Would y'all date an average girl, if

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Someone is lying to themselves about the unattractive part.
This because I know of a number of "unattractive " women that have men in love with them because of the chemistry and personality
 

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my best experiences with women have been with those who others have considered average or even ugly:yeshrug:

there was something sexy about them to me tho idgaf

while other men are busy assigning her an arbitrary number based on her exterior and deeming her unworthy of love and attention

i'm in her bed learning about all the delicious things that she only reveals to few

her outside shell is not who she is, who she really is reveals itself over time, and I like to watch the layers unfold:blessed:

when the onion has been peeled completely, sometimes you see someone who is so beautiful and pure you start to question whether or not you are good enough for her

average outside shell? sure, but inside, as a person, where it counts, my ex was far far above me :mjcry:
 

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Bruh, you may not really like this chick.

Because when I'm really feeling a chick and I got feelings for her, she becomes more physically attractive. I'm gonna think about smashing either way, unless she looks like a got damn ghoul or precious or some shyt.

If I look back at chicks I used to thought were bad, I'd now go "breh.. she barely had ass, or she wasn't even that cute but just aight.. :shaq2:"
 

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You shouldn't base who you're attracted to based on what everyone else thinks is a dime or not. If you're feeling her personality and she has the values you seek, that's what's most important. All women look better with makeup and shyt anyway, and she can get ass or tit surgery like all these IG models or get right in the gym.
 

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Don't force it. If it ain't there it ain't there. It's not just her looks. It's probably the chemistry too.

You ever dated someone that 'it' wasn't there? But they weren't ugly? How did it go? What is 'it' to you? You don't think people should try to date someone they are not feeling or they are not that into?
 

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You ever dated someone that 'it' wasn't there? But they weren't ugly? How did it go? What is 'it' to you? You don't think people should try to date someone they are not feeling or they are not that into?

Yes. I had an ex who was crazy about me. He loved the hell out of me and treated me well. He had such a nice face, still does, but he was a little chubby. I really tried to like him as much as he liked me; probably over a year. He was probably the best boyfriend I ever had. It just wasn't there. It didn't change. We ended up breaking up. Years later he told me I broke his heart. He's probably the one person on the planet I hold any type of guilt towards.

Anyway, after we broke up we didn't see each other for awhile and later reconnected. He is doing super great for himself and got him another girlfriend. The chick is hideous. But I lie and gust over how beautiful she is. He text about once every few months to tell me how happy he is and I always tell him how proud and happy I am for him and I genuinely mean it. I swear it just pisses him off. I really think he wants me to tell him I fukked up and I want him back. But it's just not there. I really do wish him the best. But he is not the man for me.

Personally, I need to desire you. IDK what "it" is but I can tell you that you know it when you feel it. It's the difference between pulling away or electricity shooting through your body when someone touches you. For me it is a tingle that starts in my stomach and runs through my chest and an excitement that comes from being around a person. It's needs to balanced though. The chemistry without the quality is just as bad and where a lot of people fukk themselves over. But yes I think "it" is very important.

Ever wonder why a lot of people especially women stop having sex after they get married? It's b/c they usually married the dude b/c of his quality but he probably doesn't do it for him. I refused to be that person. I want the trill and the quality. Life is too short to be miserable and it's not really fair to the other person. It's not their fault...usually.
 

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If your woman doesn't excite you sexually move on. You will be frustrated and cheat or resent her.

Yep.

Unsatisfied women move on in a heartbeat. Why shouldn't you.

Someone here describe average, because you guys might be mix it up with Someone that's just...boring.
 
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