Would it bother you if someone you were dating or married to had a history of dating interracially?

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Could have been one person or it may have been exclusively interracial and you are the first black person they are with.
 

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No.

But, I would be bothered if I dated or married someone who had animus towards others who have dated/married interracially.

For me, I have an issue with people who hold unwarranted prejudices towards people they don't know nor care to know.

In addition, why should it matter who someone has dealt with in the past, unless their past could negatively impact your life?

You can be with someone who was strictly endogamous and be a detriment to your life. Conversely, you could be with someone who was previously exogamous and be the best thing to happen to your life.

I believe people should understand that everyone has his/her own journey and deal with social constructs differently.

If it bothers you that someone doesn't subscribe to your social construct, then cool. Charge them to the game and get with someone who shares your views on things.
 

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If she just happened to date IR in the past, I wouldn't care. If I'm like her first BM or something like that, I don't think I'd be too comfortable. I guess it would all depends on how we vibe. If everything else about her is great, I doubt I would be closed off to her. This is one of those situations you'd have to be in firsthand.
 

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I probably wouldn’t just cuz I’m picky

but if it’s “just your turn”, why should you care?
let's take race out of it, let's same a person who you consider lame use to date a chick you are with now, would that effect anything?
 
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