Would you be cool if...

[marcuz]

you share that dude

 

[CinnaSlim]

Yeh, OP we need more details on your situation.

Question came from different situations. Basically, I know a couple dudes, one's an ex and the other two are just friends from high school. They're too nice and they love helping women ( or saving hoes) and these chicks usually take advantage. Come to think of it, my dad's another one...

Anyway, my ex used to babysit for his manager and another "friend" (both of whom he met after we been together for 1-2 years) who he would loan money to and these hoes never paid him back. Meanwhile, we was still struggling and I had to strong arm the nikka to help pay for my traffic ticket while he gave a hoe $120 for rent.

Both chicks had husbands/boyfriends/situations, so I didn't understand why they were asking my man for what I considered S/O benefits, instead of their own man. I'm not usually jealous but that ex took me through it.

Then my friend from school, be gives girls (usually his boys' exes or girlfriends) money for phone bills and abortions and when they don't pay him back his mom and stud sister have to go through the streets to yoke someone up and get it back.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

He trickin out on bytches, for abortions?

Hell yeah I'm putting a stop to that shyt. He ain't trickin on no bytches but me.

Spoiler

Or somebody will end up hurt. And shonuff aint gon be me.

^^^^^^^^^^::

 

[MJ Freedom]

Your S/O was giving out 100s to help pay for an opposites sex friend's rent, bills or abortions?

Maybe they're just generous or they just love saving hoes. I don't like it and I have my reasons. Is this cool or normal procedure? Or is it crossing boundaries?

Discuss.

shyt is ridiculous. This shyt could POSSIBLY - and I stress POSSIBLY - be acceptable if it was a lifelong friend in the sense that they grew up together and maybe lived with each other as children but weren't technically related, to the point where there'd be no question of a sexual relationship, but realistically this isn't something you should just accept. And even still, it's damn near unacceptable if you and your S/O comingle finances. I'm not sure I'd be cool with my girl supporting her brother (assuming he's an adult who's able to support himself) if I end up having to pick up the slack for her.

I don't have ANY friends I would consistently support so I find the idea ridiculous. I would loan a friend some money for rent if it was some one-time shyt and i knew the reason they couldn't pay was some unforeseen shyt out of their hands (maybe they got sick and couldn't pay this one time), but I'll be damned if I'm gonna support another adult, and I'll be damned if I'm fukking with somebody who would support another adult.

And, anyway, I wrote all of that when I could have simply said this... there's a 98% chance your dude is trying to or wants to fukk this girl. And the only reason I don't think he has yet is if he would have already fukked I doubt he'd still be spending all of money trying to support her.

 

[CinnaSlim]

shyt is ridiculous. This shyt could POSSIBLY - and I stress POSSIBLY - be acceptable if it was a lifelong friend in the sense that they grew up together and maybe lived with each other as children but weren't technically related, to the point where there'd be no question of a sexual relationship, but realistically this isn't something you should just accept. And even still, it's damn near unacceptable if you and your S/O comingle finances. I'm not sure I'd be cool with my girl supporting her brother (assuming he's an adult who's able to support himself) if I end up having to pick up the slack for her.

I don't have ANY friends I would consistently support so I find the idea ridiculous. I would loan a friend some money for rent if it was some one-time shyt and i knew the reason they couldn't pay was some unforeseen shyt out of their hands (maybe they got sick and couldn't pay this one time), but I'll be damned if I'm gonna support another adult, and I'll be damned if I'm fukking with somebody who would support another adult.

And, anyway, I wrote all of that when I could have simply said this... there's a 98% chance your dude is trying to or wants to fukk this girl. And the only reason I don't think he has yet is if he would have already fukked I doubt he'd still be spending all of money trying to support her.

Nah, he's just an idiot. He's young and naive. I just spoke to him and he has a new girl he's been with for a year and offered to give me $100 for something.

 

[the cac mamba]

my friend gave a girl money for an abortion and she bought a pair a Jordan's.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Your first mistake is thinking I'd have a significant other

 

[MJ Freedom]

Nah, he's just an idiot. He's young and naive. I just spoke to him and he has a new girl he's been with for a year and offered to give me $100 for something.

He offered or you asked?

 

[Blackout]

Your S/O was giving out 100s to help pay for an opposites sex friend's rent, bills or abortions?

Maybe they're just generous or they just love saving hoes. I don't like it and I have my reasons. Is this cool or normal procedure? Or is it crossing boundaries?

Discuss.

I woudlnt approve because it sounds like a vampire more so than a person in need.

You deserve better sista.

 

[CinnaSlim]

He offered or you asked?

He offered, I dont like asking people (especially men) for stuff.

 

[wild cherry blossom]

Nah not cool unless its family

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Fukk No.​

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Question came from different situations. Basically, I know a couple dudes, one's an ex and the other two are just friends from high school. They're too nice and they love helping women ( or saving hoes) and these chicks usually take advantage. Come to think of it, my dad's another one...

Anyway, my ex used to babysit for his manager and another "friend" (both of whom he met after we been together for 1-2 years) who he would loan money to and these hoes never paid him back. Meanwhile, we was still struggling and I had to strong arm the nikka to help pay for my traffic ticket while he gave a hoe $120 for rent.

Both chicks had husbands/boyfriends/situations, so I didn't understand why they were asking my man for what I considered S/O benefits, instead of their own man. I'm not usually jealous but that ex took me through it.

Then my friend from school, be gives girls (usually his boys' exes or girlfriends) money for phone bills and abortions and when they don't pay him back his mom and stud sister have to go through the streets to yoke someone up and get it back.

Oh hell no. Thinking about my current situation (never going out, never shopping because buying a house) and he was giving money to other girls? Unless this is close family or 1 friend of his that has become my friend.... Not happening in this lifetime if he wants to keep his dikk and balls intact.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Question came from different situations. Basically, I know a couple dudes, one's an ex and the other two are just friends from high school. They're too nice and they love helping women ( or saving hoes) and these chicks usually take advantage. Come to think of it, my dad's another one...

Anyway, my ex used to babysit for his manager and another "friend" (both of whom he met after we been together for 1-2 years) who he would loan money to and these hoes never paid him back. Meanwhile, we was still struggling and I had to strong arm the nikka to help pay for my traffic ticket while he gave a hoe $120 for rent.

Both chicks had husbands/boyfriends/situations, so I didn't understand why they were asking my man for what I considered S/O benefits, instead of their own man. I'm not usually jealous but that ex took me through it.

Then my friend from school, be gives girls (usually his boys' exes or girlfriends) money for phone bills and abortions and when they don't pay him back his mom and stud sister have to go through the streets to yoke someone up and get it back.

You shared that ex. Ain't no way in HELL I'd give a former G/F any type of money if I'm involved with someone unless I was still hittin'.

That ain't my style, so the answer is still: FUKK NO.
​

 

[Dwolf]

Question came from different situations. Basically, I know a couple dudes, one's an ex and the other two are just friends from high school. They're too nice and they love helping women ( or saving hoes) and these chicks usually take advantage. Come to think of it, my dad's another one...

Anyway, my ex used to babysit for his manager and another "friend" (both of whom he met after we been together for 1-2 years) who he would loan money to and these hoes never paid him back. Meanwhile, we was still struggling and I had to strong arm the nikka to help pay for my traffic ticket while he gave a hoe $120 for rent.

Both chicks had husbands/boyfriends/situations, so I didn't understand why they were asking my man for what I considered S/O benefits, instead of their own man. I'm not usually jealous but that ex took me through it.

Then my friend from school, be gives girls (usually his boys' exes or girlfriends) money for phone bills and abortions and when they don't pay him back his mom and stud sister have to go through the streets to yoke someone up and get it back.

Because he gives it to them.