a good person unless it allows them to fulfill their selfish desires.

 

[Anothergirl]

Then I have no idea why you would question a woman about it and expect any different response.

because a lot of these kneecrows think they are gods gift to womankind and chicks should merely be honored to be graced by their presence no matter the shytty circumstances. talk about overblown and completely UNEARNED(in most of these cases lets be honest) senses of entitlement.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

as a dude i'd say it depends on the situation.

but if you cheating, or seriously lying you are liable to get dragged through the mud regardless.

if i was a regular, anonymous dude, met a random girl at a club and fukked her, i'd prolly lie to get in them panties. just cuz i know she ain't ever going to figure out who i am, and even if she does, what she really gonna do? this shyt won't work at all if you famous though. your name would probably get plastered all over the tabloids i could imagine lawyers and shyt. gonna be ugly.

now if it was like a coworker or someone you see a lot. i wouldn't lie. but shyt is unfair if she bout to suck your dikk and tries to get you to commit of course i will lie at that point. but i would have stated it was just that before and after so I would be right. but she'd still drag my name through the mud just to further ensure i hate the bytch and never want to see her ass again. fukk her.

don't know where that came from

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I was always taught by the OG'z to keep it 100 with females. When a female knows the truth and she is still willing to fukk with u, then u have yourself a down ass chick.

I swear y'all, I've had females know about eachother and have even been in the same room/party/club with them at the same time and it was all good.

Believe it or not if you have your shyt together and your game is crisp, females will stillb fukk with knowin u have other bytches in roation. Hey just have to know their postion.

If u keep it real with with all your females, you never have to worry about being caught in a lie

 

[Swirv]

Actually men out number women on this planet. That ratios is about 100(f) to 101(m).

When did I say I struggle with self control? I said I know how "hard" it is but it is not a struggle for me to put the feelings of others before my own. I have never cheated on anyone. If you have no self control that is on you but you can't project your reality on me. Own your own experience and don't try to justify it by making it everyone else' s experience too. You are the man you choose to be; no more, no less.

Like I said, I have no problem with your scenario as long as I have the same freedom. I don't disagree with you. We just choose to have experiences.

Slow down I'm not projecting anything on you. You said it is hard which implies not easy and is a struggle. Thanks for clearing that up though. If you have never cheated I give you props because maybe you are a keeper for someone.

I see where you are coming from you want it 50/50. Do you think you could really be in a relationship where you both slept with other people?