Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

[Snitchin Splatter]

before this turns into another black woman bashing-single mothers have ruined the world thread...

I've been recently "seeing" a girl....she's awesome.....she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her )

but here it comes yall.....she's 24 with THREE kids she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....

whats yall thoughts in situations like these brehs? as always with coli consensus I will look at yalls most suggested plan of action and do the exact opposite

i'm semi young with no kids and just starting to come out of my whore phase...i dont wanna settle down and the thought of children terrify me but this girl yall.... idk

 

[Luck]

I've dated a chick with kids before and the only way I'd do it again is if the daddy wasn't in the picture.

That nikka and his family was always and I didn't like that shyt at all. I understand it because they did have kids together but fukk that

 

[NobodyReally]

Yes, I have dated a single dad of 4. It was hard, but he was a great guy.

 

[delta]

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

Yes, I have dated a single dad of 4. It was hard, but he was a great guy.

if i may ask how long did you end up staying together and did his children have anything to do with the break up?

 

[Mowgli]

Nope. Bad idea

 

[chief_keef_stan]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[The Embellished Bell Hair]

SIngle moms off okcupid are the worst.

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

Nope. Bad idea

please expound

or atleast get @Mr. Somebody to come in here and tell me spiritually why this would not be a good decision for me

 

[360dagod]

In 2014, if Danny Granger was starting on your team every night, what would that say about the team itself?

She is like Danny Granger being the focal point of your team in 2014...

She's a fukking role player......AT BEST..

 

[NobodyReally]

if i may ask how long did you end up staying together and did his children have anything to do with the break up?

We were together for almost 3 years. And I do think his kids had something to do with the breakup. Two of them really liked me and saw me as a mother-figure, and the other 2 were very ambivalent or antagonist towards me, like I was trying to come in and be their mother against their will. There was constant tension, and it was just too much going on for me at the time. I think they all just expected too much from me (him included), and I wasn't ready.

 

[Mowgli]

please expound

or atleast get @Mr. Somebody to come in here and tell me spiritually why this would not be a good decision for me

A man with no children does not know the first thing about raising another man's child. I wouldn't trust his intentions around a woman who already has a family.

You 30 and she got one kid ok. You get a pass. She got.multiple kids and you have none and you jumping head first into that situation?

Something ain't right with Ol boy

 

[360dagod]

 

[Diondon]

Nah

 

[Black Magisterialness]

nope, i wouldn't ask a person anything that i wouldnt ask of myself.


I have no kids...so my future spouse shouldnt until I give her some.