Would you have your first child at 45?

DaPresident

Miami Hurricanes football fan...
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
18,552
Reputation
7,344
Daps
88,011
Reppin
Miami Hurricanes,Dallas Cowboys, St. John's, DMV
Man, I’m 41 going on 42 in Jan and my daughter is set to be born on New Year’s Day. I felt a way about it years ago, but my wife and I tried this for like 5 years, this ish ain’t easy for everybody!


I’m happy as a pig in ish to be honest. Idc how “old” I am, we finally got what we wanted! So ima embrace it all :manny:
 

Fanservice

Bih call me senpai
Joined
Mar 16, 2014
Messages
8,836
Reputation
2,682
Daps
57,886
32, no kids. Probably never gonna have kids tbh.

After Trump, the pandemic and Trump again, I’m not even sure I wanna bring a child in this world.

Not only that, but…. the quality of women out here… the masculine “city girl” borderline ratchet personality is like an epidemic in the South. Almost every brehette in my age range has this personality type and it’s very unattractive to a square breh like myself.

As much as I joke around with the #pawgset thing on this site, I have no desire to procreate with a non-black woman. If I can’t find my Lisa Turtle or Ashley Banks, I’d rather not have kids at all
 

serial

All Star
Joined
Jun 7, 2012
Messages
1,506
Reputation
540
Daps
3,928
Reppin
NULL
Man, I’m 41 going on 42 in Jan and my daughter is set to be born on New Year’s Day. I felt a way about it years ago, but my wife and I tried this for like 5 years, this ish ain’t easy for everybody!


I’m happy as a pig in ish to be honest. Idc how “old” I am, we finally got what we wanted! So ima embrace it all :manny:
Congrats - enjoy that period of them being 1-10 after that hormones play a massive part it will be like living with two wives in the house
 

Negro Caesar

Superstar
Joined
Jan 19, 2018
Messages
6,332
Reputation
709
Daps
24,163
Probably not. At 36 I'm tired as fukk after a long day out with my kids. 10 years from now I couldn't see myself wanting to go practice sports. Imagine when ur kid turns 10 and ur 55,no way ur going to want to match the energy level of a kid.
 

The ADD

Old Master
Joined
May 11, 2012
Messages
50,481
Reputation
6,868
Daps
105,628
Thirty five when I had my first, if I don’t have another in the next few years (I won’t but also didn’t see him coming so you never know) it’s a wrap

Thinking about waking up in the middle of the night, changing diapers at 45 is making me pre-tired
:scusthov:
 

Phitz

Superstar
Joined
May 19, 2013
Messages
22,596
Reputation
-3,233
Daps
50,311
Reppin
NULL
People and their rules, I guess a population full of mentally and physically unhealthy people would have this discussion
 

Phitz

Superstar
Joined
May 19, 2013
Messages
22,596
Reputation
-3,233
Daps
50,311
Reppin
NULL
Furthermore alot of people had kids in old age as the youngest of the batch, oldest son 25 while youngest is 5 or 8.
 

SNG

Superstar
Joined
Oct 17, 2012
Messages
14,294
Reputation
2,718
Daps
50,872
Reppin
NULL
im pushing it im about to have my daughter this year and im 39 and I wish I did it earlier but whatever. It didn’t even take long to get my wife pregnant once she gave me the clear not to pullout and shoot the club up. I was pull out gang with her 4 years prior.
 
Top