Would y'all date an average girl, if

[Mr swag]

Only if she is skinny

 

[1 other person]

Yes. I had an ex who was crazy about me. He loved the hell out of me and treated me well. He had such a nice face, still does, but he was a little chubby. I really tried to like him as much as he liked me; probably over a year. He was probably the best boyfriend I ever had. It just wasn't there. It didn't change. We ended up breaking up. Years later he told me I broke his heart. He's probably the one person on the planet I hold any type of guilt towards.

Anyway, after we broke up we didn't see each other for awhile and later reconnected. He is doing super great for himself and got him another girlfriend. The chick is hideous. But I lie and gust over how beautiful she is. He text about once every few months to tell me how happy he is and I always tell him how proud and happy I am for him and I genuinely mean it. I swear it just pisses him off. I really think he wants me to tell him I fukked up and I want him back. But it's just not there. I really do wish him the best. But he is not the man for me.

Personally, I need to desire you. IDK what "it" is but I can tell you that you know it when you feel it. It's the difference between pulling away or electricity shooting through your body when someone touches you. For me it is a tingle that starts in my stomach and runs through my chest and an excitement that comes from being around a person. It's needs to balanced though. The chemistry without the quality is just as bad and where a lot of people fukk themselves over. But yes I think "it" is very important.

Ever wonder why a lot of people especially women stop having sex after they get married? It's b/c they usually married the dude b/c of his quality but he probably doesn't do it for him. I refused to be that person. I want the trill and the quality. Life is too short to be miserable and it's not really fair to the other person. It's not their fault...usually.

Is 'it' primarily based on physical attraction to you?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Is 'it' primarily based on physical attraction to you?

No. It's based on chemistry.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Legit question, is the p*ssy good?

We havent fcked yet

She doesn't even have nice lips? Is there anything sexually attractive about her?
It sounds like you already resent her for not being cute enough.

Maybe there is but i havent seen it yet. Its not like ive seen her naked and stared at her for 5-10 minutes to see what i like.

I think one of the things that makes her attractive is that shes into me so much (at least right now). Ill just see where it goes

 

[Captain Crunch]

No, I only smash dimes

 

[Kwéyòl]

Don't force yourself to like her breh

I make my man hard just by looking at him ....I feel bad for her

i miss having a chick make me like that. just looking at her gave me a

 

[Vandelay]

Do you yourself have the ability to get an above average woman?

No trolling, some brehs just aren't honest with themselves.

 

[-DMP-]

We can rebuild her, we have the technology...

 

[Raava]

What is average?

 

[Fani Willis fan]

Do you yourself have the ability to get an above average woman?

No trolling, some brehs just aren't honest with themselves.

most dudes here are dating "average" woman, you got lowkey virgins thinking they can only date IG models

 

[iBrowse]

why does she have to be god fearing? what year is this

1850?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

So I learned today dating average looking people is a negative now

on the coli it is......

 

[Birdie]

I guess it would depend on what an individual equate as "average" because people speak of Rihanna's as if she's an unattainable level of attractiveness but I never really saw the big deal about her appearance.

Asking whether people date an "average" looking person seems ridiculous honestly because there aren't an abundance of Tori Huges walking around. Men in the streets aren't rating women 1 out of 10 it's all about whether he'd fukk or not.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I guess it would depend on what an individual equate as "average" because people make a big deal about Rihanna's looks but I never really saw the big deal about her appearance.

Asking whether people date an "average" looking person seems ridiculous honestly because there aren't an abundance of Tori Huges walking around. Men in the streets aren't rating women 1 out of 10 it's all about whether he'd fukk or not.

Dudes are just as delusional as females now when it comes to the opposite sex and relationships

 

[Taadow]

If everything about her was on point as far as what you are looking for in a long term relationship?

Meaning she's God fearing, submissive, (somewhat) successful, not out all the time etc. The only drawback is you aren't going to bed fantasizing what she looks like naked

I'm in a spot like this now, where I'm dealing with an average chick and I think the grass may be greener somewhere else

I don't even go for IG thots. Ideally I'd get with someone with natural beauty like Aaliyah, brandy, or Monica. But as of now that ain't happening so I'm stuck with this decision

LMAO

1. Everybody dates "average" people.

2. The grass is the same damn grass everwhere. The only reason grass looks greener is because
of all the manure in it. lol

3. You said Aaliyah, Brandy, and Monica have natural beauty but you ain't never seen 'em without
makeup.

4. If you wanna talk to that chick you're talking to, then don't.