Would you stay?

[Pure Water]

I think the topic of weight should be off limits when it comes to women that have given birth. Bodies change. Also contrary to popular belief it’s not always the woman that’s “one cheeseburger away” I’ve seen the skinny minnies struggle as well. With that being said folks should aspire to always look and be their very best for their partners. It’s on them though to decide what that is. It’s not ok to get lazy in a relationship but it’s unrealistic to assume everyone is going to forever stay the same.

But we ain’t talking about that. We talking about this. And this situation is absurd. Just look at her before and after on TikTok. The shyt is outrageous. I’ve always said I don’t expect women to look like they’re 21 for their whole life, but I at least expect for them to give a damn. And she’s 23. If this is how her body responds after one child at such an early age, then we can’t have anymore kids. I’m sorry.

 

[Pure Water]

She gave you a baby, and you're gonna leave her cause she hasn't dropped the weight in the first year of childhood?

Some of ya'll should never ever consider getting married or invest in long term relationships if this is how fickle you are.

nikka she gained more weight than when she was pregnant. I don’t think you’re properly accessing the situation. I ain’t saying I’m leaving her, but it’s definitely on my mind. Before I leave her though, I will give her a chance to slim down a bit. I ain’t expecting her to look like she did before, but bruh. LOOK AT HER!

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

 

[skyrunner1]

i used to think i wanted a thick girl to have my kids cause that’s what i liked

now I’m more cognizant and prefer a slender woman cause if if she balloons it will be to the preferred thick status

Work smarter not harder kings

I had that shyt down to a science at a young age.. I dont even know why lol..

Only peeped that most dudes didnt look at it long term when a friend who knew me was like bro all your ex girls in high school STILL look good even into 30s and after kids.. I was like bro you dont look at the frame overall? Narrow shoulders and shyt, lol.. eating habits?

 

[F*ckthemkids]

nikka she gained more weight than when she was pregnant. I don’t think you’re properly accessing the situation. I ain’t saying I’m leaving her, but it’s definitely on my mind. Before I leave her though, I will give her a chance to slim down a bit. I ain’t expecting her to look like she did before, but bruh. LOOK AT HER!

Yeah while caring for your child. If she gained it out drinking casa migos and eating crab legs, sure...But she's being a dutiful mother who in the first year of her child's life is catering to the needs of that child. So she's feeding the child, bathing the child, changing the child, taking care of the home. Probably eating like shyt, sleeping like shyt, it's no surprise that she's gaining weight. This ain't hollywood where you can just pass off a baby to a nanny and go do a 2 hour zumba class.

Now if you're really invested in this woman then you come up with a plan of attack, and stick to it. Go to the gym together, and make sure you're eating right, so you both can be healthy for the baby.

 

[SupaHotIce]

If you're comfortable making tiktoks looking like that, it's over... you can't use pregnancy as an excuse.

 

[Pure Water]

Yeah while caring for your child. If she gained it out drinking casa migos and eating crab legs, sure...But she's being a dutiful mother who in the first year of her child's life is catering to the needs of that child. So she's feeding the child, bathing the child, changing the child, taking care of the home. Probably eating like shyt, sleeping like shyt, it's no surprise that she's gaining weight. This ain't hollywood where you can just pass off a baby to a nanny and go do a 2 hour zumba class.

Now if you're really invested in this woman then you come up with a plan of attack, and stick to it. Go to the gym together, and make sure you're eating right, so you both can be healthy for the baby.

Bruh I don’t give a fukk. I’m that shallow, I’m sorry.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Bruh I don’t give a fukk. I’m that shallow, I’m sorry.

at least you're honest.

 

[Estarossa]

That’s too much… broad went from good looking to looking like Barney.

 

[jdubnyce]

Bruh I don’t give a fukk. I’m that shallow, I’m sorry.

I respect the honesty

 

[Doobie Doo]

Did anyone else Ssay GOT DAMN when the screen changed?

 

[MoveForward]

Lol @ “our bodies changed” nahhhh bytch you turned into a nasty whale and he gained 10 pounds or so. I would stay though

 

[Pure Water]

It’s this beautiful girl I follow on TikTok that has had two kids. She’s still slim but her stomach fukked up. It’s wrinkly because of the extra skin. I can deal with that. It might be ugly, but it’s something you truly can’t help. I can deal with saggy titties too. But the weight gain you see in the OP, is where I draw the line. It’s just too much for me. We all have our limits. I’m sorry I’m commenting so much, but my feelings towards this are strong. I wouldn’t go an troll her TikTok because that’s lame. But I feel like I can speak to y’all about this.

 

[Lord_nikon]

Is that the same women Im not getting fooled by these shyts anymore,,


Light bright lizzo lips looked thin, compared to the first bytch

 

[F*ckthemkids]

It’s this beautiful girl I follow on TikTok that has had two kids. She’s still slim but her stomach fukked up. It’s wrinkly because of the extra skin. I can deal with that. It might be ugly, but it’s something you truly can’t help. I can deal with saggy titties too. But the weight gain you see in the OP, is where I draw the line. It’s just too much for me. We all have our limits. I’m sorry I’m commenting so much, but my feelings towards this are strong. I wouldn’t go an troll her TikTok because that’s lame. But I feel like I can speak to y’all about this.

Lmao and i'm the other way...I'm sponsoring the tummy tuck and breast lift.