Would you consider this tricking? ($250K birthday gift)

[lib123]

Unless that woman is my girlfriend of several(over 2) years she is not getting 250k cash.......

Even if I had Zuckerberg/Bezos/Ellison/Brin money

They can get nice gifts...a dope SUV, their rent paid for a year upfront, really nice trips etc if they are genuinely nice to be around and the attraction is mutual....

But I aint dropping no large outlay of cash on no IG model/dimepieces just cause it doesn't matter to me on a material level....

There must be a reason you are in my life outside of unthinking carnal lust

I think you're discounting lifestyle inflation. If you had Zuckerberg or Ellison money you're probably going to be giving people in general a lot more money because it would be nothing to you. $250K isn't a large outlay of cash to them. Money makes you more of who you already are, so if you're already generous with what you have now you would be much more generous if you had more. Leading with money is a different story tho and undeniably tricking.

 

[Regular Developer]

Its tricking, but I don't necessarily frown upon it like most others. But its is indeed tricking...And this is multiple women? For suuuure tricking

 

[Regular Developer]

y'all sat around discussing this?

I mean, its Frday, we trying to end the day, lol

 

[acri1]

I think you're discounting lifestyle inflation. If you had Zuckerberg or Ellison money you're probably going to be giving people in general a lot more money because it would be nothing to you. $250K isn't a large outlay of cash to them. Money makes you more of who you already are, so if you're already generous with what you have now you would be much more generous if you had more. Leading with money is a different story tho and undeniably tricking.

Breh..

No amount of juelzing changes the fact that giving 250K to a hoe is tricking you can try to philosophically rationalize it all you want

 

[Tair]

You are still tricking.

 

[L&HH]

If I’m worth $100 million I genuinely would not care what anyone thought of me. That much money you’re supposed to do and live how you please.

 

[lib123]

Breh..

No amount of juelzing changes the fact that giving 250K to a hoe is tricking you can try to philosophically rationalize it all you want

Lol I think the amount is throwing brehs off cause it's hard to imagine having hundreds of millions or billions and giving $250K as gifts to friends, family and others. And including IG models in the hypothetical is throwing it off to make brehs assume she's a thot, but it could be any attractive woman you're just hooking up with and have a cool FWBs arrangement. But if you're already smashing for free and her birthday comes up 8 months later and you throw her a bag, how is it tricking? I always thought tricking implied you had to come out of pocket to smash initially.

 

[Regular Developer]

Lol I think the amount is throwing brehs off cause it's hard to imagine having hundreds of millions or billions and giving $250K as gifts to friends, family and others. And including IG models in the hypothetical is throwing it off to make brehs assume she's a thot, but it could be any attractive woman you're just hooking up with and have a cool FWBs arrangement. But if you're already smashing for free and her birthday comes up 8 months later and you throw her a bag, how is it tricking? I always thought tricking implied you had to come out of pocket to smash initially.

I don't think the amount is throwing anyone off, that's a lot of money to be sending anyone as "a gift". That's to start a business for a friend's idea you believe in or surprise an already rich friend with a car. Do you know for a fact that rich people give out 250k like Skittles?

I'm almost certain a 250k "gift" to a girl is actually not going to be from someone trying to trick, but trying to be manipulative and abusive.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Say you're a breh up massively (eg worth $100s of millions or billions). You don't believe in tricking or sponsoring, but you give the girls you're hooking up with (eg dimepieces, IG models, etc) a $250K lump sum on their birthdays as a nice gift and some sort of compensation for them signing an NDA. You're also within 10 years age difference of them and you've developed a reputation for giving generous birthday gifts. Would you consider this tricking? My boys and I were debating it and we don't think so.

if u smart give her 19k for tax purposes...

 

[lib123]

I don't think the amount is throwing anyone off, that's a lot of money to be sending anyone as "a gift". That's to start a business for a friend's idea you believe in or surprise an already rich friend with a car. Do you know for a fact that rich people give out 250k like Skittles?

I'm almost certain a 250k "gift" to a girl is actually not going to be from someone trying to trick, but trying to be manipulative and abusive.

I’m not talking about rich people tho. I’m talking about wealthy people (high nine-figures to billionaires). And yes I know for a fact that many of them do give their close friends, family and women they’re dating birthday gifts worth hundreds of thousands. Especially the foreigners (eg wealthy Arabs, Chinese, Africans).

 

[Commish]

You are not alone at all in this sentiment. Most men with their heads on straight will agree with you. We live in a time where celebrities have uplifted sexworkers and tried to make tricking seem cool. Too many people are just easily influenced by those they consider famous, is all.

That's good to know! My thing is this..

If I am with a woman who is a ride and die and genuinely cares for me as well as respect me, then I have no issue being generous, if I have the means to do so. The rest of them? EFF NO!

I don't believe in bankrolling someone's lifestyle just because they are pretty. Looks fade. I'm more focused on the mindset and one's intentions with me.

But, yeah, some ppl don't mind now care and will trick off their for some honey. Good for them! Couldn't be me tho!! *shrugs*

 

[Commish]

You are not alone at all in this sentiment. Most men with their heads on straight will agree with you. We live in a time where celebrities have uplifted sexworkers and tried to make tricking seem cool. Too many people are just easily influenced by those they consider famous, is all.

That's good to know! My thing is this..

If I am with a woman who is a ride and die and genuinely cares for me as well as respect me, then I have no issue being generous, if I have the means to do so. The rest of them? EFF NO!

I don't believe in bankrolling someone's lifestyle just because they are pretty. Looks fade. I'm more focused on the mindset and one's intentions with me.

But, yeah, some ppl don't mind bankrolling a woman and will trick off their for some honey. Good for them! Couldn't be me tho!! *shrugs

 

[Regular Developer]

I’m not talking about rich people tho. I’m talking about wealthy people (high nine-figures to billionaires). And yes I know for a fact that many of them do give their close friends, family and women they’re dating birthday gifts worth hundreds of thousands. Especially the foreigners (eg wealthy Arabs, Chinese, Africans).

Rich, wealthy, same thing in this conversation. But if you say so. I don't see why they would voluntarily give 250k gifts that they have to pay extra taxes on and that their friends are going to have to report as income.


Its still tricking

 

[Da Jungles]

Tricking is tricking…$50,000 or $.50

 

[lib123]

Rich, wealthy, same thing in this conversation. But if you say so. I don't see why they would voluntarily give 250k gifts that they have to pay extra taxes on and that their friends are going to have to report as income.


Its still tricking

Uh, a $250K gift is still a $250K gift regardless of taxes.