Women who entertain you for a while
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Woman of god
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Neither. I do hope that for him. It sucks to feel like u like someone more than they like you. That was genuine
thewarrior05
All Star
You just got to man up and go secure the bag
But when that person brings you in to make you like them more is the mindgame
thewarrior05
All Star
Thats why you have to be on your ps and qs because relationships are a game and dont ever forget it.
Im just trying to relax and enjoy life and share love. I know myself, i'm not gonna cheat or deviate. Not gonna hurt or hit or fukk over. Getting the other person to believe this is impossible. shyt is so difficult. The games... you think you reach a level to where the games are over but nope
Because she has a man, back when I had female friends it was the same ish, there single hey reinscarf BLA BLA, they got a man you never hear from them
That persistence will only push her away if she is not into you. Protect your sanity by having some self-respect and exercising restraint. If you stop communication right now, you will find out in no time where y'all stand. If someone wants to be with you and there's already open dialogue, they will be in your face every chance they get. If not, there's a chance they was never into you or they no longer into you. You gotta lay back and assess the situation. You gotta take the crookeds with the straights.
This gotta stop... OP not listening... We spent two pages telling you what you gotta do, but you want to keep throwing back small little details that justify you hounding her. If you are gonna make a thread asking for advice, take it. It's unanimous that you need to fall back. It's been said over and over in this thread. If you don't believe that's the way to go, then end this thread and you go do what you want... But we trying to tell you. If being persistent isn't working for you --- which it hasn't, that's why you made this thread --- then why would you think doing more of the same would yield different results?? Like, do you think she will suddenly change and fall madly in love with you if you keep doing the same thing that hasn't caused her to change her mind yet?! You fukked her, had deep conversations, talk, text, hang out... Where has that gotten you?? More questions than answers, I'm sure.
Look, I know how hard it is to get over someone you are infatuated with, trust me... That shyt like pulling teeth when you are trying to take your mind off the situation. But goddamn, make an effort to try a different tactic. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and the situation. If she really cares about you, you being distant and unavailable will bring out her true colors. Like G.Mills said, either way you will know where you stand. But as long as you giving her attention, and hounding her like you are, there is no obligation for her to confess any sort of feelings cause she getting what she want from you anyway! Think, nikka. Use ya head. What incentive does she have to tell you she want to be with you, or that she like you, if she getting what she want without having to say or show anything??
Now, say you were to fall back and not give her what she's used to getting... Then, the incentive is, if she really want you and want to be with you, she gotta come up out those feelings. Gotta show you something, gotta expose to you how she really feels, cause otherwise, she is not getting what she wants. But you're giving her a free ride... nikka, I wouldn't confess shyt to a broad either if she giving me the box, and all the attention that I want.. Why??
But I'm done, you either gonna pick yourself up and move appropriately like we been saying, or you gonna keep making excuses for you and her behavior.
Look, I know how hard it is to get over someone you are infatuated with, trust me... That shyt like pulling teeth when you are trying to take your mind off the situation. But goddamn, make an effort to try a different tactic. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and the situation. If she really cares about you, you being distant and unavailable will bring out her true colors. Like G.Mills said, either way you will know where you stand. But as long as you giving her attention, and hounding her like you are, there is no obligation for her to confess any sort of feelings cause she getting what she want from you anyway! Think, nikka. Use ya head. What incentive does she have to tell you she want to be with you, or that she like you, if she getting what she want without having to say or show anything??
Now, say you were to fall back and not give her what she's used to getting... Then, the incentive is, if she really want you and want to be with you, she gotta come up out those feelings. Gotta show you something, gotta expose to you how she really feels, cause otherwise, she is not getting what she wants. But you're giving her a free ride... nikka, I wouldn't confess shyt to a broad either if she giving me the box, and all the attention that I want.. Why??
But I'm done, you either gonna pick yourself up and move appropriately like we been saying, or you gonna keep making excuses for you and her behavior.
Jack Trippa 3z company ho
Superstar
You doin 4 much then. If a girl meshes and fits into your lifestyle yeah it's worth some effort here or there. If you're constantly jumping thru hoops to be on her lifestyle...nah.
One of those faux Rihanna savage types got to you, huh?
Jack Trippa 3z company ho
Superstar
Stop. Your probably being too accessible.
Do you. All you can do is put it out there that you like her and want more. If she does not immediately reciprocate then fall back breh
I had a girl i was feeling. Dark skin sista with big titties. Asked her to brunch on a sunday. Instead of saying yes or no. She says where. I tell her. All she says is i have never eaten there before.
I did not ask anything else. Just moved on . She hits me up about a month later talkinbout that brunch.i told her are you asking me out?
Women are fickle creatures. She is probably juggling a couple of dikks and 4 serious online convos right now.
Also remember..Its very rare that two people wilo like each other at the same intensity at the same exact time. Usually one likes the other more at the start then it evens out over time. We get this notion of love being like Hollywood.
Same shyt here this summer. Went on a date with this little PYT...met for drinks and then decided we were hungry. She said her best friend is a waitress at this pizza spot so we go there. She intros me to her friend, we eat pizza and drinks flowing, friend is coming over and we were all laughing cutting up.
Getting late, and we had met at a central area since we live damn near 50 miles apart. So I walk her to her car (holding hands and shyt) and she offers to drive me to mine in a different parking lot. We end up making out (not heavy) and she takes me to my car.
Took me like 40 mins to get home with traffic and I was already feelin the boom from the drinks so I sat in my recliner and passed out. I wake up next morning and text her did she make it home ok...she said yeah and we went back and forth a few times and I let her have the last response.
A week goes by, I hit her up, we're texting back and forth, all good. I ask her if she wants to get together again and she goes "maybe...I had a great time with you but my schedule is really hectic right now so I can't commit to anything"
I'm like
I didn't say anything about commitment lol...and she didn't respond. I don't do those games...either "yes I'd like to but I'm really busy so not sure when I'm available" or "thank you, but not looking to date right now". fukk a maybe.
So I left it at that...bout 3 weeks later she texts me at midnight on a Saturday telling me her and some of her friends are heading to my area and she tells me the bar and everything.
So I'm thinking this chick thinks she can just hit me at midnight on a Saturday and I'm just gonna drop what I'm doing and show up? She couldn't text me at 7 or something and give me a heads up? Nah not me.
So she told me where they were going and i know the spot and said something about her riding the mechanical bull there (she rides horses competitively) went back and forth a couple times and I let her have the last response again.
She never said hey come join us (I wouldn't have anyway, was at a friends party on his rooftop condo with the fire pit and everything...he's married and there were plenty of ladies there).
It was right by where she was going too...I could have told her about it and they prolly would have came...prolly woulda got in the panties that night too...sick ass spot and my place is a mile away, smooth sailing.
But I didn't do any of that off GP. Didn't like the game she was trying to run and I don't feed into it. If I hear from her again and she acts right, I'm down. If she stays with this game that prolly works on every other dude, she can go run it on one of them. I'm good.
I turned down more p*ssy than I took in 2016. Had prolly 6 broads in my bed that thought we were gonna have sex only to have me decide it wasn't worth the headache and roll over and catch some sleep.
Brehs gotta not be thirsty.