Womens first date expectations vs reality

Amo Husserl

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I used to take hoes to this ice cream spot by Lake Merritt. Then we would eat the ice cream and chill by the lake. No more than a $20 date with potential to slide to the bar 2 blocks away if we start vibin. It worked everytime.

Bay Area hoes love tacos. Go to a taco truck or taco spot and pick up food. Find a nice spot to park.. another $20 under first date.

Its not that im being cheap, im not about to spend bread on a woman i might not even like. Ive walked out on bytches before. Im okay with losing $20-$50 on a first date. But imagine you spend $300-$400 on a woman and you end up not feeling her or she doesn't call you back.
 

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Sounds like they all need to decide on something somewhere in the middle :jbhmm:



Guaranteed nikkas never took any of those females to MOST of the places the females were listing though. Thats why it’s delusional. You not a celebrity and no one knows you like that.

Those places are for wives, long-term girlfriends, relationships. These chicks be speed running through nikkas just to appear to be something special.

But I’m also not going to McDonald's even by myself. I’ve met a daiquiri spots, sports bars (had game nights, gambling, etc.) or events at spots that have Latin or 90’s RnB nights.

Even to small, indoor concerts. Maxwell had one when I first moved back to states but wasn’t dating and didn’t know anyone in the city to go with. :mjcry:
Yeah reality is definitely somewhere in the middle. I just shake my head at the brehs that go all out on the first date to impress a chick or prove that you have money. Most of them dudes be crashing out on the backend once she leaves to go see the breh she really likes for the nightcap. But chics wouldn't shoot for the stars like that if it wasn't a dummy already bringing them the moon
 

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I used to take hoes to this ice cream spot by Lake Merritt. Then we would eat the ice cream and chill by the lake. No more than a $20 date with potential to slide to the bar 2 blocks away if we start vibin. It worked everytime.

Bay Area hoes love tacos. Go to a taco truck or taco spot and pick up food. Find a nice spot to park.. another $20 under first date.

Its not that im being cheap, im not about to spend bread on a woman i might not even like. Ive walked out on bytches before. Im okay with losing $20-$50 on a first date. But imagine you spend $300-$400 on a woman and you end up not feeling her or she doesn't call you back.
Its funny you said that I had date recently we walked the lake then went gregorys gourmet and got some key limr pie
 

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I mean there is a middle ground between McDonalds and high tier steak and seafood places but these women are aspirational dudes are not taking them to those type of restaurant on date 1
 
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