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Bolded is facts. I've noticed that most women be at that point(the bolded) by the time the relationship is really over, and they ain't coming back, they're forever ghosting. when a woman's fed up, she is done. On the other hand, IME, a lot of men come back.
Word. Because at that point, I feel like we've given them enough chances and opportunities to rectify the situation or been patient; and it's just done. There's nothing that he can say or do to get back in my good graces especially if I feel that I've made enough compromises and forgiveness. That point of no return. Something in me just shuts all the way down.
 

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I don't want her back, I just want the apology.
Don't allow people to control your emotions. You will end up disappointed every time. When she does apologize, it's going to be bc she's in a desperate situation or strings attached. How is her not apologizing preventing you from moving on?
 

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Don't allow people to control your emotions. You will end up disappointed every time. When she does apologize, it's going to be bc she's in a desperate situation or strings attached. How is her not apologizing preventing you from moving on?
I found out a lot of shyt that she never admitted to me, the shyt I told you about in the pm

I've moved on but it just still disturbs me that I literally was driving a stolen car and had no fukking clue...that while I'm in class this bytch was facetiming her ex in my crib....that even when she didn't have a damn phone she still used free texting apps to contact the same ex.....that she was giving out her number to nikkas we both know.


too many L's for my conscious to handle
 

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:francis:From experience if they come back, you would look more like the scumbag in the light for how you fukked up her heart and mentality. When you screw up it should be one and done. As somebody who done the shyt in the past, I'm really not proud of my actions along with her taking me back after a few days:snoop:.Thankfully, it's all in the past but even to this day I advise to just let it go. Even when I got done dirty, the shyt felt awful trying to get back with the bytch despite her treating me horribly:huhldup:. It's not even worth a question of why...LET IT GO!

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I found out a lot of shyt that she never admitted to me, the shyt I told you about in the pm

I've moved on but it just still disturbs me that I literally was driving a stolen car and had no fukking clue...that while I'm in class this bytch was facetiming her ex in my crib....that even when she didn't have a damn phone she still used free texting apps to contact the same ex.....that she was giving out her number to nikkas we both know.


too many L's for my conscious to handle
First of all, you could be behind bars over some girl that didn't give a f to not put you in harms way in the first place, waiting for that apology behind bars with a fukked up chance at a future. so feel blessed that it didn't turn out that way. Because you know damn well, she's not coming to visit you in lock up or paying your lawyer fees. You're young- I promise you that you're going to look back on this and see it for what it is. Hurt ego is temporary.

and it's not your "conscious"- you are allowing your subconscious to interfere with your conscious thoughts. Meaning the thoughts that you have control of. This is a very insecure and immature person who made a decision to cause drama over jealousy. You were trying to be tolerable of her repeat pattern of mistakes; the only L that you could take at this point is expecting a change of heart from a woman that has none. I think, it's an ego thing for you right now, but it's not your fault that she chose to make those decisions. All the sacrifices that you made for her that weren't worth it- nah.
 

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:francis:From experience if they come back, you would look more like the scumbag in the light for how you fukked up her heart and mentality. When you screw up it should be one and done. As somebody who done the shyt in the past, I'm really not proud of my actions along with her taking me back after a few days:snoop:.Thankfully, it's all in the past but even to this day I advise to just let it go. Even when I got done dirty, the shyt felt awful trying to get back with the bytch despite her treating me horribly:huhldup:. It's not even worth a question of why...LET IT GO!

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breh you say you feel me but you really don't. read my last post and understand that's only the surface...and the situation only lasted 2.5 months.
 

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:ohhh:
"You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
Like resignation to the end, always the end

Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
But I don't wanna live that way
Reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know
But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough"

I don't even go back to women where things ended on good terms. So to be open to one who played me? Yeah it just ain't happening :skip:.

Besides, if she played me, I'm most likely not the one she wants anyway. So why even entertain a possible comeback?
 

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breh you say you feel me but you really don't. read my last post and understand that's only the surface...and the situation only lasted 2.5 months.

:picard:Breh............


:gucci:


:damn:

It couldn't be me dude. I would had been smiling in prison eating ramen slams if a jawn did all of that malicious shyt to me:lupe:
 

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Move on, you will get a woman better than her.

My new girl is hotter than the girl who cheated on me 3 years ago

Reminds me of my ex who put me through hell that I was burning her pictures because she just was so rotten. Years later she ends up getting shot and damn near wheel chair bound. At the end of the day, we were best as friends and nothing more than that:ld:. Karma is real.
 

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First of all, you could be behind bars over some girl that didn't give a f to not put you in harms way in the first place, waiting for that apology behind bars with a fukked up chance at a future. so feel blessed that it didn't turn out that way. Because you know damn well, she's not coming to visit you in lock up or paying your lawyer fees. You're young- I promise you that you're going to look back on this and see it for what it is. Hurt ego is temporary.

and it's not your "conscious"- you are allowing your subconscious to interfere with your conscious thoughts. Meaning the thoughts that you have control of. This is a very insecure and immature person who made a decision to cause drama over jealousy. You were trying to be tolerable of her repeat pattern of mistakes; the only L that you could take at this point is expecting a change of heart from a woman that has none. I think, it's an ego thing for you right now, but it's not your fault that she chose to make those decisions. All the sacrifices that you made for her that weren't worth it- nah.
This whole post is facts. I’ll get it over it one way or another. I’ve just never dealt with this kind of bullshyt. Ever
 
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