Women who say " I refuse to settle" are the ones usually with baggage

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You must be light-skinned with a fire body, long curly hair and making 100k+ plus and a tight virgin puss other wise take your burnt ass to the back of the line with that shyt. :pacspit::pacspit::pacspit:

You sound upset. :hug:
 

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When I hear that sh!t the date is over before it began...But I will still try to get it in at least once
 

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That wasn't a shot at you in any means. :whoa: But don't be afrid to re-evaluate them standards. :mjpls:

I don't have standards though, all I want is you to be doing what you love, give me my space and watch Jeopardy with me lmao.

I've liked all types of guys and I don't have a long ass checklist of what the perfect guy is :manny:

I swear if y'all branch out a bit, you will find girls with a different mindset.
 

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everyone settles on some level. there's just things you're less willing to settle on depending on your values. but you're never gonna get a perfect mate that passes all your "chcklist" of thing you like/want.

but if a chick told me on a date "i refuse to settle" i'd already start to like her less. I'll take a mental note of it. won't stop me from fukking but i probably won't feel her as much afterwards and i probably won't "settle" either afterwards...
 

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This place is funny. Not settling is a negative thing? Would y'all settle for a chick with 4 kids working the drive thru on section 8? No you wouldn't. It's called standards, we all should have them. That doesn't mean one is allowed to have delusional expectations either.

This chick is obviously a bustdown yet somehow you and your boy take her serious. If all of the stuff you mentioned regarding her is true why is your boy wasting his time taking her on dates, smash and keep it moving.
 

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lol, it's kinda true too...

So many men are marrying women who have 10 + partners and say *well its the past*. :deadmanny: These same women are saying "im not going to settle, i know my worth" and they've been involved in 3somes and gangbangs. Its sickening. They need to be happy they still have friends and associates let alone someone to marry them. I can just see these demonic women, berating and disobeying their husband who in the back of his mind is probably thinking at times, "buht buht you were a whore before i met you how dare you speak to me like that":dwillhuh: Alot of you are going to experience that. Its sad how you guys now look up to the demons as valuable and let them tell you that you need to increase your value to be qualified to be with them. :deadmanny:

Its so demonic, friend. :sitdown:
 

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So my boy was dropping me the inside knowledge about this girl he has been talking to.

She is hot I must admit but on every date she keeps saying "I'm not looking to settle"

OK

-She has 100K in college debt from a private college with an English degree making 35K a year.
-Lives with a room mate
-Drives a beat up Honda
-Admitted to stripping sometimes in college to make a quick buck (lord knows what she did on the side...you know all them strippers do.
-Has almost 10K in medical bills.


No woman anyone who dates YOU is the one settling.

Kinda reminds me of someone I know. he has a girl that is over 50k from school debt alone and other debt that she refuses to talk about. She broke, has a baby with another on the way, and not talking about the future. :comeon:
 

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This place is funny. Not settling is a negative thing?
I mean, why can say it isn't negative all we want...

But if every time you meet a new guy/girl and your first thoughts are "I ain't settling", then you clearly don't have the ability to attract what you want/they don't want and therefore you either (a) need to settle, (b) up your game drastically, (c)stop complaining and realize you gonna be lonely and deal with it because your standards are too good for you to even accomplish.
 

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I mean, why can say it isn't negative all we want...

But if every time you meet a new guy/girl and your first thoughts are "I ain't settling", then you clearly don't have the ability to attract what you want/they don't want and therefore you either (a) need to settle, (b) up your game drastically, (c)stop complaining and realize you gonna be lonely and deal with it because your standards are too good for you to even accomplish.



I also said That doesn't mean one is allowed to have delusional expectations either.
 
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