I really hate the idea that you guys think you'd 'give' your wife to said man with a billion dollars. as disloyal to the marriage as you sound at the presence of money, you're not the object of affection nor of any consequence in the scenario. actually, all those things would and could still occur without your approval. and, considering that, i would conclude it was never your decision to make, people just wanted to consider your "feelings". you sound more like desperate broke cuckolds looking for a come up off your wife's natural assets.