Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

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Another man has no business raising some other mans children :huhldup: That's just asking for trouble

Women are different. Some of us are naturally maternal...
 

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this is what single mothers do, you wonder wow we have so much in common she does so many things, she reads books finishes my sentences, keeps my belly full the sex is amazing , its all a act to get caught in their web, next thing you know you'll be babysitting and taking her kids out for dinner.

not 1 not 2 but 3 :dahell:, it doesn't evne matter what the coli says because "you know her better than we do, and shes not like that"

all women have a sob story and script to sell you, all my exes were horrible wah wah keep drinking that kool aid

enjoy having your life destroyed breh

My nikka too real with the knowledge...:wow:

To the OP @ORLY, By all means use protection.
 
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witness protection? You believe that?

To the question, No (not at this point in life).

everyone took that line wrong LOL

all i meant was he disappeared from her and the child's life, I was just using my knack for vividly describing situations to make it pop out more

and @Chris.B i think it was you who asked this...in her own words she "doesnt believe in child support" she thinks if the man doesnt want to support his children by his own free will then she will not have him court ordered to do so
 

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i do not have kids. i do not want to be a single parent like the exes he made single parents. no offense to anyone, it is simply not ideal for me. there are plenty of single parent women for him to find an appropriate mate out of

and that guy is not in witness protection
 

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she was scheduled to be married when she had two of em :yeshrug:

she seems to have a good head on her shoulders now so who am I to judge someone on past mistakes when she's making the best out of it?

At the end of the day you are gonna do whatever makes you happy, and if you and her are happy in your present situation then that's all that matters. You already knew her kid situation when you got involved so you know what comes with that (been there, done that). If she has been upfront with what she has going on can't complain about that.
 

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she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....
now, i don't know what the situation with that first dude was, but getting engaged at 19 and having kids that young isn't a good idea. as was to be expected, shyt didn't work out. now, instead of learning her lesson, she goes gets pregnant by another guy she isn't married to :what:. has she not heard of contraceptives? and as if that wasn't enough, dude had to go into witness protection :patrice:

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I don't date females with kids. I don't even bother to get to know them. I did come close to dating a female that had a daughter recently though. The only reason that happened is because we were put in social situations where I to got to know her over time, That's like the only scenario I can think of where I would even consider dating a female that has a kid (at this point in time). When a female tells me she has a kid, I just move on. I just lose interest & there's other guys out there that accommodate her.

I'm a female and feel the same way. I do not ask men if they have kids, I just ask how many. If they have one, I am not interested. I just feel it is a waste of time, my time.
 
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