Would You Date Someone With Missing limbs/A Deformity?

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This is kind of a spinoff off that thread about that little girl with no hands who won a writing competition.

Got me thinking about this chick:



A little backstory on her:

She's actually from Korea (or China? lol) and she was born with no hands. Her hands didn't fully grow for some reason, don't remember how or what happened. Her parents abandoned her, and she was adopted as well as her brother who also has some sort of deformity (I don't remember exactly what) by her white mother. Anyways, she's a cute Asian chick, if it weren't for her hands she wouldn't have no problems attracting dudes. But because of her "deformity", she's never had a boyfriend, kissed a dude etc.

Personally, since I've been played and am #HOH right now I wouldn't date a chick with missing limbs or a "deformity". In the past I would have considered it if she was a cool chick with a awesome personality, and especially if she was fine! :takedat:
 

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One time i was walking along a beach, i saw a chick with no arms or legs bawling her eyes out

I came up and asked "whats wrong love?"

She said "due to my condition, ive never gotten enough attention from a man to be hugged!:mjcry:"

I pick the bytch up and hug her then leave.

Next day, im walking along the beach again, this bytch out here crying again. I ask her what her fukkin deal is now:dahell:

Shes like "Ive never had enough attention from a man to be kissed!:mjcry:"

I kiss the bytch, leave.


Next day, im walking down the beach, heres her ass again crying:dahell: im like bytch whats your problem now?!!!?:wtf:

Shes like "ive never had enough attention from a man to be fukked!:mjcry:"

So i pick her up, then bytch toss her in the water like "you fukked now :umad:" then skated.

........and she was white
 

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One time i was walking along a beach, i saw a chick with no arms or legs bawling her eyes out

I came up and asked "whats wrong love?"

She said "due to my condition, ive never gotten enough attention from a man to be hugged!:mjcry:"

I pick the bytch up and hug her then leave.

Next day, im walking along the beach again, this bytch out here crying again. I ask her what her fukkin deal is now:dahell:

Shes like "Ive never had enough attention from a man to be kissed!:mjcry:"

I kiss the bytch, leave.


Next day, im walking down the beach, heres her ass again crying:dahell: im like bytch whats your problem now?!!!?:wtf:

Shes like "ive never had enough attention from a man to be fukked!:mjcry:"

So i pick her up, then bytch toss her in the water like "you fukked now :umad:" then skated.

........and she was white
why you lyin' bruh, i know you don't go to the beach everyday! :comeon:
 

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One time i was walking along a beach, i saw a chick with no arms or legs bawling her eyes out

I came up and asked "whats wrong love?"

She said "due to my condition, ive never gotten enough attention from a man to be hugged!:mjcry:"

I pick the bytch up and hug her then leave.

Next day, im walking along the beach again, this bytch out here crying again. I ask her what her fukkin deal is now:dahell:

Shes like "Ive never had enough attention from a man to be kissed!:mjcry:"

I kiss the bytch, leave.


Next day, im walking down the beach, heres her ass again crying:dahell: im like bytch whats your problem now?!!!?:wtf:

Shes like "ive never had enough attention from a man to be fukked!:mjcry:"

So i pick her up, then bytch toss her in the water like "you fukked now :umad:" then skated.

........and she was white
This sounds like an email hoax people use to forward back in the early 2000s.
 

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I used to date a deaf girl if that counts.. :yeshrug:

And she had a heart made of gold . ..

She wanted something more serious but I was young and didn't feel comfortable being with a deaf girl out in public.. As I got older I realize how bad of a mistake it was cause
1 ) She really loved me, and was the first girl who told me she wanted children with me.. 2) She graduated from Gallaudet University magna cum laude.. .3) that box was A1:wow: and Im not just saying it just to say it .. it was literally the best I've ever had :wow:

Now she's happily married with a daghter.. But I can't help be think about what could have been if I stayed with her
 

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A lot people say they are in to personality but reality is many people don't practice it.
That's real talk. When I was real young like middle school and high school I overlooked not finding a chick that attractive if her personality, character and the type of person she was resonated with me.

But most people (including myself) are hesitant or won't give a certain person a chance because they know society, their friends, family etc will judge them for it. A lot of people look to their homegirls/boys for approval of someone they are dating, messing with etc.
 

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I used to date a deaf girl if that counts.. :yeshrug:

And she had a heart made of gold . ..

She wanted something more serious but I was young and didn't feel comfortable being with a deaf girl out in public.. As I got older I realize how bad of a mistake it was cause
1 ) She really loved me, and was the first girl who told me she wanted children with me.. 2) She graduated from Gallaudet University magna cum laude.. .3) that box was A1:wow: and Im not just saying it just to say it .. it was literally the best I've ever had :wow:

Now she's happily married with a daghter.. But I can't help be think about what could have been if I stayed with her
That's cool man. Was she deaf her entire life? How dead was she? Was she able to speak English fluently or she did sign language or something?
 

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One time i was walking along a beach, i saw a chick with no arms or legs bawling her eyes out

I came up and asked "whats wrong love?"

She said "due to my condition, ive never gotten enough attention from a man to be hugged!:mjcry:"

I pick the bytch up and hug her then leave.

Next day, im walking along the beach again, this bytch out here crying again. I ask her what her fukkin deal is now:dahell:

Shes like "Ive never had enough attention from a man to be kissed!:mjcry:"

I kiss the bytch, leave.


Next day, im walking down the beach, heres her ass again crying:dahell: im like bytch whats your problem now?!!!?:wtf:

Shes like "ive never had enough attention from a man to be fukked!:mjcry:"

So i pick her up, then bytch toss her in the water like "you fukked now :umad:" then skated.

........and she was white

:laff:
I've never heard that one before :laff:
 

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That's cool man. Was she deaf her entire life? How dead was she? Was she able to speak English fluently or she did sign language or something?


She signed.. Spoke English. .And Tagalog.. (she was Filapino) She was very intelligent sctually.. And yes she was born deaf.

I was going through a hard time when I met her.. And she was constantly like.. "look at me" deaf ..(and she had a heart condition) and I'm still here accomplishing my goals.. You have no excuse..":usure:

And she was right.. Like I said looking back at it breaking up with her because I felt ashamed was one of the more regrettable mistakes of my life.. Right now I could be happily married in the Suburbs of Maryland had I stayed with her.. And here I am doing the same old she I was doing back then . :snoop:
 
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I used to date a deaf girl if that counts.. :yeshrug:

And she had a heart made of gold . ..

She wanted something more serious but I was young and didn't feel comfortable being with a deaf girl out in public.. As I got older I realize how bad of a mistake it was cause
1 ) She really loved me, and was the first girl who told me she wanted children with me.. 2) She graduated from Gallaudet University magna cum laude.. .3) that box was A1:wow: and Im not just saying it just to say it .. it was literally the best I've ever had :wow:

Now she's happily married with a daghter.. But I can't help be think about what could have been if I stayed with her


Deaf is the only handicap I could take from a woman. I'm superficial, fukk it.

We all let one get a way.
 
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She signed.. Spoke English. .And Tagalog.. (she was Filapino) She was very intelligent sctually.. And yes she was born deaf.

I was going through a hard time when I met her.. And she was constantly like.. "look at me" deaf ..(and she had a heart condition) and I'm still here accomplishing my goals.. You have no excuse..":usure:

And she was right.. Like I said looking back at it breaking up with her because I felt ashamed was one of the more regrettable mistakes of my life.. Right now I could be happily married in the Suburbs of Maryland had I stayed with her.. And here I am doing the same old she I was doing back then . :snoop:
:mjcry:
 

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I would not feel right walking with her in public, especially if she was good looking.



Not necessarily because I would be embarrased of her but mostly because I could just imagine people thinking I "took advantadge" of her condition and (perceived) lower self-confidence to get with her. I know it's strange but it would bug me.
 
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