I think yall somehow get the idea that thugs made these women who they are,who you date usually don't drastically change who you were as a person,black ladys who are nerds and squares themselves date thugs all the time and don't magically become ratchet and be on dumb shyt and become bad women

....thugs usually be with chicks that already got ratchet tendancys and they get outta that relationship and continue those habits. If cacs dated those same women she gon come out that relationship the same damn way,possibly more spoiled and entitled as we know white dudes be simpin

....if a woman dating a cac chances are she was already a "nerd or square" anyway or just weak and easily moldable...we should just stick with sayin we like those kindve women instead of acting like cacs are making these women that way and thugs are turning out all these women. ive met plenty of nerdy/square/suburb black chicks and hood chicks who was raised right who came out just fine without the help of a cac

...and either continue to date thugs but handle they business, or they grow out of that shyt. women make bad decision when it come to men no matter they education or demeanor