Would you stay with your gf or bf if...?

[The Mad Titan]

Physically there looks changed to were you weren't attracted to them at all in a physical manner?


This could be due to health issues, weight gain or loss, maiming or severe burns.



Lets say you were together long enough to care for or even "love" them and you really love the person that they are. Do you stick by there side or leave?

 

[315]

Idk

 

[OfTheCross]

Physically there looks changed to were you weren't attracted to them at all in a physical manner?


This could be due to health issues, weight gain or loss, maiming or serve burns.



Lets say you were together long enough care even "love" them and you really love the person that they are. Do you stick by there side or leave?

Probably not. But if I love them I'd want them in my life.

There's no point in being together if we're not going to be f*cking tho..

 

[Silkk]

Depends on if its controllable

 

[Cake]

I would leave.

My ex girlfriend lost weight and dumped me. She was never fat she just became a gymrat. And I'm not sure that's why she dumped me but I think it was that and the new found attention.

So yea I'll dump a female quick for any reasons. They don't care neither do I.

 

[Elle Driver]

Unless you're married to them, have kids, although it's a tough situation walking away is sometimes a necessary selfish act. If you can't love them in the state they're in then you need to do them the favor of leaving them because someone else will.

 

[Diondon]

This is a tough question
I'm of the opinion that both males and females should try to maintain themselves for their partner

 

[The Mad Titan]

interesting answers sofar.

 

[At30wecashout]

Honest to god truth is none of us know.

I would be more likely to question the relationship if my partner is straight letting herself go than if she had an illness that was having an effect on her. If im not physically attracted, i probably wouldnt want to be intimate with her, which can cause resentment and further deterioration. Best bet would be to take my lumps and say something, cause god forbid my lady not turn me on but she sees me pop a stiffy for someone else.

I would hope to have the balls to say something once, and if nothing changes, leave.

 

[CinnaSlim]

It depends on what caused the difference in appearance. If it was something they couldnt help then I wouldnt care. If they let themselves go, I would tell them "hey, " and work with them put them on a diet etc. I'm very health conscious. While I do like teddybears, I dont like sloppy fat. I have my limit. I'd end it like Intervention. "If you don't get the help you need, I will no longer support you and stay in this relationship".

 

[VFib]

I honestly don't know. I guess it would depend on what that physical change was. Love is a powerful feeling, IMO. I'm not sure anyone really knows what they will do until they face it.

I can handle weight gain but not to the point where it becomes physically difficult for you to move around. I also wouldn't enable your food addiction.

 

[wickedsm]

im married so i would stay for sure.
idk what i would do if it were another less serious relationship though.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Weight gain (not due to meds/illness) due to being sorry & gluttony - I'm gone.
Accident/Serious illness with side effects - I'll hold him down.

 

[Neuromancer]

Idk.

 

[The BasedFather]

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