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[Rollo Goodlove]

I keep my girl in check I don't play that

 

[Mr210]

I suck at relationships, I can't even get anything popping with rawtid and she is nothing special

 

[SheWantTheD]

Have crazy girlfriends brehs

 

[Womb Raider]

Have crazy girlfriends brehs

all bytches are crazy

 

[InDePickWest]

Same, our anni is coming up on Sunday but we going through something. I don't enjoy beating around the bust but being in a relationship with a woman will make you do some things

Ain't your girl Asian?

fukk outta here you anime watching lil negro.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm a silent treatment type and don't do conflict. So if there's beef, I'm gone. Either out the room or out the house.

 

[serial]

As cliche as it sounds its best to discuss the issues. Giving her the cold shoulder and not talking to her is acting like one of her female friends. A sit down is the best way.

 

[Womb Raider]

Ain't your girl Asian?

fukk outta here you anime watching lil negro.

lol nikkas are crabs smh

 

[Reginald Noble]

There are some similarities but there are big differences between them. With black women, I usually had the problem with them not doing enough and getting mad when I confront them about it. With my chick, a lot of my problems come from her doing too much and then holding all of it over my head.

I don't think I ever had a black girl as crazy as my girl tho

I don't want to say break up with her, but Vietnamese would be my last choice in Asia for a Black Man. Is she 1st generation American?

There are a lot of factors, the fact of the matter is usually she treats a Black Man similar to how she would treat her Viet Man and doesn't hold her tongue. In many ways she expects you to whoop that ass but American laws do not allow for this. This is why I say Women from certain traditional cultures you can only be happy with them IN their native land because you can beat her butt with a belt (I'm not saying make her bleed) if she gets too crazy. I seen a lot of the older Viet Women they just go off at their husband in America and the husband just sitting there having to take it. A lot of times they just disappear to Mahjong centers somewhere in the city don't come back for hours and barely have a relationship with them. America is simply no good for any Woman it poisons them if they don't have a good strong foundation.

Sometimes I have to get a little rough with my Woman but only in a playful manner. I think if I was with a non-Japanese chick period I'd have to cold open hand palm her cheek AT LEAST once a year to be truly respected as Man of the home.

Don't get me wrong I am not into violence against Women, even in my Martial arts days as a teen sparring with female opponents I would go too easy on them and they would get pissed off.

But the more I grow older the more I realize you have to slap check a bytch when she gets way out of line especially if she's from a traditional culture.

 

[Reginald Noble]

As cliche as it sounds its best to discuss the issues. Giving her the cold shoulder and not talking to her is acting like one of her female friends. A sit down is the best way.

nikka that shyt only works with sane and rational Women from countries like Germany, Japan and in some cases China when the chick comes from an educated family with a strong father. If not - You've got to play the game.

lol nikkas are crabs smh

A lot of these nikkas on the Coli jealous as fukk when a nikka has anything other than a PAWG or a sister.

 

[serial]

I refuse to play the game.. if she irrational or insane during a normal time I dont need her.. irrational I can deal with in times of crisis but otherwise I cant see myself being quiet and acting like a female.

How do you expect a woman to follow your lead when you act just like her?? doesnt add up to me..

 

[International Playa]

It all differs

Argue with her an curse her ass out, then throw her out of the crib like Jazzy Jeff in Fresh Prince

Put her on time out, withdraw any affection, ignore her. It will fukk with her mind.

Women get turned on by get emotional rollercosters. The make up sex is crazy, one of my exs usually would suck the life out of me after days of argueing and igoring


#HOH

 

[dynamik]

Like shît. Letting her know what life is like when you're on longer in the inner circle. It's a Cole World Brehs.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I just say sorry and more on. This pisses them off more than anything. A lot people don't know what to do with themselves if they can't yell and argue it out. I really don't care enough about most things to fight about it. I state how I feel and you state how you feel then it should be done as far as I'm concerned.

 

[Womb Raider]

I don't want to say break up with her, but Vietnamese would be my last choice in Asia for a Black Man. Is she 1st generation American?

There are a lot of factors, the fact of the matter is usually she treats a Black Man similar to how she would treat her Viet Man and doesn't hold her tongue. In many ways she expects you to whoop that ass but American laws do not allow for this. This is why I say Women from certain traditional cultures you can only be happy with them IN their native land because you can beat her butt with a belt (I'm not saying make her bleed) if she gets too crazy. I seen a lot of the older Viet Women they just go off at their husband in America and the husband just sitting there having to take it. A lot of times they just disappear to Mahjong centers somewhere in the city don't come back for hours and barely have a relationship with them. America is simply no good for any Woman it poisons them if they don't have a good strong foundation.

Sometimes I have to get a little rough with my Woman but only in a playful manner. I think if I was with a non-Japanese chick period I'd have to cold open hand palm her cheek AT LEAST once a year to be truly respected as Man of the home.

Don't get me wrong I am not into violence against Women, even in my Martial arts days as a teen sparring with female opponents I would go too easy on them and they would get pissed off.

But the more I grow older the more I realize you have to slap check a bytch when she gets way out of line especially if she's from a traditional culture.

I completely understand your view. shyt, I agree with you. I just don't always have the time/energy to argue about simple shyt. We are both young so 9 times/10 we are arguing over some dumb shyt, tbh. What makes the situation harder is that she doesn't really have anyone in her family who can put her on game (good and bad). Her parents are Viet immigrants, her older brother is gay and her older sister is a thot. She just has all these false convictions about relationships that are either naive or unrealistic and I've been slowly but surely teaching her since we got together. A lot of times I feel like leaving her to believe all of that shyt but I can't really give up on someone who won't give up on me.