Now as far as the topic goes.....
If a persons past can jeopardize my future whether financially, emotionally or physically...and they say nothing and I found out, they have to go. If they said it from the start I wouldn't even be with them in the first place.
This.
I have a future to worry about.
If they come out with this at the start, and I choose to continue the relationship (I wouldn't lol) then the L is mine.
Hiding something like this and having it come out and destabilize the relationship is on her.
It's not fair another's past or mistake should negatively effect my future, I won't accept that. No amount of shaming is enough for me to do that.
Some people are not equally yoked. The same goes for the reverse, if a guy was fukking around doing freaky shyt with an obscene body count it is his own fault if the girl of his dreams is not okay with and won't accept that if her own past was relatively tame.