Yes absolutely. I dont think most people understand what it means to be a man. To be a man, you must be able to bear the weight of the world's expectations.
The best chefs? Men
The best designers? Men
The best athletes? Men
The best writers? Men
The best scientists? Men
The best medical experts? Men
The inventors of martial arts? Men
The people behind every major religion? Men.
I'm not about to raise a boy who isnt dominant in everything he does. The world expects you to be able to excel at everything and wont settle for less. Women wont respect you if you dont excel. Your children wont respect you if you dont excel. Your peers wont respect you if you dont excel. I'm trying to raise a leader not a follower.