Would It Be Weird to Ask Your Husband to Wear Condoms and/or Get STD Testing Every 6 Months?

[bcrusaderw]

Would you see it as a trust issue? Personally, I would never want to unsuspectingly catch an STD from a partner, and I certainly don't want any children, so it seems like a great option to me. What do you think? I don't think it speaks to a lack of trust because people will happily do things like prenups, so why not do something like this?

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

I have made a rule to get tested together before the first time and a few times after but after a few years I think I could be comfortable enough with that situation. Would never have unprotected sex during the courting or initial dating process, maybe a year or more so into the relationship

If it's a husband then I think you should be comfortable to have unprotected sex at this point.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Mmm... It's between you and your husband.

If it's something you've been doing the whole relationship and don't see a reason to stop it might not be so weird. Especially if you know you're not ready for kids.

I'd rather just save all the trouble and wait for someone I trust who doesn't use or is exposed to needles, and use a more convenient form of birth control.

Std tests should be done with every check up.

 

[Rawtid]

Yes, it would be weird to ask your husband to wear condoms. LMAO!! I probably would do testing once a year vs every 6 months. I think asking every 6 months to be tested is a trust issue.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I have made a rule to get tested together before the first time and a few times after but after a few years I think I could be comfortable enough with that situation. Would never have unprotected sex during the courting or initial dating process, maybe a year or more so into the relationship

If it's a husband then I think you should be comfortable to have unprotected sex at this point.

Wow u never had one night stand with protection ?

 

[Blackout]

Id be cool with STD testing since Im guessing your a bit paranoid, but I prefer once a year than every 6 months so I can do it with my check up.

To wear condoms though with my wife? I dont know about that one lol.

 

[Arishok]

Every 6 months is a little excessive

 

[Aceofspades404]

as far as the std thing, if it gets to that point, you should just leave. No point in being married. And I don't think a prenup is the same thing.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Wow u never had one night stand with protection ?

Only once and I didn't like it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Every 6 months is a little excessive

I get a check up every month

 

[twan83]

I get a check up every month

stop lying malc
u get one on stand by on ur cell

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

stop lying malc
u get one on stand by on ur cell

Breh I wanna leave this lifestyle
But then Thursday Friday Saturday rolls around then I'm back to

 

[twan83]

Breh I wanna leave this lifestyle
But then Thursday Friday Saturday rolls around then I'm back to

its not hard to leave the lifestyle to be honest when ur truly done and bored u will leave it with ease
its what i did when i was younger
lifestyle was boring chilled and did more shyt alone or with friends that didnt involve clubs and shyt and went on more dates till i met someone i got serious with

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

its not hard to leave the lifestyle to be honest when ur truly done and bored u will leave it with ease
its what i did when i was younger
lifestyle was boring chilled and did more shyt alone or with friends that didnt involve clubs and shyt and went on more dates till i met someone i got serious with

I don't even see myself being serious

I'm going to be a man whore forever till @Canadadry and saves me

 

[twan83]

I don't even see myself being serious

I'm going to be a man whore forever till @Canadadry and saves me

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