Ezekiel 25:17
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Because no one really knew how bad molestation/pedophilia was. Now you read all these stories and all these folks coming forward. How many teachers have been caught with students the past couple years?
Yeah no thanks.
Would you let your daughter have a sleepover with her friend who is from a single dad household?
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Because no one really knew how bad molestation/pedophilia was. Now you read all these stories and all these folks coming forward. How many teachers have been caught with students the past couple years?
Yeah no thanks.
I dont approve of sleepovers in general
Also women are the ones that often lure children to be abused by men so having a woman there also is just as risky
Also women are the ones that often lure children to be abused by men so having a woman there also is just as risky
Social media got people scared of their own shadow. People getting CPS involved and losing custody of their kids for letting them walk home from school or an older brother look after his kid sister while the parents are out.
Mom placed on child abuse registry for letting 13-year-old babysit
As constant adult supervision has become the norm, more and more kids are being reported to the authorities.
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Just yesterday I was told by someone:This mane said a handshake!!
Breh pedophiles are VERY good at hiding their intentions.
“You know how some people lift weights to look strong? Shaking your hand, it feels like you’re the type of person who is just naturally strong.”
Pause-able moment notwithstanding, I’m a physically intimidating person in demeanor and stature.
My point is, when I had this situation happen twice (no sleepover, but a drop off to hang out) both dads knew, I’d tear their jaw from their face if they fukked up.
T. Dubb Ya
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It's sad kids today can't have the same fun we did growing up.. Some of my most memorable memories were when I had and went to sleepovers.. shyt was super fun back then in the 80's.. Unfortunately I get why parents won't allow it these days.. shyt is too risky.
cyndaquil
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Them the main ones who be doing the molesting
The perpetrator is usually someone the victim knows
Ezekiel 25:17
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The problem is, we have no idea how many of those kids were molested back then. Maybe it was far less, maybe far more. Rose tinted glasses.
Having that community sounds great, I mostly experienced that in the countryside when visiting my grandparents never in the city.
ExactlyThis mane said a handshake!!
Breh pedophiles are VERY good at hiding their intentions.
The men would just manipulate the child into thinking it was their fault and the child wouldn’t tell u out of shame. You probably wouldn’t know till long after the incident happened. That’s how they operate. Sometimes it’s out of your control as a parent. It’s not always obvious when it happens.Just yesterday I was told by someone:
“You know how some people lift weights to look strong? Shaking your hand, it feels like you’re the type of person who is just naturally strong.”
Pause-able moment notwithstanding, I’m a physically intimidating person in demeanor and stature.
My point is, when I had this situation happen twice (no sleepover, but a drop off to hang out) both dads knew, I’d tear their jaw from their face if they fukked up.
Also if your child doesn’t like an adult male or female do not have them around that person. Sometimes things happen right under your nose even with ppl you know and trust. Pedos are master manipulators of children, start gas lighting them to break down their instinctive barriers and plant seeds in their head to normalise predatory behaviour.
What man what to have a bunch of young girls screaming and yelling in your house especially when sports or a good movie is on
This nikka need help
This nikka need help
Exactly.
Any parent(s) doing this are foolish.
Again, these are chances you just don’t take.
It’s the same when they have older brothers/relatives in the house. You just don’t do it.
Ppl can feel how they want, but little girls have tragic stories for a reason. Gamble with your kids if you want to
cyndaquil
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Boys getting abused out here too. It is much less likely to be reported.only with the few people that i trust a lot. otherwise no, even with the mum around.
another reason why sons are less work
ExactlyI have two daughters. Unfortunately, sleepovers are a no go. You can do it when you’re 18.
It’s wild because some of my fondest memories were sleep overs with the neighbors and cousins.
You look up the sexual abuse stats and you will see why our generation is more protective of our children. Hell something like 30% of women have been molested/abused and of the 30%, what number is by “family” or people they know.
Sometimes the risk isn’t worth the “reward” of spending the night at your friend’s house. They can spend the evening and get dropped off.
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DJ Paul's Arm
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Times definitely have changed. Growing up in the 90s, kids from school were sleeping over like it was nothing.
With the advancement of tech and exposing these weirdo PDFs on social media, I understand why parents ain’t with it. Shieet back when my sister had sleep overs, all they did was bump Brandy and talk to each other. Now with these smart phones, they might be looking at some bullshyt together.
