Yeah, this is pretty stupid
So you would change your entire line of thinking because you don't have a ring?
LOL thanks.
My entire line of thinking? Nah. But there are certain things I would do for husband that I wouldn't for a boyfriend.
There are things I'd do for my mother and my daugther that I wouldn't do for anyone. It's really not odd to have that separation.

so she waited 11 yrs, stayed faithful, to get married then cheat?