Oceanicpuppy
Superstar
Very loyal people.
Would You Leave Your Partner After Finding Out They Cheated?
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Oceanicpuppy
Superstar
I ask people if they ever cheated in a relationship and then ask them if they loved them. If the answer yes to both bushes.
BruhManFromTheFifthFlo
Veteran
Stay with bytches you knowingly taking other dikk, brehs. Be a cuck, brehs 
Cat piss martini
Veteran
Marriage is for quitters..
cant believe how many 2nd hand dikksuckers
are saying they would stay with that hoe bytch.
cant believe how many 2nd hand dikksuckers
are saying they would stay with that hoe bytch.
threattonature
Veteran
You're 100% right. I went through the same thing. I was one of those hardcore I'd never take back a cheater types. Then it happened with a woman I'd been with for 7 years. I started making excuses for why she did it. We have kids together so after dropping her for a year and a half I gave it another shot. Like you said my mind was done at that point. I cheated multiple times. I had no trust for her. I could never fully open myself up to her to really love her anymore. I eventually had to end it because I knew the relationship would never survive.This is the same thing, nearly verbatim, that my mom said to me when I told her that cheating was the one absolute, no-questions-asked dealbreaker and that you never really loved someone that you cheated on.
And I get it. But even if I didn't want to end the relationship, I'd have to dead it. One, I'd never truly forgive the transgression (especially when I'm the type to make it BLATANTLY clear from the jump that I'd rather be dumped over some fukk shyt than cheated on). It would always be on my mind.
Two, if I tried to stick it out, I'd look likethe whole time. Like a damn emasculated fool asking myself why I took back that disrespectful bytch on some:
"BrehWyatt, why you take her back? After she dogged you out?"
"Because I love her"
"Love a chick that let other nikkas fukk, breh."
Type shyt.
If a spouse can cheat on you with no repercussions, then they can get away with any kind of bullshyt. That's no way to live. Every time I look at the chick, I'd realize that she ain't love me like I thought she did. Otherwise, she wouldn't have let herself get taken like that. After all, I don't own her, and you know the saying: "It's not your p*ssy, it's just your turn." And it's really not even about the fact that she let a dude fukk. It's the blatant disregard of the loyalty she's supposed to have toward me.
My pride/ego wouldn't let me do it. It's the damn principle of the matter, breh. I can't.
I say that to say that even in my hardcore stance once it happened to me I eventually ended up giving it another try. Same way most women say they'll never go back to an abuser until they get hit. Then comes the "but he really loves me" and "he'll never do it again".
Fair comments all around
To me man, it's just a matter of it being like, once that happens, the relationship as you know it is over. No going back to the way things were. Either you end up resenting yourself over it, or you turn right around and dog her out if only so she can feel what you felt and maybe understand the hurt. I'm petty enough to want vengeance like that so I'd just dead it in order to not become a worse version of myself.
I know it'd be hard though. I subscribe to the belief that love is a choice and its hard to cut that off, even when somebody does you dirty.
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
This is a no brainer for me. Don't care how long we been together, how many kids we got.
Cheating and I'm gone.
Cheating and I'm gone.
I have and I will.
platinum f1a$k
Banned
this /threadI'm mad this is even a question
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Nah cause I'm real loyal and that trust can never be forgiven.
Imagine how she had to make you believe she was hanging with her friends or something when inreality she was at this dude's place, a hotel or something.
Imagine her kissing up on some dude, riding him, doing all sorts of nasty freaky shyt to him.
Imagine after she done got donkey fukked by this dude, she came home to you with a smile on her face like nothing happened.
Imagine her all cuddled up with this dude in bed talking shyt about you.
Do all those things and again ask yourself if you would take her back.
Imagine how she had to make you believe she was hanging with her friends or something when inreality she was at this dude's place, a hotel or something.
Imagine her kissing up on some dude, riding him, doing all sorts of nasty freaky shyt to him.
Imagine after she done got donkey fukked by this dude, she came home to you with a smile on her face like nothing happened.
Imagine her all cuddled up with this dude in bed talking shyt about you.
Do all those things and again ask yourself if you would take her back.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Who cheated?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
The second I find out, I'm gone. I give way to much in a relationship, I wouldn't be able to do it for a dude that's cheating on me. 
Leave the bank book, credit cards and take everything you came with 
yup... on my way out i'll scare the shyt out of her new man on some
PartyHeart
All Star
This is all really true, its not that cut and dry when you're married and have kids. But at the same time its about setting your standard. Its normal to say you'd leave when not actually battling the decision and everybody should feel that way. Not that it will exactly happen that way if the person does end up having to face that decision for real, but it would be worse to come into a relationship considering all the reasons why you'd stay if someone betrays you. At that point your standards and expectations are so low, you've already guaranteed you'll go in the opposite direction and stay.