Would You Date a Female Older Than You?

[MoonGoddess]

Did i forget to mention that he is also fine as fukk?
Another reason why i didn't want to take him serious. Lol im just starting to calm my over zealous jealousy down.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Thats what im saying lol. I didnt think i ever would. My boyfriend is 5+ years younger than me and i couldn't be happier with him. I don't know how or why we mesh the way we do but our connection is very strong. When it comes to respect he don't play that shyt. In the beginning i might have patronized him a little and try to use the fact that he was younger against him in certain arguments, but he actually opened my eyes on how immature and petty i was being.
I'll tell you one thing it might be his age or it might not be but his lack of bitterness towards women is so freaking refreshing. It helped me let go of my own and allowed me to really open myself up to our relationship. And the sex woooo lets just say he makes me very very very happy in the bedroom. He's a great guy tho, not selfish, open minded, loving and caring. Our sense of humor couldn't be more on par.

Anyway i said all that to say that it wont hurt to give him a chance. I didnt even take my guy seriously when he was tryna get with me. He was persistent and im happy for that. I would have been missing out.

Awww, thanks for sharing this.

I don't know why I'm fighting this connection I have with this guy... over age lol. I guess it's because from a young age we're taught the tradition that the man needs to be older than the woman in order be the protector/the leader of the family. They say one of the hardest things to do is to unlearn the things we've been taught...

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Did i forget to mention that he is also fine as fukk?
Another reason why i didn't want to take him serious. Lol im just starting to calm my over zealous jealousy down.

Hahahaha, I'm happy for you girl!

 

[mannyrs13]

I would but not by too many years since I'm 30.

 

[Michael9100]

No..Since I'll be 38 in less than a month.

Yep! Guys in their 30s and 40s should aim for 18-29

 

[Michael9100]

Did i forget to mention that he is also fine as fukk?
Another reason why i didn't want to take him serious. Lol im just starting to calm my over zealous jealousy down.

Of course... African American women only care about looks or penis size.....

 

[CountryBoyL]

shyt I'm 23 and my wife is 34
Works for me

Im a rare breed of young old head nikka tho

 

[MoonGoddess]

Awww, thanks for sharing this.

I don't know why I'm fighting this connection I have with this guy... over age lol. I guess it's because from a young age we're taught the tradition that the man needs to be older than the woman in order be the protector/the leader of the family. They say one of the hardest things to do is to unlearn the things we've been taught...

Go for it girl. See what he's working with, a couple of dates wont hurt. My ex was 12 years older than me, I thought the same thing.
He was possessive, controlling, and at the end of our relationship bat shyt crazy. My guy now was exactly what i needed cause, i did not plan on ever being in another relationship after that fiasco.

 

[Killer Instinct]

I'd date and fool around with a woman older than me.
Hell, one of my greatest sexual expierences was freshman year of uni iirc.
I was maybe 18 and she was 28. Married, too.
(#GMB)

Older women will put it on you.
No way I'd ever wife a woman older than me by more than a year or two, though.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Of course... African American women only care about looks or penis size.....

Yup, and he's blessed in both departments. Of course you skipped over my other post where i mentioned his other attributes but thats par for the course on here. Im not african american by the way....

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I'd date and fool around with a woman older than me.
Hell, one of my greatest sexual expierences was freshman year of uni iirc.
I was maybe 18 and she was 28. Married, too.
(#GMB)

Older women will put it on you.
No way I'd ever marry a woman older than me by more than a year or two, though.

If they're so great, why wouldn't you marry one? Be more specific please.

 

[MillionMills]

I've talked/messed around with chicks older than me. Conversation is way better

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Im dating a woman who is 3 years older than me. Doesn't really bother me

 

[Killer Instinct]

If they're so great, why wouldn't you marry one? Be more specific please.

It's not a guarantee she'll age well.
I'm 23. No way am I gambling with a 33 year old.
Five years later when I'm in the prime of my life, I'm probably going to be looking for an exit.
Plus there's the issue of having kids and the complications that can arise with women & childbearing that come with age.
A female 3-7 years younger is ideal and preferable when it comes to marriage and children.

 

[Michael9100]

Im not african american by the way....

Oh... well forget what I posted...