Would you get serious with someone with different religious beliefs than you?

acri1

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I'm Agnostic and it depends.

For example:

If you're a Cafeteria Christian who prays every once in a while, only goes to church on special occasions, and rarely reads the Bible.....maybe.

If you're a religious Christian who goes to church every Sunday, actively participates in it, reads the Bible daily and would attempt to "draw me to Christ".....it's a definite no.


Pretty much this.

If she's cool about it, sure, but if she's a religious fundamentalist then :camby:.

Actually broke up with a chick I dated in college because of this. Months after we started dating she's all of a sudden pressuring me to go to church with her and shyt. :wtf:
 

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Never been with someone in the religion I was raised in, there just aren't that many.

Religion has been an issue in long term relationships so ideally she would be from my religion (which is a very, very, very small pool) or agnostic and accepting.

Any which way if she's militant about religion she'd be placed in the burning bush real quick.
 

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Nah I have to pass. I dated a Muslim girl who was from and Palestine (she was gorgeous, one of the most beuaitful women ive ever got my hands on) and its not even so much that she wanted a breh to convert(my dad was a 5% so the religion wasnt THAT foreign to me) or that she wanted a breh to wait till marriage to engage in sexual activity...it was the beef I had with her family over me being a black man and secondly me not being Muslim... I mean it got to a point where her brother was calling my phone with death threats, and shyt escalated to the point where i tried to fight him in front of his new born daughter and wife... no matter how great a woman is..she aint worth all that shyt lmao :manny:
 

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I would as long as we can understand that we have our own beliefs and neither of us want to change :yeshrug:

I have unconventional beliefs so it would be hard to find someone who believes what I do

What are your beliefs?

Are you spiritual or agnostic or atheist?
 

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Not if they're super religious. I can't reason too well with people who follow a blind faith too seriously.
 

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depends how serious, don't think i could ever sit down and raise a family with someone who would try to force that shyt on my kids
 

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IT depends on what i want to do.................. if I'm just trying to fukk her... then Christian.... especially atheist. I never disrespected or did a black Muslim women dirty.


I can't really trust or take a woman seriously if she's not Muslim. :yeshrug: If she's christian.. she can't be really into it. and she need to be open to multiple religions.
 

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Nah I have to pass. I dated a Muslim girl who was from and Palestine (she was gorgeous, one of the most beuaitful women ive ever got my hands on) and its not even so much that she wanted a breh to convert(my dad was a 5% so the religion wasnt THAT foreign to me) or that she wanted a breh to wait till marriage to engage in sexual activity...it was the beef I had with her family over me being a black man and secondly me not being Muslim... I mean it got to a point where her brother was calling my phone with death threats, and shyt escalated to the point where i tried to fight him in front of his new born daughter and wife... no matter how great a woman is..she aint worth all that shyt lmao :manny:
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Islam :scusthov:

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Agnostic here. I see getting serious being problematic not because of so much the religious talks and "sneak conversion" type stuff,

but what if this woman is perfect in most every way and we want to have kids? My wish is for my child to be more in-tune with his

heritage and the world at large, and make his or her own decision on religion based on what draws him in. For everyone who

thinks their beliefs are special, really study them. They have daunting similarities in a lot of ways. Pick one and you practically

picked them all, save for your day-to-day duties.

I wouldn't want a wife who is about that indoctrination. Let the child see everything and pick one or none. That is the dealbreaker, cause

nobody is converting me to anything. My children... our children, however...
 

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I consider anyone I get involved with of different beliefs and way of life than myself. We are all individuals...
 
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