Would you pay for your baby mother kids bills if you wasn't together

[avon barksdale]

This is a hard one on my part..I want my kids to live good but I'm not paying for her and her dude to be living on my dime

 

[BaltimoreTwilightMarauder]

Men are trained to be simps from birth. The fact that this is even a question is pathetic.

 

[Pete Wrigley]

You pay whatever the judge tells you to pay

 

[eXodus]

Naw I mean, I feel like if financially you can swing it AND you left them and doing your own thing out here, do whatever it takes to make sure your kid is straight. If their mom is good money wise and not struggling that’s a plus for the kid.

Me personally, I will never have more than one “baby mother” though and hopefully if/when I do have a child, we’re able to make that shyt work for the sake of the kid (and ourselves as well )

I would hate to have a child and not be able to provide a stable nuclear family environment for them.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

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[Ziggiy]

Not for any reason

 

[Neuromancer]

If I'm doing that we might as well be together.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

In my mind that means that they're still smashing.

 

[Yinny]

Is it your responsibility? No.


If you have such a hard-on-women/nosimpzone status to the extent you would see your flesh and blood suffer from their mom’s challenges—- don’t sleep with her. Free game.

 

[King Poetic]

I thank god every night before bed, that I’m not in situations like that

 

[Maximus Rex]

Yes, my baby mother will never want for anything.

Crazy how dudes will let the mother of their children be down bad and be on some shyt

 

[eXodus]

I thank god every night before bed, that I’m not in situations like that

I do the same but probably not as much as I should

 

[Arcavian]

Try to get your kid

 

[eXodus]

Yes, my baby mother will never want for anything.

Crazy how dudes will let the mother of their children be down bad and be on some shyt

One of my exs had a baby.. kid was just like 1 or 2 years old at the time.

shorty cell phone was off, car insurance lapsed, car note on final notice. And she was a sweet girl not the petty type so I know she wasn’t on no rah rah shyt with the baby father.. the type to not even go to the laws to put him on child support papers even though she could’ve.

I was just shaking my head like “damn how you gonna let the mother of your kid be fukked up out here like that”

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Any man with a back bone that moves with these new women
Will not tolerate it
Sure, child support is one thing but I promise you
That woman will never look at you like a man
It may be all shyts and giggles in the beginning
But low key that nikka stunting on you and keeping one foot in your household
All it takes is one argument and guaranteed that bytch will throw that shyt in your face
nikka you ain’t shyt my BF paying all our bills
The lights on because of my BF
I should have all types of Birkins with the money you save by not paying bills
You can’t take me on date night
Where the fukk the money you saving
You not paying bills no way
Also any bytch that’s still accepting this from her BF
Just know that womb ain’t yours if you the new nikka
This is a warning
A woman who doesn’t cut ties to her ex outside of coparenting/child support
You on borrowed time