Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

[Higher Tech]

before this turns into another black woman bashing-single mothers have ruined the world thread...

I've been recently "seeing" a girl....she's awesome.....she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her )

but here it comes yall.....she's 24 with THREE kids she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....

whats yall thoughts in situations like these brehs? as always with coli consensus I will look at yalls most suggested plan of action and do the exact opposite

i'm semi young with no kids and just starting to come out of my whore phase...i dont wanna settle down and the thought of children terrify me but this girl yall.... idk

Anything you want, you can make it happen. Ok, so she has 3 kids. If the baby daddy is doing his part and aint up her ass and trying to attack you, then you're good. At least she was engaged and building and not just sluttin it up. Everything amd everone comes with some kind of baggage, thats just life. If the girl is A1, you accept her and her baggage. Whatever decision you make tho, stick to it. Think about it deeply with a clear mind before you do. Don't say yes if you're unsure or leaning against it.

It's a lot of responsibilty, and will probably get frustrating but its a manageable situation.

 

[marcuz]

 

[Ohene]

3?

at age 24





I'd have to have my own kids or be above 30 years old to ever consider a single mother for anything more than fukking. And best believe if I am considering her for just fukking she better bless me with an allowance for food and transportation (depending on age).

 

[Blackout]

No....

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

3 kids at the age of 24..

nikka i can divide

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

3?

at age 24





I'd have to have my own kids or be above 30 years old to ever consider a single mother for anything more than fukking. And best believe if I am considering her for just fukking she better bless me with an allowance for food and transportation (depending on age).

I never thought of requesting an allowance or per diem

But I also ate all her fruit snacks yesterday (kids are at baby daddy #1's for a week )

 

[young3000]

You have to take a few things in consideration

1. are you willing to become baby daddy #3
2. are you willing to take on the responsibilities (financial, morally, male figure, role model) of those 3 kids
3. what happens if things go sour with you and this chick, attachments will form.....you with the kids and the kids with you
4. imagine the family vacations, who's paying all that money to go to Disney

You don't even know it but your pockets about to become lighter

 

[semtex]

Naw cuhhhh

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Absolutely not. I don't even want to have kids at all. I'm absolutely 100% against raising someone else's kids and being some ho's rebound stepdad.

 

[A.V.]

and all this is nullified because she is a single mother with 3 kids, again this is the game they run on anyone, sex is amazing to ramp up them dophamine levels and draw you in, all logic goes out the window as you jut thtink emotionally now and fall further in the quick sand. Look at you already knowing the situation is messed up but trying to justify it with a few little things

Just like a old basketball player like kobe bryant, he can no longer rely on speed and athleticism like he did as a young player, so he has to adapt his game, work on tha tpull up jumper, coming off screens and his jumper to still stay relevant, hsa to be more crafty on d to not get blowed by a single mother works on her personality, works on teh craft of appearing great so yu think (damn ima treat her better than all those wicked men shes telling me about), basically shes a great used car salesman selling you that rusted ford pinto with the transmission failing but go in breh

I lost it at the Kobe reference.

But unlike Kobe, these single mothers aren't even relevant in the game. They're adapting their game for a minimum contract (some d*ck and attention)...they're hoping to get Elton Brand recognition in the dating game.

No.

If the baby daddy ain't dead he a constant threat to come over and fukk

You'll never be able to give her her first kid so she'll always have some sort of link/connection (what if/we can make it work/ I miss you /let's do it for the kids etc) to the first baby daddy (which links to first pt)

having 3 kids before you 25 just shows poor decision making and a chick who does not think long term.

I personally would never date anyone with kids unless dude was dead, and even then there are to many chick's out here to settle for used goods (I tell females the same thing in regards to dudes)


-DMP-

First off stop thinking emotionally. ...that type of feelings comes and goes.

Think logically. Do you really want to waste your time? YOU WILL get sick of her eventually. She's looking to settle down for life NOW. There is no other Avenues for her to explore. Don't fukk your life up over this broad. Get YOURSELF right. Travel to brazil, japan, Germany etc. Go fukk bytches. Have fun.

Brah I got married and my wife had no kids. We had fun. But understand once you have kids your life slows down drastically. You are jumping into something some couples don't see until 5-10 years into thier relationship. Yall will never grow.


I'm rambling and shyt but.....
nikka....don't do it to yourself. ..

OP I'ma tell you like this...........










































you a fukk nikka.


you thinking w ya heart and ya dikk. and ain't shyt NO ONE in this thread can tell you, cuz you just gonna dap posts that co-sign or don't go against what you already FEEL. Keyword: FEEL. You FEELIN too much and thinking too little, BOY. Sometimes you need a wakeup call to understand things. And I can assure you almost 99% that the relationship will have it's peaks and valleys, but there is a much greater chance for you to end up hurt, mad, lost or looking stupid. But maybe your cornfukk ass needs dat, OP.


There's too many uncontrollable variables when dating a SINGLE broad with NO kids, than to think that dating one WITH kids, (think: exponentially more variables) under the circumstances you are, is a good decision. Her being more concerned with dating now, opposed to locating her 2nd BD is just


Like....How tf can you lay down at night and feel comfortable knowing that another nikka dumped his nut in the broad you going to bat for.... You walking around playing, eating and laughing with three grown ass sperm-trolls from another nikka nuts, thinking you got it made. Not just that...but parenthood, let alone SINGLE parenthood-while-dating, carries a LOT of implications and possibilities. If you haven't weighed them all out, and come to terms with them in your mind, and you just high off of dopamine, "honeymoon stages" of a relationship, and the promise of new p*ssy, then ain't shyt no one can tell you breh. Just be sure to tag us all in the inevitable thread.


You fukking disgust me nikka. Now get the fukk out of my sight.


































I SAID GET!!!!!!

 

[SubLyminalz]

only bum nikkas who don't have anything going for themselves even consider getting into a situation like this, its way too many females out there without any kids and all that drama.

one of my lazy ass patnas who I haven't talked to all year is shaking up with some broad with 2 kids that aren't even his and has a kid by another broad

we all dealt with broads who had kids at one point, smashing and dashing is all bytches like that are good for.

 

[The5thLetter]

you a fukk nikka

Lmao!

What I wanted to say has been said already, but I'll give you some female perspective. She's turning on the charm, doing all the things you like, telling you what you wanna hear, sprinkled with some sob story, then fukking your brains out. This is a last ditch effort to get wifed before it's too late, and she's lookin at a sucka who might do it
I know women that are out there broke and hungry, going on 3 dates a day just to get fed. What are these (clearly) worthless bytches doing to get multiple dudes to simp? What your shorty is doing to you. Be careful, but it seems your mind is already made up.

 

[A.V.]

3 kids at the age of 24..

nikka i can divide

That's one every, let's say.........8































nikka bout to be LATE!!!

 

[Medicate]

I never thought of requesting an allowance or per diem

But I also ate all her fruit snacks yesterday (kids are at baby daddy #1's for a week )

Breh, that last sentence just sound crazy as fck.

 

[Medicate]

OP I'ma tell you like this...........










































you a fukk nikka.


you thinking w ya heart and ya dikk. and ain't shyt NO ONE in this thread can tell you, cuz you just gonna dap posts that co-sign or don't go against what you already FEEL. Keyword: FEEL. You FEELIN too much and thinking too little, BOY. Sometimes you need a wakeup call to understand things. And I can assure you almost 99% that the relationship will have it's peaks and valleys, but there is a much greater chance for you to end up hurt, mad, lost or looking stupid. But maybe your cornfukk ass needs dat, OP.


There's too many uncontrollable variables when dating a SINGLE broad with NO kids, than to think that dating one WITH kids, (think: exponentially more variables) under the circumstances you are, is a good decision. Her being more concerned with dating now, opposed to locating her 2nd BD is just


Like....How tf can you lay down at night and feel comfortable knowing that another nikka dumped his nut in the broad you going to bat for.... You walking around playing, eating and laughing with three grown ass sperm-trolls from another nikka nuts, thinking you got it made. Not just that...but parenthood, let alone SINGLE parenthood-while-dating, carries a LOT of implications and possibilities. If you haven't weighed them all out, and come to terms with them in your mind, and you just high off of dopamine, "honeymoon stages" of a relationship, and the promise of new p*ssy, then ain't shyt no one can tell you breh. Just be sure to tag us all in the inevitable thread.


You fukking disgust me nikka. Now get the fukk out of my sight.


































I SAID GET!!!!!!